So-called: "Where the path is narrow, stay one step with the pedestrian; When the taste is strong, subtract three points to make people taste. " That is to say, when the road is narrow, we should leave a step for others to walk; When enjoying a good meal, share some with others. This is the best way to succeed in doing things. If young people have "happiness" and know how to share with others after entering the society, then you will not face the pain alone.
This is also the reason why many successful people succeed. Most of them spend a lot of money to make people who follow them get benefits, so they are dead set on him and can even go through fire and water for him. Even the most astute big businessmen follow this idea. For example, for a big project, it is obvious that you have the ability to undertake it, and you should also pull your partners to develop it together, so as to show your tolerance of "keeping one step on the road and letting three points go" and show that you are not the kind of person who breaks people's financial resources and monopolizes the source of happiness.
For example, a group of children are playing games together. When one of them is hungry, he takes out delicious candy from his bag, and other children will surely see it. At this time, he has two choices: give some to everyone, or keep it for himself. Although the choice is made in an instant, it can lead to completely different results in a lifetime.
if you choose to share it with everyone, other friends will like him and support him because they get delicious food. From this moment on, he stands out among this group of peers and becomes a well-deserved leader of this small group. Let nature take its course and he may become a person with strong appeal in the future.
if you choose to eat it all by yourself, you will eat it all in your mouth. The candy is his, which is no problem. But everyone treats him like a cheapskate, and no one will play with him in the future. He lost an opportunity to be the leader of the team and lost the trust of the team, so he turned into another narrow alley. Growing up along this trajectory, he is likely to be an ordinary person in the future.
It can be seen that a casual choice is likely to affect a person's life. Understand this truth, will you still despise the necessary sharing?
if you know how to share with others at the right time, everyone will benefit, and finally you will be crowned as a winner! You know, not everything is a narrow way to meet the brave, and getting along with people is often not a single choice-you don't have him, but a variety of choices, that is, you can win.
However, some young people don't understand this truth. All they know is that the larger foe, either you die or I live. It often happens around us that we fight our heads off and die together for fame and fortune. Such people can never realize that sharing with others when necessary can bring greater benefits to themselves.
Wang Hong is a college student who has just become a civil servant. He graduated from a prestigious school and is full of talent. Wherever he goes, he carries the momentum of pointing out the country and giving up others. In his eyes, others are like useless ants, and they are not worthy to compare with themselves. He always thinks, "I have the strongest ability, so I deserve the most." So whenever there are benefits, he never shares them with his colleagues, and he takes the lead in everything. Did he get what he wanted? On the contrary, colleagues in the department joined hands, formed an alliance, and began to compete with him, working together to tear him down, holding him back and causing him trouble everywhere.
as you can imagine, it is really more difficult for a person to achieve something in this environment than to ascend to heaven! Finally, of course, Wang Hong can't do a good job. Wherever he goes, he runs into a wall, and his talent is trapped in his stomach and he can't even complain! As a result, the leader blamed, colleagues do not pity. At this point, he can't stay in this place. I just want to monopolize the benefits but lose everything. This is what happens when I don't know how to share with others.
There is a saying: "There are no eternal friends and enemies in the world, only eternal interests." This sentence shows that the fundamental problem of communication between enterprises and between people is actually the distribution of interests. Knowing the distribution of benefits actually reveals the essence of human nature and the truth of society.
Today, you gave him one step, and tomorrow he will give you two steps back. Moreover, doing so is equivalent to making a good friend and opening a convenient door to success in society. If you don't know how to share the benefits with others and take all the benefits for yourself, then even if you have amazing talent, it can only be useless white paper! If you learn shareism, the benefits will be distributed to everyone, so that everyone's psychology will be balanced, so that everyone will work together to help you succeed smoothly.