My wife is strict with me. No matter what happens, he is in charge. Married for five or six years, cooking and washing clothes at home is my job, and I am not allowed to take it when I go out to work. ... I am the father of the child, and I have had some similar experiences with you before! Before I had children, my wife was very strict, almost like you. After having children, it's completely different. She has something to do every day. Naturally, she is not so strict with you. After having children, freedom is not so important, and economic conditions are very important! Consider giving children a better educational environment, children's daily expenses and so on! Moreover, our parents are old at this age, and we also want to earn more money for filial piety service while we are young, give them more enjoyment in their later years, run a good family and let parents worry less, and so on! I think you can understand from the above that women's insecurity means being strict with you, telling you to go out and not letting you bring money, and so on. She may be worried that there are too many temptations outside and the social atmosphere is not good! At the same time, you should also communicate with him what you want! For example, it is normal for men to go out for health and entertainment with friends sometimes, and men also need social circles, and so on. Otherwise, he will become an introverted friend and less out of touch with society. In short, find more things for women to do, and she will not bother you so much! Colleagues themselves are more responsible for their families, and women feel that with a good backer, their trust will naturally strengthen!