After a baby eagle was born, it didn't enjoy a few comfortable days, so it had to be trained by its mother almost cruelly. Step 1: You can fly alone, but if you don't practice well, you can't get food from your mother's mouth. Step 2: The mother eagle takes the baby eagles to a high place and then throws them down. Some timid people didn't survive, fell to the bottom of the water and died, but bravely survived. Step 3: The mother eagle breaks most of the bones of the wings of the surviving baby eagle, and then pushes the surviving baby eagle down from a height again. Many young eagles fell dead, but those who survived by luck became the "king of flying". This is almost heartless training, but doesn't the mother eagle feel it? In fact, mother eagle is also very helpless.
For the sake of the baby eagle, it must be. It had some mentality of giving up in the second training, but it didn't give up for the blue sky of children's lives. During the third training, my eyes were full of tears, but it still didn't give up. This is necessary for survival and their future. And in our real life, how many mothers forget to practice their children because they care too much about them? The female eagle looks cruel, but it is tens of thousands of times stronger than millions of female eagles in Qian Qian.
Because I have seen such an amazing scene. That was before an important exam in my middle school. It was really a family mobilization. A girl was sitting on a stone chair by the corridor, and an old woman stood by silently fanning and smiling. A white-haired grandfather trotted all the way, handed the girl a cotton pad and kept saying, "My baby granddaughter, don't catch cold." "A young woman wiped her daughter's temple with cool oil and told her what to pay attention to. The girl listened impatiently while her father greeted the invigilator. Hearing the bell, the girl grabbed the test equipment and ran to the classroom quickly, almost stumbling. The family behind her was shouting, "Be careful and work hard." The girl turned her head and replied in disgust, "Stop nagging, I get it". The whole family smiled indifferently.
What a sad scene, how many times such an example has happened in our life. In fact, the author is particularly right. Each of us has our own vast and beautiful blue sky, and we all have a pair of wings to prepare for the blue sky, which are passion, will, courage and hope. But if our wings are broken and we are depressed, can we fly again? My answer is "impossible", of course, because we have been spoiled since childhood and have never been honed, so we will be very weak after our wings are broken and we will never fly.
Therefore, we should be more strict with ourselves and flatly refuse the connivance of our parents. We should be responsible for our future and strictly regulate our behavior, so we should start from now, from life and from small things.
Experience 2 Feelings after Flying On the vast Amazon Plain, there lived an eagle named carved eagle, known as the "King of Flying". It has a long flight time, fast speed and agile movements, and is the best among eagles. Small animals found by it are generally difficult to escape its capture.
But who would have thought that there was a drop of blood behind the gorgeous flight.
When a baby eagle is born and doesn't enjoy a few comfortable days, it will go through the cruel training of its mother. With the help of the mother eagle, it won't be long before the baby eagle can fly alone, but this is only the first step, because this kind of flying is only a little better than crawling. Young eagles need hundreds of trainings, otherwise, they can't get food from their mothers. In the second step, the mother eagle takes the young eagle to a high place, or at the edge of a tree or a cliff, and then throws them down. Some baby eagles were killed by their mothers because they were timid. But the mother eagle will not stop training them. Mother eagle knows that without such training, children can't fly high in the blue sky, and even if they can, it's hard to catch food and starve to death. The third step is full of cruelty and terror. Those young eagles who are pushed off the cliff by the mother eagle and can successfully fly will face the final, most critical and most difficult test, because most of their growing wings will be cruelly broken by the mother eagle and then pushed down from a height again. Many young eagles will become tragic sacrifices to fly at this time, but the mother eagle will not stop this "bloody" training, because although there are painful tears in her eyes, it is also.
Each of us has our own vast and beautiful blue sky, and we also have a pair of wings to prepare for the blue sky. But without the cruelty of the mother eagle, would there be this vast blue sky today? I don't think so.
If not, carved eagle will lose its only chance and will never be connected with the blue sky.
If we don't do this, carved eagle will lose this only chance, and it will always be connected with the blue sky. If not, carved eagle will lose its only chance and will never be connected with the blue sky. But without the cruelty of the mother eagle, would there be this vast blue sky today?
The growth process of the eagle has gone through hardships, but it is indeed its own dream that can soar in the vast sky. Without the baptism of wind and rain, there would be no beautiful rainbow. Some parents know that spoiling will bring bad consequences, but they still spoil blindly. Is this love? Maybe they never realized it was harmful! When the pain comes, they will blame the children for not knowing how to bear it. Eagle's love for children seems extreme or slightly cruel, but behind it is the joy of success and the glory after nirvana. Are they not as good as an eagle? That's true. It is better to let them fight like eagles than to let them do nothing. Success depends on yourself, and you can't blame your parents for not working hard. If parents can be as' cruel' as eagles, then they are really helping their children.
How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? The growth of the eagle tells us that only those who can stand the test can survive from the dark camp and move towards the light.
After flying, the road of life is always ups and downs, just like the sea, sometimes calm, and sometimes set off stormy waves. How should we face setbacks?
Today is a sunny day. I picked up the primary school Chinese extracurricular reading, opened the book and read it meticulously. After the experience, I was attracted by flying. ...
It seems that no bird dares to compete with carved eagle. Its flying time, speed and agility are the best among eagles. But who would have thought that there was a drop of blood behind the gorgeous flight. It takes thousands of cruel trainings to grow from a young eagle to an eagle. Without these experiences, the eagle can never touch the blue sky. The mother eagle built the blue sky of children's lives with bloody training.
You see, those children who are in trouble, those children who unfortunately go to school with their fathers behind their backs, are successful, successful and famous because they don't bow in the face of pressure and setbacks. It is this frustration that has tempered their will again and again, and those children who grow up under excessive doting are also very vulnerable because of lack of pressure. Just like flowers in a greenhouse, they can't stand the wind and waves, can't stand the test, and shrink back when they encounter difficulties. On the way forward, there are many bumps. We have to tell ourselves: "No one can help us solve the disaster except ourselves!"
Life without stress seems relaxed and casual, but in fact it is as empty as a sail without wind. Fragile. Without pressure, life will be bleak. Don't be afraid of stress, so that you won't fall down when carrying heavy loads. Pressure is the driving force for us to move forward and the paving stone for us to realize our ideals.
Each of us has our own vast and beautiful blue sky, and we also have a pair of wings ready to fly in the blue sky, that is, excitement, will, courage and hope. But our wings are often broken and become weak. If so, you must endure severe pain, refuse pity, and never fall and fly! Only in this way can we overcome difficulties and reach the other side of victory.
Experienced flying, no baptism of wind and rain, no beautiful rainbow! I am shocked by the cruel training of the mother eagle and full of love for the young eagle. I know that mother eagle is cruel to her children on the surface, but behind it is the joy of success.
The growth process of the eagle has gone through hardships, but it is indeed its own dream that can soar in the vast sky. Without the baptism of wind and rain, there would be no beautiful rainbow. Eagle's love for children seems extreme or slightly cruel, but behind it is the joy of success and the glory after nirvana.
There are three processes for a tigress to raise her cubs. At first, it came back from hunting, tore the tender meat into pieces with its claws and fed it to the cubs. Later, it came back from hunting, ate meat by itself, and threw the remaining bones to the cubs to chew. Later, it came back from hunting, ate the meat and threw away the bones. When the little tiger wants to eat, he shouts and refuses to eat. A few days later, the cub was so hungry that he left his mother to find food and never came back.
It can be seen that for the sake of children's survival, animal training for children is cruel. But it is precisely because of this that we have the magnificence of "the eagle soaring in the sky" and "the roaring tiger forest".
In our real life, how many mothers forget to experience their children because of their love for them? Under the doting of their parents, these people are like flowers in a greenhouse. They can't stand a little setbacks or storms, and they will certainly have little promise when they grow up. I also understand that teachers and parents are strict with us, that is, they want us to grow up.
Each of us has our own vast and beautiful blue sky, and we also have a pair of wings ready to fly in the blue sky, that is, passion, will, courage and hope. But our wings are often broken and become weak. If so, you must endure severe pain, refuse pity, and never fall and fly! Only in this way can we overcome difficulties and reach the other side of victory. How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? The growth of the eagle tells us that only those who can stand the test can survive in the dark and usher in the light.
After watching Fly After Experience, I was deeply shocked for a long time. For the sake of children's "survival", carved eagle's training for children is cruel, and the three steps of training really look like "devil training". But mother eagle knows that "no one can help little carved eagle fly, except herself".
I can't help thinking about ourselves. In educating children, it has been the common wish of every parent since ancient times to expect children to succeed and women to be popular. Especially with the establishment and development of market economy, people are more strongly aware that in the future society, the survival of the fittest will lead to more intense competition. The center of gravity of a small family naturally focuses on children. Leading to the "thousands of pets" of the only child, I am afraid that it will melt in my mouth and fall in my hand. Excessive "protection" makes children hot and cold; A coarse diet should not be refined; The tone can't be lighter, and if you make a mistake, you will run away and commit suicide (such news reports are endless). No wonder some people sigh: "children are really happy now, but happiness is worrying!" "
Another story about animals taming their cubs says that there are three processes for a tigress to raise her cubs. At first, it came back from hunting, tore the tender meat into pieces with its claws and fed it to the cubs. Later, it came back from hunting, ate meat by itself, and threw the remaining bones to the cubs to chew. Later, it came back from hunting, ate the meat and threw away the bones. When the little tiger wants to eat, he shouts and refuses to eat. A few days later, the cub was so hungry that he left his mother to find food and never came back.
It can be seen that for the sake of children's survival, animal training for children is cruel. But it is precisely because of this that we have the magnificence of "the eagle soaring in the sky" and "the roaring tiger forest".
I have also read such a story: one is the son of a rich man and the other is the son of a poor man. The rich man's son had no worries about food and clothing all day, bullied people everywhere, made friends indiscriminately, and finally embarked on the road of no return. And that poor child has lived a sensible life since childhood, helping his father to do things. Although he is young, he is very opinionated when things happen. In the end, he became a successful person, and people around him praised him: "The children of poor families are the masters early." Aside from the difference between the rich and the poor, the key to the different fate of the two children lies in the different education given to their children by their parents. For the healthy growth of children, parents should give their children full love, but excessive love has become doting, doting and laissez-faire, which is harmful to their health.
Writing here, my mood can't be calm for a long time. As a kindergarten teacher, I have seen too many situations: some parents never see the shortcomings in their children's eyes. When children do something wrong, these parents can always find one excuse after another for them. Spoiled, indulgent, and responsive, for fear that children will be "wronged." Take good care of your daughter, even pack your schoolbag, dress, fold the quilt, feed and so on. It seems that my enthusiasm is "excessive"
In fact, our parents may not have noticed that endless love is quietly breaking children's wings against the wind and clouds. Moreover, the more this "love", the greater the possibility of this "destruction". It's like a brave baby eagle. If its parents always spoil it, always let it stay in a warm nest and enjoy its success, and never guide it to tide over the difficulties and see the world, then how can it fly high and soar in Wan Li in the future?
To tell the truth, all parents in the world don't love their children. However, wise parents fully know what is spoil and kill. I read the newspaper recently and saw some such news. First, a millionaire couple from the United States came to China to travel together. One day, my daughter, who is in middle school, called overseas and said that her pocket money was used up when her parents left. Can you withdraw some from the bank? The "stingy" rich man immediately replied, "You can do hourly work or send newspapers to solve the problem." Second, the developed and wealthy Japanese deeply feel that the entrepreneurial spirit of the younger generation is far less than that of the older generation, so they try their best to educate their children to suffer. One school, in order to educate students not to forget the most difficult days in the past, cooked a "bitter meal" for their children. As a result, the child cried for three days in the face of the bran vegetables that adults had eaten in the past and refused to eat them. The school is unshakable. On the fourth day, the children finally swallowed this bitter meal. There are also nearly 800 kindergartens in Japan. In order to enhance children's physique and ability to keep out the cold, and cultivate their perseverance and hard-working spirit, children are given "freezing exercise". Children in "cold schools" should run naked, attend classes and exercise in cold weather, even if the temperature is below zero. Japanese parents also send their children to isolated islands and forests, so that they can set up camp and "save themselves" without teachers, dry food and water. In America, parents also try their best to cultivate their children's independence. After graduation, children will go out into the society and stand on their own feet. If a child comes back to live with his parents, it will be regarded as a failure in his career, usually paying rent to his parents and paying for meals at home.
These practices seem a bit unkind and cruel on the surface, but it is far from wise to let children spend their own money, eat their own food, sweat their own sweat and do their own thing.
Survival of the fittest is not only a natural law, but also a law of human society. In this case, we must understand that doting is not love, but sweet destruction to children. Whether it is "rich" or "poor", children should be allowed to enjoy less and suffer more. Only when children learn to stand on their own feet from an early age can they hold up their own sky when they grow up. It is also a "hardship and tempering method", which allows children to work more, sweat more, endure more hardships and hardships, stimulate the enterprising spirit of hard struggle, develop the ability to live independently, and establish a sense of self-reliance and self-improvement. If children have a hard-working spirit, a sense of self-reliance and self-improvement, and achieve a high level of cultural literacy in their studies, they will certainly make great achievements in their careers in the future. Care for children, love moderately, care appropriately and look to the future. Love when you should love, and learn to let go when you should let go. Don't be too soft-hearted, harden your heart and collect half of your love. Imagine a child who can't even peel an egg. What can he do? Without independence, self-care and self-reliance, how can we adapt to the competitive society in the future? Sometimes "cruel" love is more valuable than doting!
Thoughts on flying after experience 6 I read the article "Flying after experience" today, and I was deeply touched. After reading it, I understand a profound truth.
Do you know why the eagle in The Carver has the title of "King of Flying"? Because of its long flying time, fast speed and agility, it is the best among eagles. But you will know, how did they grow up?
You may not believe it, after the baby eagle is born, it will go through the cruel training of the mother eagle in a few days, and it will fly better than climbing first; Then, the mother eagle will throw the young eagle from a height, and many timid young eagles will be killed alive. But only in this way can the young eagle fly into the blue sky. Finally, the key to the growth of the young eagle: the mother eagle will break the wings of the young eagle! Everything depends on yourself!
No one can help carved eagle fly, except himself!
In fact, each of us has our own vast and beautiful blue sky, and we also have a pair of wings to prepare for the blue sky, that is, passion, will, courage and hope. Sometimes, our wings will break and we will become weak. If so, can you endure severe pain, refuse pity, and never fall?
I can, because I have self-confidence, a firm will and believe in myself. One day, if my wings are broken, my will will heal me. If my wings become weak, self-confidence will make me full of vitality.
Now, let's spread our wings and fly towards the bright front, without fear or timidity! Fly! Fly freely!
Reflections on flying after experience 7 I read an article entitled "Flying after experience" today. After reading it, I was moved to tears.
This article mainly talks about: On the vast Amazon plain, there lived an eagle named carved eagle, who was called "the king of flying". It has a long flight time, fast speed and agile movements, and is the best among eagles. Small animals found by it are generally difficult to escape its capture. But who would have thought that behind that brilliant flight, there was a tragedy of a drop of blood. When a baby eagle is born, it does not enjoy a few comfortable days, and it will be brutally trained by its mother. The mother eagle, in particular, will cruelly break most of the bones of the young eagle's wings, and then throw the young eagle off the scary cliff and let them fly desperately. If not, carved eagle will lose its only chance and never get in touch with the blue sky.
After reading the complete article, I can't be calm for a long time. I thought about the bits and pieces of our usual life. My parents are also very strict with me at ordinary times: I always let myself solve problems and never help me solve any problems; If I still can't solve it, let me look up books or dictionaries and computers; Also let me wash clothes, wash dishes and sweep the floor by myself ... because my father often tells me, "Only by exercising from an early age can I fly to my blue sky when I grow up."
Each of us has our own vast and beautiful blue sky, and we also have a pair of wings to prepare for the blue sky, which are passion, will, courage and hope. But our wings are often broken, and we will become weak. If so, can we endure the pain and never fall or fly?
After flying, everyone's life will have many ups and downs. Every time you cross a hurdle, the beautiful sunshine will smile.
"Flying after experience" proves this point. After the storm, there must be a rainbow. Carved eagle is known as the "King of Flying". Its agility, speed and long flight time are among the best among hawks. But this "most" contains a tragic drop of blood.
After the baby eagle was born, it could not enjoy a comfortable life for a few days, and it had to receive cruel training from the mother eagle. As long as it can fly, it will be taken to the edge of a cliff or a tree by the mother eagle, and some will be killed. Those who survive will also receive more cruel training. The mother eagle will cruelly break most of the bones of their growing wings and then push them down from a height. If the young eagle can fly with pain, its bones will grow again, its wings will become stronger and stronger, and the blue sky of life will wave to it.
Anyone in China still remembers the Athens Olympic Games four years ago. China's men's gymnastics team made many mistakes from the preliminary round to the final round, and lost to the Japanese team, the American team and the Romanian team, and won the fifth place, handing over an incredible answer sheet to the people of the whole country. At this time, all the gymnasts didn't get down or give up. They made a wish to the people of the whole country, hoping to win the men's team championship in the 2008 Olympic Games! They said so and did so. The Beijing Olympic Games officially opened on August 8, 2008, and the China Gymnastics Men's Team achieved a perfect ending. The medal reached 9 gold 1 silver and 4 bronze, which not only surpassed the best achievement in history in an all-round way, but also made people admire that the men's event achieved the miracle of "winning the championship as soon as they entered the competition", the haze in Athens was completely overthrown, and gymnastics in China reappeared brilliantly!
In fact, each of us has a pair of invisible wings and a blue sky of our own, and our wings will break one day. Do you have the courage to fly? There are always many bumps and twists and turns on our way forward. We should tell ourselves, "No one can help us solve the disaster except ourselves!"