Is marriage good when a sheep enters the tiger's mouth?

Illustrations for this issue | Piglet drawings | Cheng Bunuo

Missed the first two Dear baby, click on the following title to read:

①The truth about my sister not crying after my mother passed away (Follow-up)

②After my mother had an affair, I became an orphan< /p>

1

Xu Hai and I broke up because of meeting my parents.

I made it clear early on that I wanted to marry Xing Yujiao and I. All red tape must be avoided. If the marriage is suitable, we will get the certificate. If not, we will reject it. But he insisted on letting me see him.

I said let’s break up. He immediately became angry and asked angrily: "It's human nature to meet your parents, why do you have to be different from others? Is it because you have a pitiful background and the whole world has to follow your heart?"

Like Being slapped twice, I was so ashamed and angry that I just said: "Xu Hai, let's finish playing!"

After a week of stiffness, Xu Hai came to admit his mistake and clocked in three times every morning, noon and evening. I know I should be cruel and block him, but I can't. I love this man deeply, and I know he loves me to the core.

One day, Xu Hai caught me at the door of the work unit and said that he wanted to have a meal with me. Even if we broke up, there was no need to be so ruthless if the business was not done.

A tall man about 1.8 meters tall stares at you with hurt and expectancy. Who can not be soft-hearted? My brain got hot and I agreed.

Who wants to fall into Xu Hai’s trick.

Halfway down the road, I realized the location was suspicious. It was an older residential area, far away from the commercial center. I asked Xu Hai what he was eating here, and he said mysteriously: "Private cooking!"

It's right to think about it. Aren't the delicacies these days hidden in ordinary alleys? It seems like this guy has put some thought into it!

But when I walked in, I was completely dumbfounded. This is not a private kitchen, it’s just like ordinary people’s food!

A strong woman wearing an apron came out with a smile on her face. It can be seen that her figure and appearance are exactly the same as Xu Hai!

Xu Hai introduced: "Mom, this is Xing Yujiao. Jiaojiao, this is my mother."

Just like that, with my hands free, wearing a T-shirt and jeans, I didn't even wash my hair, so I met my boyfriend's parents in a daze. Although I kept mumbling in my heart that it was my ex-boyfriend, it was obvious that neither Xu Hai nor Xu Hai had this consciousness.

Xu Hai's mother smiled and said: "Yujiao, I finally see you. Auntie has been looking forward to it for a long time!"

2

Out of politeness, I proposed Give Xu Hai's mother a hand. Both mother and son stopped me, and I was really embarrassed, so I picked up the yam on the kitchen floor and said, "Then I'll peel the yam."

They couldn't resist, so they had to agree.

It’s embarrassing, I can’t do it. Apart from making instant noodles, I know nothing about cooking. On the other hand, Xu Hai's mother moves cleanly and neatly, like a professional chef in gourmet cuisine. I was a little panicked and couldn't help but speed up my movements. As a result, my hand crooked and the yam was not peeled properly. I peeled off a piece of skin. Suddenly.

Xu Hai's mother screamed and grabbed my hand: "You kid, take your time, why are you in a hurry!"

Xu Hai heard the sound and rushed over, making a fuss with her, and then It took a long time to apply iodine and wrap cotton wool.

I looked at them funny: "It's okay, it's just a small injury. It will be fine in two days if the wind blows." For them, I pointed to the old scars on my body, "Look at this, it's still I don’t care about this and these places, just get better slowly.”

Xu Hai’s mother looked at me steadily, her eyes red: “You kid...”

< p> For the next work, the aunt stopped shouting and said something intriguing: "It will take time in the future, I will teach you slowly."

Without me causing trouble, Xu Hai's mother and son moved quickly A lot. In less than an hour, there were six dishes and one soup on the table, all well prepared, delicious in color and aroma.

The glutton in my belly is not honest anymore, and my mouth is full of saliva. I have never seen such a feast on my dining table in my life!

Xu Hai poured a glass of wine for each of us and said he brewed it himself. I opened my mouth again. Can I do this at home?

Xu Hai started talking, saying that he was a famous chef back then, and he knew eight major cuisines, and he had all kinds of side dishes at his fingertips.

He raised his glass and interrupted: "It's okay. If you put your mind to cooking, you can do it well. Yujiao, don't worry, as long as you want to learn, Auntie will teach you step by step!"

< p> I was a little flustered, drank the wine in the glass in one gulp, coughed and said, "Thank you, auntie!"

For some reason, Xu Hai's mother had tears in her eyes.

3

Xu Hai and I resumed diplomatic relations in an unclear manner, and even put marriage on the agenda.

I said, if I don’t want to, I don’t have to hold a wedding! Moreover, she didn’t ask about my life experience at all! I was so happy, and the heavy burden on my heart was finally lifted. I don’t want to mention my parents and family. If you mention it, how much trouble will it cause if you don't guarantee everything.

My biological mother passed away too early, so early that I don’t even remember what she looked like.

For as long as I can remember, I have been the mistress of the family. She's not bad, she's just pretty cool and never cares about me. I was like a wild child, purely raised.

Outsiders say that he is benevolent and righteous. He never gives up on housework and does not blame him for his poor test scores. My dad has a bad temper and beats me with his fists. He has to cry for help every time.

I admit all of this. The only thing I'm dissatisfied about is, why did she come to the rescue only when my dad was fighting to the end?

I mentioned this question in my diary, but my dad found out about it. He scolded me for feeding an unfamiliar person, and beat me severely without stopping me.

After that I realized that no one took me seriously except myself. So I started to study hard and devoted all my attention to studying.

However, when I went to college, I was not allowed to study. They said they found a job for me in the county as a waiter in a small hotel. The work was not too tiring and it was clean.

It was clear to me that that was not work at all! The hotel owner is my cousin, and his gangster son has ill intentions towards me. If I really go, I will be like a sheep in a tiger's mouth. Who knows what will happen.

The situation is urgent and there is no room for hesitation. In the scorching heat of summer, I ran away and had no contact with my family for eight years.

I can’t say how much hardship I endured, and no one can, but I survived. No, now I have a good job, a good husband, and a good life.

I didn’t deliberately tell Xu Hai these past events, but it was inevitable to mention them in casual chats. He didn't ask in detail, and he didn't show any sympathy. I just said that, and he just listened. It's better this way, without having to endure inexplicable sympathy.

I think my mother-in-law is kind to me because she has heard these things and is overflowing with love.

4

After Xu Hai and I got married, we moved in with my mother-in-law as agreed. There is only one mother-in-law in the house with three bedrooms and two living rooms. Xu Hai is afraid that she will be lonely. I understand that very well.

Under the close supervision of my mother-in-law, it was impossible to stay in bed. Every day at 6:30, I would be called up to watch her make porridge or make soy milk with ingredients. Xu Hai was also gathered up and went downstairs to buy fried dough sticks.

From the time we sat down to eat, my mother-in-law kept wiping the furniture with her hands and chattering away. She was as nervous as a war every morning.

Several times I ran into the office out of breath, half an hour before clocking in!

I was sitting at my workstation, angry, funny, and inexplicably excited. Have other people’s children experienced this kind of stimulation? I remember when I was in school, more than one classmate complained that my parents felt like they were chasing people away when they went out in the morning, but I never experienced that.

Unexpectedly, now that I am getting married, I will encounter a similar situation. Fortunately or unfortunately?

Not only that, my mother-in-law also actively fulfilled her promise and cooked for me. Every weekend, she would drag me to the vegetable market and would not stop until I visited the morning market stalls.

I followed behind, learning how to choose vegetables, negotiate prices, and take notes humbly. My mother-in-law would turn around and give instructions from time to time, head to head, hand in hand, very seriously.

Some merchants joked: "I know you are mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but if you don't know, I think you are mother and daughter!"

I quickly took a big step away from my mother-in-law.

My mother-in-law stretched out her arm and grabbed me back like a puppy. She laughed loudly and said, "Recognize it. This girl will be my daughter from now on. If she does it by herself, don't try to fool me!" ”

The merchant laughed, and the two chatted happily. And I was forced to stick close to my mother-in-law, feeling dizzy from the warm human touch.

What a foreign crime you deserve!

I begged Xu Hai to talk to my mother-in-law and not to be too affectionate to me. I'm not used to it. But he in turn advised me that the old man had good intentions, so I should just endure it.

Humph! Tolerate?

Just bear with it! Who is afraid of whom!

5

Just when I was overwhelmed by the love falling from the sky, something happened.

I knew my mother-in-law was enthusiastic, but I didn’t expect her to be too brave. When she was visiting the vegetable market, she saw a thief. She stepped forward and grabbed his arm, shouting angrily: "What are you doing!"

The skinny and tall mother-in-law couldn't see the enemy, and her eyes suddenly turned red. He took out one from his pocket and revealed the cold blade with a "swish".

At the critical moment, I didn’t have time to think too much. I picked up the chili noodles I just bought in my hand, jumped up and clasped it on the thief’s head.

After hearing a scream like a slaughtered pig, the thief turned into a dancing "red man", his body twisted into a twist. At this time, market security arrived and took him away in twos and twos.

There was a burst of applause around me, and I realized that the place was full of people.

Afterwards, the police and the community came to the house to praise and criticize my mother-in-law and me. People have said that it is not easy to yell when you see injustice on the road, but it is definitely not encouraged. The thief has a murder weapon, and we are both old and weak. If something happens, it will inevitably lead to a family tragedy.

After hearing this, I lowered my head sadly. The sorrow and sadness are like waves, beating my heart one after another.

Suddenly, my mother-in-law stretched out a hand, covered my folded hands warmly, and said to them: "I am a descendant of a hero, and my blood is flowing in my bones. I may not be able to control it for a while. Don't worry, I will be careful in the future and never let her take risks again!"

I looked up at my mother-in-law in surprise. What did she say?

Before I could ask, the community spoke up: "Auntie, we are mainly here to advise you! How many times has this happened to you? Don't be tempted to do something brave! You are already old. You have to protect yourself first!"

The mother-in-law lowered her head and laughed, like a child who was caught making a mistake, happy and ashamed.

However, at this moment, my thoughts have flown to the sky. There are two familiar words swirling in my mind: "hero" and "bravery".

My mother-in-law seems to know about that old incident?

6

After sending away the guests, my mother-in-law surrendered under my scrutinizing gaze and told the past events hidden in her heart.

Twenty-five years ago, it was the season when cherries were ripe. My mother-in-law and her colleagues went to visit the mountains in my hometown. When she went to relieve herself at the foot of the hillside alone, she accidentally fell into the wild lake. My mother-in-law didn't know how to drink water, so she choked quickly and couldn't scream.

At this time, a woman swam to her side like a silver fish and dragged her ashore.

Yes, that woman is my mother. At that time, I was less than three years old, and I especially loved eating wild cherries from the mountains. My mother went there for me.

My mother-in-law is tall, but my mother, like me, is not tall and thin. In order to rescue her mother-in-law, the mother used all her strength. Just when she was about to send her mother-in-law to the shore, her mother couldn't hold on any longer.

My mother-in-law’s colleagues had not seen her for a long time and went over the hillside to look for her. They only had time to rescue her, but my mother’s body was forever sleeping in a quiet lake in the mountains.

Recognition and publicity come one after another, but what’s the use to me? A childless person is doomed to face a childhood full of holes.

My mother-in-law said that she blamed herself very much and devoted all the efforts of the whole family to compensate me. Unexpectedly, the pain of losing his wife only lasted for half a year, and he happily married another. My mother-in-law inquired about it and found that the reputation was good, so she was a little relieved. After that, she kept hearing about me from everywhere, including what grade I was in, how much I weighed, and what size clothes I wore.

After hearing this, I understand why my family often receives packages from the provincial capital. But tell me, those were given to her children by her relatives and are not easy to share with me.

During the college entrance examination year, my mother-in-law went to my hometown to find me and wanted to sponsor me to study in college. But unfortunately, I had already run away from home when she left.

In all these years, she never gave up asking about my whereabouts. Who would want to break through the iron shoes and find nowhere, but I fell in love with her son.

When Xu Hai first told me about my life experience, my mother-in-law didn't pay attention to it, she just felt pitiful. Until one time, my wallet fell into Xu Hai’s pocket, and my mother-in-law dropped it when she was hanging her clothes.

My mother-in-law saw the photo of my mother in the wallet.

Later, when I learned that Xu Hai and I had broken up, my mother-in-law asked Xu Hai to apologize. Xu Hai couldn't hold himself any longer, so he immediately got off the slope, and Le Diandian staged the drama of chasing his wife.

The mother and son cooperated inside and outside, pulling and pulling me to lure me into their warm family.

7

I asked my mother-in-law why she didn’t tell her earlier.

She sighed, lowered her head and blamed herself: "It's all my fault for causing trouble to your mother. I'm afraid that I'll make you angry and don't want my son. That kid is stubborn and may hate me... ...Isn’t it quite selfish?”

Mother-in-law hurts mother? To be honest, I haven't thought about it from this perspective. My mother’s self-sacrifice is like a distant heroic story that has been circulating in my hometown for as long as I can remember. I don't feel like there's anyone to blame, I'm just full of regrets. It would be great if my mother hadn't died.

Now when my mother-in-law asked, I thought for a moment and solemnly replied, "It's a bit selfish. You tricked me into going home and taught me to do housework. Are you telling me honestly so that I can serve Master Xu?"

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The mother-in-law was startled, then let out her signature hearty laugh.

She explained that she found out that I couldn’t cook, and she felt that she was the one who was involved. If I grew up with my biological mother, how could I not have the opportunity to learn? Therefore, she volunteered to take on the responsibility of teaching by words and deeds, and wanted to pass on all her skills to me.

I looked up at the sky helplessly: "Mom, I don't want to learn at all! Why can't Xu Hai do this?"

"Don't want to learn?" My mother-in-law slapped her forehead, " Why didn’t I think about my son? You silly girl, just tell me if you don’t like it!”

I chuckled. I don't like it, but I'm attached to it. Listening to my mother-in-law's nagging instructions and following her in and out, I felt a small sense of happiness in my heart. It was a taste I had never experienced before, but had been looking forward to for a long time.

My mother-in-law and I signed up as volunteers in the community and regularly serve in welfare homes and nursing homes. It's still helping people, but it's not dangerous, so it's more suitable for my mother-in-law to channel her passion.

Every time after participating in an activity, I am so tired that my back aches, but my mother-in-law is very interested and pulls Xu Hai to talk endlessly.

Our Chef Xu is always smiling, bringing out the latest "creative dishes" from the kitchen and inviting people to taste them.

"I, I..." the mother-in-law walked straight to the door, "I made an appointment with Aunt Zhang downstairs to play mahjong, I have to go quickly!"

"Ah, I lost weight. I won’t eat anymore.” I hurriedly fled into the bedroom. I saw Chef Xu scratching his head in the restaurant through the crack in the door. He was probably wondering why these two women were so repelled by "delicious food"?

Oh, how should I tell him that cooking also requires talent? It seems that I have to be my mother-in-law’s student!

End

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