Zeng Guofan once said: "All wealth and fame are destined, half by manpower and half by nature."
in this life, the best person is yourself.
When you help others and treat others with sincerity, you will attract people who are also like-minded to walk with you.
In the variety show "The Life I yearn for", there is a scene that is particularly impressive and full of sadness and bitterness.
One night, the guests were sitting together, and Huang Lei brought up the topic of dreams.
Many people responded, some wanted to be a director, some wanted to fall in love, and some wanted to be a good person.
Only when Seven talked about this topic, she said seriously, "I hope I can dream about her, I hope everyone I love is fine and healthy, and I hope she will be my daughter when she washes cups."
When I heard this, the atmosphere obviously became a little dignified.
In order to comfort Seven, Huang Lei said, "Maybe you will dream about her tonight."
He Jiong took over the topic and praised Huang Lei for changing all the dishes into Sichuan cuisine and silently taking care of Seven with delicious food, just to make her feel a little familiar happiness.
It turns out that during that time, Seven's mother had just passed away, and the trauma of her heart was still dull.
Seven also said with tears that she was strong and didn't cry much, but she couldn't control her emotions just by talking about this topic.
He Jiong was also moved, but he had to continue to comfort him: "You are very strong. I think you have adjusted very well, very well, really well. I am proud of you."
Seven didn't say who this "she" was, but everyone knew who she was referring to.
It's rare that Huang Lei and He Jiong, as hosts, tacitly didn't get to the bottom of it.
Every time I see stories about He Jiong and Huang Lei, people feel clean and warm.
Even if you treat the guests in the program, you are as considerate as your big brother next door.
Perhaps only people who feel the same way can gently cover Seven's scar.
some people, even in dreams, are eager to meet.
What's more, even meeting in a dream is a luxury.
those close relatives who suddenly left us are just asleep, dreaming that they will wake up at a certain point in time and meet again.
I woke up inadvertently. Some people never saw each other again before saying goodbye.
It is not until life has experienced enough separation and death that we realize that impermanence is the normal state of life.
in your world, some people come and some people leave.
Maybe lonely, maybe lonely, but please don't be afraid.
The world you love deeply is also warming you silently.
The TV series Please Answer 1988 tells the daily life of people living in Shuangmendong.
Although it's just ordinary trivial daily life, it has touched the hearts of countless people.
Luo Meilan's family is the best in Shuangmendong, but she never looks down on anyone, but often helps others.
buy expensive ingredients and give them to everyone; Heating in winter will order a lot of briquettes for everyone.
On one occasion, Deshan's mother wanted to borrow money from Meilan because she was embarrassed at home, but when it came to the last moment, she couldn't open her mouth and had to leave angrily.
But when she got home, she found that Meilan had already put the money in the basket.
everyone sees and remembers the goodness of Meilan to everyone.
When Mei Lan is in trouble, everyone will come to relieve her. When learning that Mei Lan still has her dream unfinished, everyone will try their best to help her finish it.
They give and support each other.
birds of a feather flock together.
It is precisely because we are surrounded by a group of people who are equally kind that there are so many warm and loving ways to get along.
born as human beings, we all have to integrate into society, grow and mature in society.
Being in a circle with temperature is the greatest luck in itself and the best blessing in life.
Even if there is injustice, hunger and poverty every day in this world, fortunately, there are a group of people who are in love with you and face the ups and downs of life together.
as the old saying goes, "the rich live in the blessed land, and the blessed land lives in the blessed people."
What kind of "destiny" you are, just look at your own circle and you will know the atmosphere of your residence.
A person who is devoted to goodness, loves life and is proactive will not become bosom friends with a person who complains all day and is full of negative energy.
Good deeds are the blessings you have accumulated for yourself and the guarantee of happiness in life.
virtue is the only way to carry things.
Mr. Mei Lanfang, a famous Peking Opera master, is not only a great singer, but also a superb painter.
because of its reputation, it is easy to attract counterfeiters.
once, a little-known newspaper published an advertisement with the headline "Artist Mei Lanfang sells paintings".
A discerning person knows it is false at first sight, but it is true to many people.
When friends knew about it, they were indignant for him, and they planned to find out the impostor and give him a good lesson.
When Mei Lanfang saw this, she quickly stopped him and said, "This man can make money by selling paintings. He must have some skills, and he is probably just a scholar with bad luck. Let's find out the ins and outs before making a decision. "
when my friends inquired, it was really a helpless move of a down-and-out scholar.
When Mei Lanfang learned about it, she not only didn't pursue the counterfeiting behavior of the other party, but also sent some money and goods to help the other party.
The impostor was ashamed to see that Mei Lanfang was so generous, so he put away the gold-lettered signboard "Mei Lanfang".
it is human nature that people live in this society and strive for benefits.
In desperation, it is also human instinct to do something that harms others and benefits others.
It's not easy to be considerate of others, regardless of personal gains and losses, but people who eat big losses with a smile are really good people with a heart.
Between giving up and getting, live a transparent and bright life.
treating people with things is like a spring breeze blowing on your face, which makes you feel no resentment in life.
who can succeed if such people are not successful?
light wealth is enough to gather people, and wide enough to get people.
In this world, a person's strength is always limited if he wants to achieve something.
when you are not enough to lead a group of people, you might as well improve yourself and make yourself capable of attracting talents.
when one day, you become good enough, equally good people will be attracted by your magnetic field and gather around you.
where you can see it, it's no big deal to suffer some losses. Even if no one appreciates you, Heaven will compensate you.
Writer Leng Ying once said, "Your kindness and kindness to others will eventually be fulfilled by yourself."
kindness is an echo.
the essence of altruism is actually self-interest.
Life is a process of sowing, and the harvest is closely related to sweat.
He who is stingy with the seeds in his pocket will never reap the golden harvest of Man Cang.
people's hearts are always mutual.
When everyone doesn't bring an umbrella in rainy days, if you take the initiative to lend a helping hand to others, others will surely miss your life.
one day, all the good things will gather on you, hold up an umbrella for you, resist the storm and protect you from getting home safely.
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