Text | June Min -01 The world is so colorful and everyone can find something they like.
Of course, you can't just be satisfied with the pleasure of eating, drinking, having sex, or the pleasure of sex. You must know that this is at best the instinct of animals. This instinct does not even require brain thinking and acquired experience.
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As an advanced species, humans pursue higher-level preferences after satisfying this instinctive physiological need.
For example: This kind of liking will make people more outstanding and unique.
At the same time, when you like something, congratulations!
That also means falling in love with something that makes you uncomfortable.
-02 Here, I would like to mention a person who is the pride of us Chinese people.
This person is Sun Yang - a swimmer who has won numerous Olympic awards and made great contributions to the national swimming sports industry.
Sun Yang started learning swimming at the age of 5 and regarded swimming as a career development.
The swimming pool is Sun Yang's battlefield. Once he enters the water, he is as brave and fast as a great white shark in the water, as if he was born for this stage.
Swimming made Sun Yang a success, and it also made us remember Sun Yang and be proud of him.
But some people may not know how much he paid for his love for swimming.
Due to years of training in the swimming pool, the lines on his hands have almost been worn away.
Since Sun Yang became famous, he has endured a lot of negative pressure, not just mentally, but physically. He had surgery for paronychia, a dislocated right thumb, a fractured right leg and then went into the water to train after 11 days... countless times.
Blood and tears tested this man who regarded swimming as a part of his life, but he never gave up his love for swimming.
He has been working hard to prove himself with his achievements and give those who create rumors and troubles a clear slap in the face.
Liking is really something that requires a lot of time, money, and perseverance, but the joy and sense of accomplishment we get from it also go both ways.
Others may find it painful, but you can get great satisfaction and enjoyment from it.
Because I like it, I am willing to give it; because I like it, I am willing to bear the pain it brings; and because I like it, my life becomes shining.
Although love itself is difficult, it is also enjoyable.
-03 If you like it, you will fall in love with it, but I also like that there is a love rival called Temptation, who always comes out to cause trouble!
I used to love reading novels, and it was so enjoyable to flip through the pages of the book.
Only when I started writing novels did I realize that it was a particularly torturous process, especially one that required both willpower and brain power.
So from now on, I have deep respect for those writers who can insist on writing daily and make writing their profession!
Why do you say this?
Because since I fell in love with writing, the time for entertainment has gradually become less and less.
For example, when people go to play mahjong, sing karaoke, or eat delicious food, they feel all kinds of itchy, but once they go there and have a good time, most of the time when they return to the dormitory, they can wash up and go to sleep.
Therefore, I could only shirk all kinds of excuses, and then return to the dormitory, where a lonely figure sat in front of the computer and thought hard, sometimes typing on the keyboard until 1.2 o'clock.
My position happened to be facing the balcony on the eighth floor. When I turned around, I could see the pitch black outside the balcony, like a natural black background.
In addition, it is also because of the need for writing that I take the initiative to read more books, news, and movies to enrich myself, so that now I feel that if I don’t read for three days, I will look disgusting and have no food in my stomach.
This process is like cooking a pot of delicious soup. You must first put in enough ingredients, and then wait patiently. Don't be anxious yet. If you are anxious, you won't be able to eat hot tofu, and the taste will be different if the heat is just an inch different.
Although this process is relatively long and tiring, when the soup is ready and the tasters praise it, I feel happy to drink the soup I made by myself.
Everyone has the same amount of time in a day, and there is only so much time. No matter whether you are poor or rich, there is only so much time allocated to everyone, and it will be gone when you use it up.
When you like something, it also means that you need to devote a part or even a large proportion to it.
Humans are animals of desire. They always want more and more things, so temptations become harder to refuse. This means that in addition to the things we like, there are many temptations that are occupying our time.
then what should we do?
Either choose to be drunk under temptation, or stick to what you like.
Since ancient times, you can't have your cake and eat it too.
-04 Why do A and B like the same thing, but A always does it better than B?
After careful analysis, I found that I like it at different levels.
To use an unreasonable analogy, the immortals in fantasy novels must pay attention to their own cultivation if they want to cultivate immortality and ascend to the Tao. The more Tao they understand, the higher they will be.
As I write this, I think of a friend from high school. Let’s use A instead.
A is a very good student in mathematics, and his love for mathematics is beyond the comparison of me and other scumbags.