Tofu, eating tofu, now refers to flirting, taking advantage of others. In addition, it means joking; In the past, tofu was included in the meals prepared for bereavement, so mourning for bereavement was called eating tofu, also called eating tofu rice.

To fill their stomachs, some people often have the cheek to eat rice. After a long time, "eating tofu" means taking advantage. And using men to "eat tofu" for women means that men take advantage of women.

Avoid being "tofu":

1, making up reasons at random

When you don't want to see him. If he wants you to drink, tell him: I'm busy. If he wants to take you to some places of entertainment, just tell him: I still have unfinished homework.

Step 2 politely refuse

Tell him that his "violation" of your body makes you feel uncomfortable, and I hope he can stop doing so; What needs to be remembered is that when you tell him, you must be firm and serious, otherwise, he will think that you are just pretending to be cute, which is not good.

Tell him that maybe he can do this when you are closer in the future, but not yet; Tell him that rejecting him is not because of him or his behavior, but because you are not in the mood today.