Everyone told you to work hard outside, without any pressure, but everyone worked hard to make money.
-Venus, not me.
It doesn't matter what a person says, it depends on what he is doing, which is the most important thing.
What does this mean? This shows that everyone is saying what they don't want to hear, and they all hope that others will not try to surpass themselves. Everyone wants others to mix worse than themselves. To put it bluntly, everyone is hypocritical. Obviously, making money is important, but I tell you, money is not important.
Since money is not important, why go out to work?
Since money is not important, you can stay at home and eat your old money. Money doesn't matter, so why do you go to college? Don't you want your starting point to be higher than others when you compare your education with others? I hope your basic salary is higher than others, so it's only 2000 yuan.
It's just that education is a thing of the past, not 30 years ago. Many people's cognition still stays in the era of 30 years ago. It's not that education is unimportant, but that times have changed. Now it's 202 1, and making money from now on depends on hobbies. You can't earn much money by working.
Making money depends on self-motivation, not others' sympathy for you. It's no use sympathizing with you. If someone gives you a few words of comfort, listen to them. Don't take them seriously. Don't work so hard. Who will support you if you don't work hard? Who will give you the bride price money if you don't work hard? Do not work hard. Will you rent a house for life?
Many times, people are contradictory. They want to make money and have their own lives. I want to fall in love and have a good career. I want others to work overtime when I work overtime, and I want someone to accompany me to work overtime. Excuse me, are you a relative of President Tencent?
Sometimes people really don't think too much about themselves. If you think of yourself as a person, you just can't make money. People who can make money are all animals and rational. Not emotional. I don't like to listen to comforting words, because it's useless to listen to comforting words. You should still make money, right?
Everyone told you not to work so hard, but you didn't work hard in your twenties. Did you try hard in your thirties and forties?
Everyone told you to work hard outside, without any pressure, but everyone worked hard to make money. This is a strategic blow to your enthusiasm.
No money, even 10 yuan's fried powder can't afford it. You are really a hundred-dollar bill. See who likes you?
So-don't believe the nonsense that those individuals say, it doesn't matter what money they say. None of them made any money. Most people's biggest imagination is to earn 654.38+0 million a year, which is not a small income. But in the circle of entrepreneurs, you are still a part-time worker.
As long as you work, no one can look down on you, but if you sell pancakes with an annual salary of 200 thousand, entrepreneurs are in awe of you. Business, big or small, is a part-time job. Whether you are a white-collar worker or a money worker, you are a contract worker, and the company has the right to dismiss you at any time.
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Suffer early and suffer early.
-Venus, not me.
The world champion of all-red diving is hard to come by. 14 years old, already the Olympic diving record holder. Born in 2007, he started training at the age of 7, and experienced seven years, from an unknown person to a world champion. These seven years of training have made her.
Many people will say that she is a genius. Let's not talk about genius-her training times are beyond others' reach. Training 400 times a day, and because of my young age and lack of strength, I have to have strength training. Even an adult can't stand this kind of suffering.
And she is only 14 years old. Many people fall in love in high school when 14 years old. Or read picture books in class. It is said that children from poor families are in charge early. Due to the extreme poverty of the family, the child is precocious. Even before she went to Tokyo to take part in the Olympic Games, she didn't know what the Olympic Games were.
What she said is-the coach said that only five movements are enough. You see, children's thoughts are still very simple. She doesn't even know what it means. A world-class stage seen by the whole world, it took her seven years along the way.
It took her seven years to go from obscurity to world champion. He hasn't even been to the zoo or playground in these seven years. Go home after training every time. Because there is no money in hand, I can only go home. Other people's children have gone to play, and she wants to go home.
Think of many people from 7 to 14 years old-either let their parents play with their mobile phones at home, or brush Y, and then buy toys during the Chinese New Year. This is a city kid.
Children in rural areas don't have much money. The average income of each person in their village is only 1000 yuan per month. Many people don't know that diving is actually very bitter. Just training back and forth. This is actually focusing on one thing. Because you can't do anything else without money.
In other words, all red Zen is forced. Poor family conditions, rural areas. There are five children at home. But if this family is a well-off family, it is estimated that there is no world champion today.
Because there is not much retreat at home, since diving can manage tuition or something. Then go. What if it works, right?
So-don't say what you are doing now, it's not too late, it depends on whether you are cruel to yourself.
Since your 14 years old has passed, or your 28 years old has passed. It's not too late to do what you like.
Whether it is a business or a sideline, it is still there. But the premise is to focus on one thing and stick to it-no socializing, no partying. Just do one thing. I believe that you will have a certain popularity in 10 years.
I'm afraid some people will say that it will be too late after thirty or forty. Then he gave up on himself. Such people are hopeless.
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Why do many people say they have no time?
Because most people allocate their time to worthless people.
-Venus, not me.
To put it bluntly, their time is given to some worthless people. Like a migrant worker with no money, like a white man in the workplace, like a person who is not as good as them. In short, not as good as their own people. They will think it is helping them.
Actually, it is not. If someone wants to help another person, it must be voluntary. And it must pay a certain price, such as money. Only by paying the money will this person pay attention. When people who are not as good as you get free help, it will only take up more and more of your time.
Until one day, you are not free. Or when there is a charge, he will not look for you.
People should have the consciousness of making others pay, because you don't want to make other people's money, you should let others know that your time is valuable. You can help others, but don't help for free. Just say what the price is and what you want to do.
The other is that you have to let the other person have his own ideas. Many people just don't want to think for themselves and do it themselves. That is also a kind of laziness. If people want to keep growing, they have been doing so. Only by doing this can you become better and better. It doesn't matter if you don't understand. Ask someone else.
But you should bear the cost of inviting others, and don't say that you owe others a favor. -human feelings are more expensive than money. If you don't want to pay, your human feelings are worthless. Rich people are unwilling to owe human feelings, because human feelings are still unclear, unless you are completely helpless. Otherwise, I'd rather give money than owe anyone.
Many people will ask whether this is utilitarian. Ok, then let me ask you-you took the senior high school entrance examination in college and you took it in Peking University. Are you not utilitarian?
Don't you also want to get a good education and make your starting point higher-although it's useless to say so. But in essence, you want to change your destiny through the college entrance examination.
To put it bluntly, it is to make money. People come into this world to make money. It's just that some people are talented. If they know about it, plus their diligence, they will become famous and make money. They will say they don't care how much money they make. It's all fucking bullshit.
Whoever doesn't fight for bonuses, who doesn't write for cash, and who doesn't shoot videos for cash are all because of the traffic of the platform.
Isn't it all about making money? If you can't even make money, you can't live.
So-people's time should be spent on useful people, not some stupid people. No matter who the other person is, all you have to do is not to entangle with these people and don't delay for a minute. Youth is to survive, and survival is to make money.
What do you think is the point of being with a group of people who can only work? Every day is nothing but eating, drinking and having fun.
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Many women say that whether a man loves you or not depends on whether the other person is willing to spend money for you.
It doesn't mean anything for a man to spend money on a woman, but if he can't make money, then he definitely means that he doesn't love you.
-Venus, not me.
Women always see things from their own perspective. She thinks that as long as this man revolves around himself, then this man will love himself. But a man can spend money on several women at the same time, and spending money is love. If he spends money on two or three women, does that prove that he loves them all?
To put it bluntly, when you think a man loves you, it depends on whether he is willing to spend money for you. Does that also prove that you don't love this man? You just love him and buy you things-it's for the money.
If a woman really loves a man, she won't care whether she buys it or not. The more you care about whether this man buys or not, it proves that this man is worthless and can't make money. Then why are you following this man?
Give it up. Even if the other party is a potential stock, you didn't like it at that time. It is good for you to find one that meets your standards. While asking for something from others, you still feel that they don't love you. Then you're not going to get along for a long time.
To put it bluntly, many women dare not gamble, dare not pay, and are afraid of losing money.
I am afraid that the other party is not good to me, and I am afraid that the other party is poor, and he is still poor. Then I took out all kinds of online jokes and mechanically copied my boyfriend to prevent others from sleeping for free. If you really don't want to be cheated, try boldly.
Don't use all kinds of boyfriend standards to ask your boyfriend, but admit that the gap between people is quite big. Women should also measure whether they are worth so much.
In the relationship between two people, the value is always greater than the price. If you don't have a high education, a low income from work, and you are still old, you will be asked to give you this and that, and you will be asked to give you a bride price of 500,000 yuan. Just tell me when you can earn 500 thousand in your life.
Most women are just more expensive than valuable. A person who doesn't graduate from a prestigious school, an older person, thinks that he can find someone who has a successful career in his twenties and is serious about you in his thirties. Isn't this nonsense?
In your twenties, you were playing. There are several spare tires at the same time. Others 10 years old come out to make money, why do you ask others to love you-what value can you provide to others?
So-many women are just too demanding, thinking that when they were young, they found a rich master and thought that they were valuable.
People you don't cherish will always be cherished. People you don't like are always liked.
In the end, you are the only one left, and others already have a room full of children. Then you are a loser, and all you have to do is reflect on yourself.
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Men don't get along well because no one wants to marry him.
No matter how bad a woman is, she has a family because of her reproductive value.
-Venus, not me.
This is a natural gap between men and women. Of course, if the man has money at home, that's fine. After all, my parents helped me. As for who to marry, it's up to parents to arrange. That is, you have no choice. That is, the right to choose is lost.
Rich second generation is not discussed here, because most people don't have such a good life.
Ordinary people just go out to work to make money. It depends on whether this man has the consciousness of doing business. If not-then work all your life, and then find a woman worse than him to live and argue all your life-
This is the result of ordinary men not making money. Actually, this is not bad. Most men don't want it, especially those who don't pay attention to hygiene, have no education and can't talk. Don't expect to find someone in this life.
There are also some horse-haired men who are poor at home.
If the family is poor and listens to their parents, then this man is suitable to be a bachelor all his life-because no woman will like a poor man who has no opinion. What is the picture? Just for your lower body. Women can date at will. What do you want?
I'm still worthless. Ask your family about everything. I don't think women are my family. Nobody wants to find a warm man. Warm men are all people who take advantage. They can't make money and can't do anything. All I can think about is what happened between two people.
What women pursue is not to meet their own physiological needs, although it is also necessary. But when women look for men, they look for men who can make money. Why didn't she come to you when she couldn't make money?
So-if a man doesn't mix well, he has no money, no house, no car and nothing, it is difficult for him to find the other half.
If you don't have these three things, but you have a career, it's easy to find someone. But most people don't even have a garage, let alone a career.
For women, no matter how bad, it still has reproductive value. Even the older ones. I just can't find a man with such a good appearance. Even if a woman is good-looking, if the man looking for her is rich and the woman is over 30, then the man looking for him must be over 50.
That's for sure. She doesn't like these beautiful women in their thirties who have no money. Because after the age of 30, it all depends on maintenance-to put it bluntly, it costs money. Generally, men who have no strength can't stand this.
For those who are not beautiful and old, they will definitely find a man who is not as good as themselves. Because I have nothing, I only have reproductive value. I can't live alone, I can only make do for a few years.
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The bigger the platform, the more people with positive energy.
-Venus, not me.
Whether this platform is a company, a media platform or a short video platform, the people and content inside are full of positive energy. An equally good community must also be a positive energy community. Instead of a negative energy community every day.
A group that gossips every day is a negative energy group, because it is a group that gossips about other people's lives. How others live is actually someone else's business. People have to work hard if they want to live a good life. Find your own opportunities to make money.
It is no problem for you to analyze the business model, and it is no problem for you to discuss the trend after 10. These are all positive energy. Everything that makes money is positive energy. People who discuss other people's lives in groups every day without making money are stupid.
Including you in the company, when all the colleagues around you are gossips, they are all people who sleep except eating and drinking Lazarus, and there are also petty bourgeoisie people-people who eat, drink and have fun, and people who punch in.
These people are hopeless. Stay away if you can. If they play, don't follow them.
Don't follow them when they go out for dinner. After work, you either write or make a video. You must be like a complete red Jackie Chan. Nothing but practice. In less than 10 years, you will definitely be better than those who spend their days in a circle of friends.
For college graduates, try to go to some big platform companies.
No matter what it is, whether it is the internet or the media, in short, this company must be a big platform. Because there are always some people on the big platform who want to start a business and do sideline business. Unlike you in a small company, you can't see any positive energy in their faces.
I thought I had been in the company all my life, without starting a business or doing a sideline.
And don't export your own things. Even if you take a picture of the workplace taboo between you and your colleagues after work every day. Even if you film your thoughts on the next client.
This is also a kind of value to others. This is also a kind of positive energy. If you don't export your own things, you will always be a dead man. No one knows that you once existed in this world.
Don't talk to a group of frustrated people about their failures, these are the energy of the weak.
Failure is failure, there is nothing to say. At best, you made a wrong decision or something. But being with a group of people with negative energy is boring.
Stand up if you fail, not that you can't stand up if you fail. This is entirely a matter of personal choice. You choose to be with a group of losers, which proves that you don't want to do it again.
So-people's knowledge is actually better than those who earn 8000 yuan, because when you don't earn any money, you think everyone works like you to make money. But what you need to know is that no one gets rich by working.
If you want to make money, you have to go to a big platform, whether it's work or creation, because big platforms are people who want to make money. Most of the people who mix in the small platform are assholes. See you in five years.