The sudden maturity of boys will give people a feeling of growing up and being considerate, and make girls feel more secure about their own personality. Women like mature boys, so what are the manifestations of boys suddenly maturing? Let's have a look.

The performance of boys' sudden maturity 1 1. What are the manifestations of men's maturity?

1. Be a gentleman

A mature boy should be polite, educated and gentlemanly, and it should be reflected from the inside out over time. A real gentleman should behave appropriately and speak softly to avoid possible conflicts and unpleasantness in life. The gentleman's behavior in love should first be to let both sides integrate into each other's life, and gradually understand each other's living habits and share them with each other, so that life will have more intersections. However, excessive "gentlemanly demeanor" will make girls feel distant.

Secondly, the gentlemanly demeanor in love is also reflected in the details of life. If you don't let go of anyone who can take care of the details of a girl's life, it will make her feel charming when she gestures. Third, be polite to others, do not conflict with others, do not abuse others at will, and deal with things calmly. Doing so will make girls think that you are a mature person. As the saying goes, it begins with face value, falls into talent, and is loyal to character.

Step 2 keep your promise

In the early days of love and the period of passionate love, it is often easy for us to express our love for each other by making promises to each other. Although there is nothing wrong, it is recommended that boys make a commitment on the premise of their own ability. It's beautiful to make a vow of eternal love, but if it can't be realized, it's a flower in the mirror of the bright moon in the water, which will make girls feel happy. If it can't be realized in the future, it will also reduce their goodwill towards you. Another example is dating in daily life, holiday gifts, etc. If you make a promise, you should try your best to honor it, or you can prepare a small surprise outside the promise to keep love fresh.

3. Have responsibility and responsibility

After the passionate love period, both people's feelings will stabilize, so there will be very realistic problems in front of them, such as future work, life, marriage, housing and so on. This is a very realistic problem faced by contemporary ordinary youth. Girls often expect to have a bright future with you, so boys must shoulder this expectation of girls, be proactive, seize the opportunity, and assume this responsibility. Don't let girls' expectations fail, they will work together for a better life in the future.

4. Give lovers a sense of security.

"Security" is a very subtle thing. In the early days of love, the two sides often do not have conflicts because of their sense of security. After the passion period, the enthusiasm fades and the novelty turns into familiarity, girls will think that you have changed. At this time, patience is particularly important. You have to make the girl feel that you haven't changed in the details of your life. You are still the teenager who is willing to risk his life for her.

Second, the mature characteristics of men.

1. Treat people with courtesy and be personable.

It's easier said than done. Everyone's temperament and efficiency are different, and not many people can tolerate everything.

Always keep your manners and be an atmospheric person, which is the character of mature talents. Such people can give people a comfortable feeling at any time and are particularly easy to get along with.

Some people often haggle over every ounce, cling to small problems and be rude to others. They like to make things difficult for others, which not only can't solve the problem, but also makes the contradiction worse. To put it bluntly, they are naive, so it is easy to forget things.

2. Be calm when dealing with people, and be methodical when doing things.

One of the most obvious characteristics of a mature person is that he is stable, will not panic when things happen, and can cope with them calmly at any time.

Most of us, when we encounter something, often become very flustered. In fact, the more you panic, the easier it is to make mistakes, and the more you panic, the more you can't solve the problem. It is rare for people to settle down and deal with it. Usually only mature people have this quality.

Every girl wants to meet a boy who suits her at the right time and place. A boy with mature characteristics will be very attractive to girls!

The sudden maturity of boys shows 2 1. They have learned to think from multiple angles, and there is always an "alternative plan" for doing things.

The same thing, if you think in another way, the ending will be "reversed." For example, if you see a huge swell in the sea, you can't escape, and it is almost swept away by the waves. You must be angry and in a bad mood Every once in a while, you look for someone to "complain" everywhere, but when you turn a corner, you feel that the waves have not swallowed you up in the end. How lucky you are! You are a lucky man.

The same thing, once some people screw up, they complain about life and are at a loss. However, some people take their time because they have a "second plan". For example, when your house was renovated, you made a mistake in the paint, and as a result, there were messy colors on the wall, which was ugly. You didn't complain, but chose to cover it with another pigment immediately. The colors of the two match perfectly-everything is the best ending.

Yes, a man's maturity means thinking more comprehensively and doing things more skillfully. No one can guarantee that one thing will be 100% successful, but you can predict the worst outcome, and then try to change the outcome and recover the loss, so as to change your mood, and your charm will be "different".

2. Slowly let go of the dream of "scientist, mathematician ...", but struggle more and more.

Men, when they are young, always look down on their eyes. He thinks he is the material to make a lot of money, a man with great potential, but you have not met a "Bole" who appreciates you. You are also very proud of your dreams. You should give a hard performance to anyone you meet, but you are talking about dreams, not reality. When others praise you, you are complacent and feel "serious".

Man, later found himself not a "magic material", like countless ordinary people, maybe you only deserve to be a migrant worker. But you accepted the reality instead of complaining. From now on, you are willing to get up early and get greedy. It doesn't matter if you are a little tired, you can accept it calmly. In your dream, you are "struggling", not "famous all over the world".

Being able to recognize yourself is a sign of maturity. Many people are confused because they overestimate themselves and make useless efforts. Accepting the fact that you are an ordinary person is not simple in itself.

No matter how big things are, I won't lose my temper and my mood will always be "calm".

Men, it is natural to lose their temper, and it is understandable to lose their temper. Middle-aged people, in particular, are old and young, and their lives are on the road of suffering and struggle, feeling that there is no way out. When I got home, I was bored and no one understood.

A mature man won't lose his temper. He tried to control his temper so that he could have a good talk with his family and get along well with others. Of course, his temper did not disappear, but he controlled it, slowly shifting his life goals, changing his views, making the reasons for being angry disappear and his mood calm.

Endure the little things, and it will pass. If you can handle the big things, you will win. A mature man will hold back his temper and hold on to important events in his life. In fact, the bigger a person's temper, the more he can't do anything well, which also causes "grumpiness" in his mind.

4. I don't care about my relatives and friends around me, and my feelings for my lover gradually turn into affection.

Yi Shu said: A mature person often finds that there are fewer and fewer strange people, and everyone has his own difficulties. When you are poor, relatives and friends look down on you, even laugh at you, and still avoid you and leave you.

"No one in downtown asks if you are poor, but you have money and distant relatives in the mountains", which is a vivid portrayal of interpersonal relationships. But you failed to live up to expectations. Don't put the blame on others. You are not respected. That's because you have a problem with your own ability, a bad personality and no "improvement of life" People avoid you because they are afraid that you will never get up.

Many men think that "women with long hair and short knowledge will never understand men's sufferings". That's not true. You lack communication with your lover, and your feelings are weak. When your feelings are covered up by trivial matters of life, you will be tasteless and estranged.

Mature men will understand the difficulties of relatives and friends and understand that they are "involuntarily". I have always trusted my lover, even if my left hand is holding my right hand, I will not let go. He knew that "young couples always care for each other", turned love into affection, and never gave up, avoiding the "No Country for Old Men".

5, become silent, but there is "one's happiness" in my heart.

When a person reaches a certain age, he becomes a taciturn person. It's not that he has nothing to say, but that he doesn't want to say anything. I don't know in my heart, but I don't want to say it. I have to bear it alone.

But mature men don't say anything, but they still have happiness in their hearts, which is their own "little happiness." Maybe he seldom shares it with others, but when he often thinks about it, he looks good and has a smile. For example, he won't publicize the salary increase today, but happiness is rippling in his heart.

Silence is to give up "chatter" and it is a symbol that men are getting stronger and stronger and can carry things more and more. Do well is better than say well.

6. Stop spending money lavishly, learn to save money, and learn to understand and care for your parents.

Money is not everything, but you can't do anything without it. Having a deposit is the foundation of a person, especially a man.

A man who is short of money is looked down upon by his lover. When you are in love, it doesn't matter if you are poor, married or poor. I don't think so. The child looks at you, the wife is counting on you, the parents need you, and the car loan and mortgage need you ... how can you be a man without money? How to look up and be a man?

Mature men have learned to save money and changed the habit of spending money lavishly when they were young. You may have used your parents' money before, or your parents are still young, so you don't have to worry, you can rest assured to spend it. But then you found that "the speed of making money is not as fast as that of parents getting old", so you should be sensible.

A man with these six signs shows that he has matured, his mental outlook is better, his work is more grounded, and he has changed from perfectionism and idealism to realism. Every step of life is getting more and more exciting.

Mature men have unique charm. They don't pretend to be mature, but they become strong inside and their lives tend to be perfect.

Mature men shoulder responsibilities and pressures, not slacking off their lives, but forging ahead.

The performance of boys' sudden maturity is 3 1. The temper is getting smaller and smaller, and the pattern is getting bigger and bigger. You become indifferent to many things. In the face of the trivial things of your detractors, you choose to stay away directly, without thinking at the same level, and it is useless to talk more. Dogs love to chew bones and wolves love to eat meat, which is determined by the environment. If you insist on not letting the dog chew the bone, it thinks you are going to fight with it, but in fact it will bite you twice.

2. There are fewer and fewer expectations for others. The more men who have experienced ups and downs, the more they understand that there is no absolutely reliable person in this world, and those who kiss again may fall down when they are in trouble. I will leave you when my mouth is hard. Don't look for someone to complain and don't expect anyone to help you, because you know that it is friendship for others to help you, and it is human nature not to help you. If you expect too much, you are bound to be disappointed.

3. Start putting career and making money first, don't think about making out with children all day, and entangle love and not love. Mature men are working hard to make money wholeheartedly, because they have eaten enough human suffering and tasted enough human sorrow before they know that without money, you can't even afford a glass of wine when you are sad, and you are not even qualified to be sad. Only when you have money in your pocket can you live with dignity.

Emotions have become more and more stable, and they are no longer so impulsive as when they were young. Adults have learned to borrow their emotions, because they know that they can't solve the problem, and they cry and make trouble, but they turn into silent smiles.

This is maturity. Be patient when you should be patient and cruel when you should be cruel. When a man becomes strong, nothing can stop you, and your life begins to go uphill. The love and happiness you want are on the road.