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Behind every mother, there is a strong mother who wants to control everything in her own hands, whether in her own home or in the small home of her son and daughter-in-law.
this kind of mother-in-law, they all like to make rules without trace, and use filial piety to their sons to establish an atmosphere of their family. If the daughter-in-law can't get in, she will lose confidence in this marriage, so the purpose of this strong mother-in-law has been achieved. But once they meet a woman who is more powerful than them, they will be helpless and can only complain repeatedly.
Li Wenjun's mother is such a mother-in-law. She regrets it very much. Now she beats her chest and feet in the room every day, feeling how she put the old one. Roll with the punches? My good daughter-in-law is angry.
since her son's second marriage, now this daughter-in-law is a total bitch, and she can't control it at all. Mother Li can't help but sigh with emotion. This is karma. ?
If karma hadn't come too quickly, Li Wenjun's mother still feels smug and thinks she has done a good deed.
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Li Wenjun and Jiang Yin were a loving couple before they got married, but since they got married, their feelings have become weaker and weaker, and there are more and more contradictions, all because they have a strong mother-in-law.
Because Jiang Yin is a woman who came out of the mountains, her mother-in-law looks down on her daughter-in-law from the bottom of her heart, and often does her best to be sarcastic in language, saying that Jiang Yin's marriage to her son is to climb high and become a phoenix from a sparrow.
Although Jiang Yin comes from the countryside, she is also well educated. Her parents are far-sighted people, and they have spared no effort to send her to college.
She worked hard herself. She worked part-time outside from the beginning of college and didn't give her parents any burden.
When she got married, her parents repeatedly warned her not to quarrel with Li Wenjun, but to be filial to her in-laws. Jiang Yin said that she kept this in mind.
So, after getting married, she put up with the sarcasm and sarcasm to her mother-in-law, and tried to reverse her impression in her mother-in-law's mind.
My mother-in-law also knows that Jiang Yin wants her approval very much, so she will deliberately create some troubles for Jiang Yin.
When she asked Jiang Yin to cook, her mother-in-law always commented as a gourmet. What did she say? The food is hard? 、? There is a smell of unwashed vegetables? These are difficult to listen to.
Jiang Yin tried to explain every time, but her mother-in-law turned a deaf ear and charged her with being unfilial and talking back.
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Li Wenjun sees all these things, but he doesn't look at the problem from Jiang Yin's point of view. He always says to Jiang Yin:? She is my mother. Is it so hard for you to please her? For the sake of our feelings, please try harder. ?
Jiang Yin also understands that her mother-in-law just thinks her family is poor and can't bring them a better life. Even if Jiang Yin listens to her mother-in-law, she is still worthless in her mother-in-law's eyes.
Even if Jiang Yin contracted all the housework at home and paid the living expenses on time every month, she still couldn't get her mother-in-law's approval.
Mother-in-law always stands between her and Li Wenjun. She criticizes her mistakes in front of Li Wenjun and points out her faults. Once she refutes them, her mother-in-law will encourage Li Wenjun to divorce him.
Li Wenjun was originally a very soft-hearted person. He relied on his parents for everything. Even after he got married, he still seemed to have not taken off his milk. Jiang Yin was overwhelmed and chose to divorce.
This enabled her mother-in-law to achieve her goal. Just after Li Wenjun came out of the Civil Affairs Bureau, she was dragged to a blind date. This time, she wanted to find a rich daughter-in-law. No matter what the other person's personality or disposition, she agreed to get married as long as she had money.
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I don't know if Li Wenjun is lucky or unlucky, but he did meet a woman who met all the requirements of his mother on a blind date.
Her name is Ou Qian, and her family is engaged in seafood business. She has never been married, and she doesn't go to work at ordinary times. She works under her parents' hands and helps to run errands and deliver things.
Because the family is rich, Ou Qian is used to being bossy at ordinary times. No matter whether she is an elder or a junior, as long as she does something wrong in front of her, she will not relent and directly point out these mistakes, so she has been married to her boyfriend several times, all because of her personality.
Li Wenjun's family didn't know this, especially Li's mother. She was very happy and felt that her son was too capable to marry this rich daughter-in-law, so that their family could follow the chickens and dogs to heaven and live a good life.
Unexpectedly, her son was soft-hearted enough to listen to her, so he could submit to Ou Qian because he was coming and rich.
after only half a month of marriage, my mother-in-law did the same thing, trying to deal with Ou Qian in the same way as her first daughter-in-law, so that this rich daughter-in-law could please her.
So, all day long, she said that Ou Qian was too lazy to help with housework, and she was always criticizing at home, saying that Ou Qian was a loser.
ou Qian was not surprised that her mother-in-law would say this, and she played with her mobile phone unhurriedly and said: You don't need my money if you think I'm lazy and I'm ruined. You want me to contribute as well as pay. It's such a good thing under the sun. ?
My mother-in-law didn't expect Ou Qian to be so eloquent. She didn't know how to refute it at the moment, so she cried and called her son Li Wenjun out to make decisions. But when Li Wenjun asked why, she turned around and told her mother-in-law.
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From that day on, their family turned the tables and became in-laws to please their daughter-in-law. If they were not careful, Ou Qian would say:? I don't want to live here anymore, even if the house is not big, my in-laws are still stingy. ?
Li Wenjun also agrees with Ou Qian's statement that she wants to move out, but her mother-in-law won't give up. Although Ou Qian has wronged her, Ou Qian has given her a lot of living expenses, so she has to suffer this anger.
Every time she eats, Ou Qian will tell the truth that her mother-in-law can't cook well, and she definitely doesn't want to cook for her. She can't even cook well with her living expenses, and her mother-in-law excuses her, which leads to a lot of accusations from Li Wenjun.
at this time, my mother-in-law will think of the kindness of her previous daughter-in-law. Now she is very regretful, and she has driven away the daughter-in-law who devoted herself to them. Now it is a retribution.
It's really karma. People say that every cause has its consequences. Did you drive away what Jiang Yin planted? Because? , and now Li Wenjun married a strong wife? Fruit? All this can only be borne by yourself.
In fact, as parents, the last thing you should do is to interfere in the life of your son and daughter-in-law, and you should not point out other people's mountains and rivers with your old ideas.
You know, after getting married, the young couple will be a family, and you are just their family of origin, so don't give priority to them and think that everything will be as you wish, which will only lead to the dissatisfaction of the young couple.