First of all, bless you!

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I am from Shangrao, Jiangxi. When a woman here wants to get married, the parents of both parties will meet to discuss the wedding.

Ask your parents to talk to the girl's parents, one based on their own financial strength, and the other based on the attitude of the girl's parents.

Is there such a thing as a betrothal gift? Some parents give a lot, such as 60,000 or 80,000. If the woman's family is well-off, the dowry may be more than the betrothal gift you gave, such as a house, a car, and electrical appliances. You don't have to worry about them all.

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If a girl comes from an average family, her family will buy her a dowry according to the betrothal gift you give her.

Therefore, this money is basically yours and your wife’s.

As for customs and etiquette, if you marry a woman from the city, it won't be so troublesome. It's just an engagement and marriage.

When you get engaged, you may or may not invite guests. All you need to do is sit down and have a meal with your family.

Before the wedding, book a hotel, prepare a wedding car, choose a wedding dress, and pick up the bride as early as possible on the wedding day.

Wedding cars are becoming more and more stylish now, and the bridal fleets seen in urban areas are basically BMWs and Mercedes-Benz.

Generally, hotels have standards for wedding banquets, such as 588 per table or 888 per table.

There are also higher specifications.

The smoke on the table is said to be Chinese and golden.

There are also more upscale ones to go to the Yellow Crane Tower.

Guests who come to dinner will be given a red envelope when they enter, and a wedding candy when they leave.

Generally, the wedding banquet of the mother's family is held at noon, and the wedding banquet of the husband's family is held in the evening.

At the wedding banquet, the bride and groom have to toast from table to table. Hey, be careful if someone drinks.

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