The closer and longer a couple's relationship is, the fewer other partners they have to choose from, and the more painful a breakup will be. Continuously shape your own independent personality and constantly improve your own three views. It will be easier and the success rate will be much higher if you have a relatively clear three views and love views before looking for someone similar to yourself. You also have to understand that liking and love contain different things. A life where you can get along with each other and feel comfortable with each other is the most likely to last. Falling in love is just an experience. It does not necessarily determine what kind of pressure is bound to you in this life. Whether it makes you suffer or makes you grow depends on you. Emotional happiness must be controlled and fought for by yourself. Falling out of love represents the end of an intimate relationship, and the formation process of this relationship is about you adapting to each other.

It's like being accustomed to eating delicious food in a certain restaurant, and suddenly one day the restaurant closes and disappears. You have invested so much in this inappropriate relationship, and you can't get back what you paid before. It means that all your investment has been in vain and will never come back. Now, this person no longer has a relationship with you, and you will no longer have any contact with him. What a lonely heartache this must be in comparison. The beginning of any love is beautiful, and human nature itself misses beautiful things. Since breaking up for some reason, it is equivalent to losing the opportunity to find the beautiful things, so it is natural to be sad.

If you don’t want to be together anymore, then welcome a new life. Treat your past love as an experience or a dream, and you will slowly grow from it! You are the best teacher. Only you know when to take the brave step. Try to enjoy the freedom that separation brings. Thank you for the opportunity to reflect on yourself. Now that your life has shifted focus, you might even discover new interests or become familiar with old, forgotten hobbies. This is an experience in life. There will be many passers-by in a person's life. Tell yourself that this is just a part of life. Working hard to love yourself is the most important thing right now.