What did the girl say you wanted to express?
Xiaopa cuisine, Yunguichuan dialect, 2022 network language.
Refers to a person with a poor capacity for drinking who is as soft as cooked cabbage when drunk, and his legs are weak and he can't stand straight even if someone helps him; It also refers to people who are weak or listless.
Since 2022, there have been many videos with similar plots on the short video platform: several people are holding a friend who has drunk too much, and the voice-over is "Please have a side dish, a side dish, and you will get drunk as soon as you drink it".
extended meaning
Refers to a person with a poor capacity for drinking who is as soft as cooked cabbage when drunk, and his legs are weak and he can't stand straight even if someone helps him; It also refers to people who are weak or listless.
What do you mean by "small party"?
Xiaopa cuisine is a dialect in Sichuan, Guizhou and other places, which means that people are weak, their strength is not good, and they can do nothing. Compared with others, it is not as good as others' meaning, just like cooked cabbage, which is very soft and has the same meaning as standing, but it is generally not derogatory, just a teasing word.
For example, if you get drunk after drinking a bottle, you are a vegetable picker, but there are also some side dishes that say you are my dish. For example, XXX is my side dish. Come to my bowl.
More explanations:
Xiaopakai means "jiaozi", which is a derogatory term, but it should mean what you mean, without malice.
When we say grilled vegetables here, we just don't mean anything, which means that you can't be as soft as cooked cabbage and won't harden.
You are my little party food. Come to my bowl quickly. It's just the dialect of this place. Every place has a dialect, right?
How to reply that I have a small party?
Tell me directly that although I am a vegetarian now, I am not discouraged. I have been trying to improve my ability. Please don't look down on me. I will definitely make excellent achievements and make everyone look at me with new eyes.
Only by replying to each other with a serious attitude and letting them respect themselves politely can we avoid contradictions and communicate happily in future exchanges.