If you are with positive people, you will not be depressed;
If you walk with the wise, you will be extraordinary.
If you associate with superior people, you can reach the top.
In real life, who you are with is very important, which can even change your growth trajectory and determine the success or failure of your life.
When you try to build a positive energy circle for yourself and get close to excellent and positive people, you will find out involuntarily, and you will also plant their poison.
Friend s is a living example.
She knows her personality better than anyone else. The enthusiasm for doing things for three minutes stems from herself on the one hand and the atmosphere of the circle on the other.
Every time she inspires to lose weight and become a slimming person, people around her always throw cold water on her, or don't take her determination seriously. She cries out for a midnight snack when she has something to do, and insists on the theory that "nothing can be wronged by her stomach". Therefore, S never loses weight, and she simply gives up.
S is motivated to take a certificate, but people around him don't understand it. They have graduated for many years, and they still go back to read books for research. They can't calm down, or even feel a little unnecessary. S has also been discouraged by such voices around, and reading is also lacking.
Recently, however, I found that S has changed. She seldom sends friends and seldom comes to eat midnight snack. Suddenly, I heard that she is preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination, and together with her boyfriend, she still insists on running and fitness every night.
A little out of my expectation, then S sent a message in the circle of WeChat friends: What kind of people you are with, what kind of people you will become, thank you for giving me support, giving me energy and making me become excellent.
There is a picture under the text with a time watermark. At 6: 30 in the morning, the back of her running in sportswear is very youthful, sunny and positive.
I think it must be her boyfriend who gave her this strength.