? A kind word warms you for three winters, but a bad word hurts you for six months.

Words are always the ones that hurt people the most. Words can have warmth and make winter as warm as fire. Words can also make June as cold as ice.

It has been 5 years since Qiao Renliang passed away. The most saddened person about Qiao Renliang's death was his parents. However, he did not expect that his mother had an accident recently and was subjected to online violence by some netizens.

Let me tell you my opinion: I think in the virtual online world, no matter what a person does, there will be some bad voices. Many people have double standards, using low standards for themselves and high standards for others.

In life, we often advise others to grieve and accept the changes, and life must continue. I believe that what the deceased hopes most is to see people alive and live happily.

In the online world, it is often the opposite. In the online world, people hold others to extremely high standards, and the information they see is too one-sided and too subjective.

The greatest pain in the world is the pain of losing a loved one.

Every time I think about it, I feel endless annoyance and heartache. How many people can get over the pain of losing a loved one.

Qiao Renliang's parents finally began to face life and began to share their lives and food, but the keyboard warriors couldn't sit still. Could it be that the deceased has passed away and the living should be immersed in sorrow and pain for the rest of their lives?

I think Qiao Renliang loves his parents so much, and hopes that his parents can get over the pain of losing their son and live a happy life.

Please also be kind to keyboard warriors and don’t let your words become sharp knives that pierce the hearts of others.

For those who have never experienced it, it is difficult to imagine that on every reunion day, other people's homes are bustling with celebrations, while the family of an old man who lost his only child is deserted. What is it like for the old man who lost his only child every year on the child's birthday and death anniversary?

A kind of torture?

Every time I hear someone calling me "Dad" or "Mom", the old man who lost his only child will feel so sad.

Everyone wants to live a good life after their children leave, but how many people can get out of the shadow in their hearts, and how many people can cross the hurdle in their hearts.

Qiao Renliang's parents finally started to face life, but they suffered from online violence again. Have the keyboard warriors ever thought that those messages may make them return to pain and cause them to suffer from depression? Do they want them to stay forever?

Living in the shadow of pain?

What happened: Three years after Qiao Renliang's death, Qiao's mother opened an account on a certain platform. In this account, Qiao's mother posted a lot of content about missing her son.

In these contents, we can see the fragility of the elderly who have lost their only child, and we can also see their longing for their children.

Mom Qiao seems to have thought a little more, and she has become more positive in the content she posts. Mom Qiao will share her daily life with her fans, and she will also cook delicious food.

Qiao's mother also found spiritual sustenance. She took over the brand that her son ran before his death. This brand represents Qiao Renliang's spirit. For his parents, it is also the continuation of his son.

This is a simple wish, a spiritual sustenance.

But in the eyes of the keyboard warrior, it turned into a "human blood steamed bun".

Regarding each of their sharings, some netizens left comments below: "You can still eat it, but your son is dead." Some netizens criticized Qiao's mother's appearance: her eyes were wide open, like a witch.

Many people have not understood the truth at all. Why are Qiao's eyes so wide?

This was because she had been sick before, which was why her eyes were so wide.

For this matter, Qiao's mother recorded a video to explain and sincerely apologize.

I really don't understand what she did wrong.

Language is used to communicate, not to hurt others. The Internet is virtual. Just because the Internet is virtual, no one knows who the other person is. Therefore, many people are modest gentlemen in the real society, but in the online world, they are completely different.

When they meet someone and show their most vicious side, because the cost of the online world is very low and there are fewer major problems to worry about, they can show their evil side very well.

Many people use the moral high ground to accuse and criticize others.

Someone once said: There is no shortage of “saints” on social networks.

While measuring others by the standards of saints, they demand themselves by the standards of sluts.

Many people say that they are outspoken and frank, but this is not a reason to talk nonsense. At the very least, a person must respect others when speaking.

One word can warm people's hearts, and one word can also pierce the hearts of thousands of arrows. Words are the most ruthless weapon in the world. They can hurt people without blood, and they can harm people without using knives. Control your mouth and never let words

Become a weapon to hurt people.