When the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is tense, as the daughter-in-law, you have to think of some tricks to ease the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, such as food methods, Internet access, etc.

Many family conflicts are caused by discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Although I love my husband very much, I really can't stand my mother-in-law putting women in a dilemma. Everything comes from life, but it still needs to be solved in life.

First of all, food partners

Such a plot can often be seen in Korean dramas. The old lady complained in front of her daughter-in-law every now and then: "When I get older, I just want to eat something good, but I don't know why I am so greedy." In fact, it is not only the old ladies in Korea who are greedy, but also the old ladies in China. Don’t forget, food is the best communication tool.

So, don’t patronize yourself as a gourmet. Once a month, once in a while, you cancel a date with a friend and take your mother-in-law to eat snacks she hasn't eaten before. Even if it is not to her taste, there is a saying that "a soft-mouthed person can eat people", but she will not be praised. I believe she won't say anything bad about you.

If you like to eat the same dishes, and your mother-in-law is a master of cooking, it would be even better. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can jointly study how the dishes in other restaurants are cooked. In the long run, with the friendship between classmates, what is the chance of Cold War friction?

Second, surfing the Internet

Who said that only young people like to surf the Internet, and who said that the elderly are slow to respond? Nowadays, more and more elderly people have become Internet users. Therefore, as long as your mother-in-law is literate, we should quickly start computer literacy for her. First of all, it will make the old lady fashionable, and secondly, you will finally have the opportunity to educate her.

Although it may be hard and tiring, you will soon find that it feels good to be trusted by her. When your mother-in-law broadens her horizons, she will naturally be grateful to you. Where does she find the time to pick on your shortcomings?

Third, go shopping

It is a woman’s nature to love beauty. No matter what age a woman reaches, she believes that shopping, especially buying clothes, will always be her favorite thing to do. My mother-in-law takes her grandson with her all the time, so she doesn’t wear too many clothes and doesn’t have time to go shopping. Especially after the baby goes to kindergarten, isn't it the time to dress up as an old lady?

While shopping, I not only relaxed my mother-in-law's mood, but also found that they like the same style of plaid skirts and the same color curtains and tablecloths. These different languages ??can become a bridge of friendship between two people.