Then they picked up their shoes and taught the two children a lesson, dragged them back to the table and sat there to eat. The two children wolfed down food stains all over their faces. So the two babies were scolded by their father again. When parents took their two children to dinner, smoke filled the air, and bad feelings spread everywhere, even affecting the dining atmosphere of the whole restaurant. Dabao looked at the table while eating, curious and confused. Finally, the couple complained to each other and left with their children.
The daily education of parents determines the future upbringing of children.
As the saying goes, Rome was not built in a day. When you take your child out, you should know that the educational method of taking care of the child outside simply doesn't work. You can only yell at the child for others to see it out of face.
We often see some "Xiong Haizi" in restaurants, making noise or running around while eating, which is related to their daily education, not on a whim.
Some children eat badly, and some even lie prone on the table, tossing the food on the plate, slurping when they see the soup they like, no matter what they put in their bowls.
Therefore, parents should pay attention to cultivating children's table manners in their daily lives. You can know a person at a meal, and the behavior at the dinner table can reflect a person's daily accomplishment. Parents' daily education determines their children's future education.
Teach children these 8 table manners.
1, let the elders eat with chopsticks first. The younger generation can't eat, wait for the older generation to sit down and start eating. Don't move chopsticks in front of your elders.
2. Be single-minded when eating. Teach children to concentrate on eating, and don't play with toys, watch TV or play with mobile phones while eating.
Don't just stand up and reach for your distant plate. You can ask someone next to you to help you cross or turn the turntable.
4, don't pick and turn in the plate, keep the tableware clean and tidy. Some children always pick their favorite dishes and then rummage through the plates with chopsticks. Some people put all the dishes on their own plates, which is selfish and impolite. When eating, don't put it anywhere, making your face a mess. Don't always think that someone will clean it up. Too messy will bring trouble to others.
5. Don't pat loudly while eating. Tell your child to chew slowly when eating, keep his voice as low as possible, and it is best not to make a sound when drinking soup.
6. Don't talk loudly and don't beat the dishes. Some children like to shout loudly or beat plates and bowls when eating. Other children like to point at others with chopsticks, which is disrespectful and very impolite.
7. When sneezing, turn over and cover your nose with paper. Tell children not to sneeze on the dining table, which will make the food unsanitary and affect others' appetite.
8. Say thank you to others for their help. When others help pass tableware and food, or when someone gives encouragement and blessings at the dinner table. Tell the children to thank them politely.
There is a Japanese proverb: You can tell the origin of a person by the way he holds chopsticks. The manners that people inadvertently reveal when eating can better show their cultivation and connotation. The attitude of treating people and manners at the dinner table can reflect a person's education and character. A etiquette teacher once said that when you invite people to eat, you should carefully coordinate with the guests' eating speed. You can't put down your chopsticks before you finish eating, because once the host stops eating chopsticks, the guests will be embarrassed to continue eating. This idea of empathy at the dinner table is a high emotional intelligence performance that goes deep into the bone marrow. Therefore, if you are cultivating children with high emotional intelligence, you should know these table manners.
So, how should parents cultivate their children's table manners?
Teach your children to eat out step by step. If a child has impolite behavior, parents should never reprimand him in public, which will hurt his self-esteem. You can patiently explain to your child in the future. Similarly, parents should also reflect on themselves and see what they have neglected in the process of educating their children.
In daily life, when a family eats at home, they should also communicate more, set rules and pay attention to table manners. Point out the children's shortcomings in time and guide them step by step.
Parents should set an example. Parents want their children to be attentive and polite when eating. First of all, they should do it themselves, so that the child can understand naturally through listening and listening, and his performance will be the same as that of his parents. That's how you learn table manners.
My Dabao is an out-and-out "snack". You can't stop talking when you see something to eat, and you won't stop until you finish eating it. But when eating, even if he likes food again, he won't pick up chopsticks until Dad Bao and I say "Let's go" at the table. This habit was formed at an early age, even when taking him out.
It can be seen that parents' words and deeds are the best way of education.
In the morning, my mother came to talk:
Good table manners will make children look more educated. It can also enhance self-confidence, make children more popular and have high emotional intelligence. So parents must cultivate their children's table manners in time.
A second-born mother who started writing in the early hours of the morning, I wrote down my heart by hand, and every bit was my parenting experience with my two children. I hope my parenting experience can help you a little!
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