How to make my husband love himself more? So far, I feel that I am still the number 1 in my husband's heart, and I don't want to think about it in the future. Let's share our experience with friends:
1. Women should learn to be coquettish. Personally, I think coquetry is an internal skill that women must cultivate. And coquetry should be divided into time, place, occasion and mood. When two people are happy, women can play jokes on their husbands. But when two people are in a bad mood, I usually bury my head in my husband's arms and listen to his heartbeat quietly. When my husband doesn't have time to talk to himself while playing computer games, women can harass him, hehe ... I often sit on my husband's lap or hold him in my arms while playing games. How interesting it is for everyone to play together. ...
2. Women should give men dignity. This dignity includes being in front of friends, parents, colleagues, small families of two people, and even working ability. In front of my friends, I am a woman who listens to her husband's arrangement everywhere, and my friends think I am a good-tempered wife (in fact, I am not). I remember once my husband lost his temper in front of my friends. At that time, most female friends might respond to him, but I silently endured it. His friend's wife thinks I'm a coward, but that's not the case. At this time, let him go down the steps first, and then calm down by himself. When only two people are left, tell him the truth. In this way, he will feel wronged, think that his wife really gives him face, and naturally want to defend his wife in front of friends.
In front of my parents, we ate together, and I washed almost all of them. On the one hand, his parents will feel sorry for his son, on the other hand, his husband will think his wife is very considerate and virtuous. This washing also includes when we eat together at his grandmother's house. If I don't wash, my mother-in-law has to wash. Although I don't want to do it, I will take the initiative to bear it in order to give my husband face.
I don't talk much in front of his colleagues, because he is the protagonist, but only his ornament. So I always listen quietly and smile slightly. If there are his single female colleagues, I will talk to them and deal with them well.
In a small family of two, I told him that he was the head of the family. Since he is the head of the family, it shows that he is strong and needs to take responsibility for the family, and I am willing to be weak (in fact, I am not weak).
In terms of personal ability, I will never belittle my husband, such as "incompetent, incompetent, unable to make money, unable to rise to the official position", because money is very light to me. It is important that two people understand each other and support each other. You should give him more respect and remember to protect your man's dignity, which includes: don't allow others to belittle your husband like this! Because they belittle your husband and you!
3. Women had better not be strong in life or work. So it is estimated that many friends will scold me after reading it. It's not too late to listen to my explanation before making comments. I support women to have their own jobs. To be strong in their jobs, they must do their best to do their own jobs. That's who I am. I can't say that my own work is excellent, but I want to remind my friends that you'd better not show off your achievements or beautiful things in your work in front of your husband after returning home. I believe your husband will be as happy as you. But at the same time, he will also have a deep sense of inferiority or urgency, so try to show off himself in front of him as little as possible. Make him feel like a pillar of his family. Actually, he doesn't know how good you are out there. Don't be brave in life. Don't do everything at home alone. When I hear many friends complain that my husband doesn't do housework at home, I should actually complain to myself, "Why do I do everything myself?" For example, mopping the floor is manual work, and I can let my husband do it, but he won't be coquettish, but don't lose your temper. I have a clear division of labor at home, such as repairing water pipes. It must be done by men. Sometimes the screw is loose, but I can actually tighten it, but I can do anything.
A woman may not be beautiful, but she can't help dressing up. After a long time, people will have visual fatigue. It doesn't matter if you don't dress up before marriage, because we were all young at that time, and youth is capital. But not now. We are afraid of wrinkles, and inappropriate clothes will make us look sloppy in the eyes of outsiders. So pay attention to collocation, color, shoes, bags and headdresses. Especially the decoration on small things. My husband and I can dress casually when we go out to play ball, but I won't go out unless I dress formally in front of his colleagues. I usually don't wear makeup, but I will wear light makeup at this time. You know, my wife's image in my husband's eyes is often evaluated by people around him. They will say "more and more beautiful" when they see you. My husband is very proud.
5. Women should learn to let their men appreciate themselves! Why is the husband tired of aesthetics in marriage and turns his eyes to other beautiful and fashionable young women? I think at this point, a woman as a wife should reflect on herself. Married life is mostly unremarkable. After a long time, maybe no one will notice what the other party is wearing this morning. Since he doesn't pay attention, we must learn to make him pay attention! I usually ask my husband to help me match my clothes. Although he couldn't bear to part with it, he didn't even look up when playing computer and said, Yes, it's nice to be dressed like this! But my strategy is to spoil him and make him look up. As long as he takes a look, he is half successful. He sometimes says, why are you dressed like this? Go and change it! I tried on one dress after another until he nodded. Hehe, in fact, he was admiring himself when he helped him match. It is very likely that he will suddenly find his wife very beautiful! Before going out, I usually grind my husband to help me match it. I think it's quite fun. Think about it, his wife changes every day, and he can't cope. How can he have leisure to deal with other women? My husband just said to me, "It's busy enough to have a wife!
Vicissitudes ~ ~ ~ ~
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