On May 3, 2117, a junior high school classmate who I haven't contacted for a long time sent me a message on WeChat: I'm going to ask for help to raise money easily. Will you help me to confirm that I was in poor health at the beginning of my studies?
I remember that in 2111, we were still in junior high school. At that time, she was ill. When she came back from the hospital, she was originally cheerful and optimistic, and she was swollen and had intermittent amnesia. After all these years, I thought she had recovered.
(a) into the swamp, struggling
"I want hemodialysis now, and the wound is infected. My family has been dragged into poverty by me. I want to die, but I can't go. I don't want to die. I am not willing, but I have worked hard.
I work hard every day to support my life. After so many years, I have endured so many years, and I have survived the divorce. I am not willing to take such a breath.
but until now, I can't afford it, so I have to turn to the society.
I didn't dare to let others know that I was ill, otherwise I would lose my job. But now I can't walk, I can't do anything, and my family can't take care of me.
asking for help is the last step.
but I am very entangled: if I make an easy raise, no company will hire me in the future; But if I don't send it, I have no money to treat the disease. "
(2) Multiple blows: illness, divorce, mother's death, scraping meat
Her situation is so helpless, so distressing:
She suffered from lupus erythematosus in junior high school, which deteriorated after a period of stability, affecting her heart and kidney function, and then her kidney failed, and she needed to have her kidney washed twice a week, each time in 511 yuan, with a monthly cost of nearly 4,111 yuan.
With a monthly salary of more than 2,111 yuan and the help of my family, I have survived for more than ten years.
in order to reduce the burden on her family as much as possible, she does all kinds of hard work even if she is in poor health.
Looking through her circle of friends, it can be roughly divided into three kinds of information:
First, all kinds of real estate opening promotions (her figure has spread all over the city's real estate opening scene), food festival promotions, Easter promotions, factory plug-ins and so on are all work records with many people working hard.
Second, there are all kinds of injections and examinations in the hospital.
There are also pictures of "Give unhappiness to yesterday, hope to tomorrow and effort to today", "I am very tired, but I am no way back" and "Did you laugh today?"
These chicken blood are boring and even funny to many people. But it may be the positive energy that supports her to go on.
After more than ten years, she finally settled down and found her place.
good times don't last long. In October, 2115, her illness relapsed, and she didn't want to drag her family down and get divorced, relying on herself.
in the same year, my mother died of intestinal cancer.
double blow, blood pressure soared.
on April 3, 2117, I hit my foot while driving to work. At that time, I thought it was a trivial matter, so I simply dealt with it and went to work immediately.
who knows, the wound is getting worse, purulent and infected.
She sent me two photos, and I was shocked: it was badly swollen, red and black, and the wound was purple and black and swollen.
I said, my god! Why is it so serious that you still go to work!
She said that if I don't go to work, I don't have any money. I have to spend at least 3,111 yuan a month on kidney dialysis, and I don't have enough money if I miss a day's work. Therefore, I never dare to ask for leave casually. On the day of May Day, although I felt very painful, I still disinfected and bandaged the wound and went outdoors to engage in promotional activities in the heat. I may stand for too long, the temperature is too high, and I hold back the pain until I get off work. When I came back from work, I found that my muscles had been eroded. I had a fever in the middle of the night and the pain was unbearable before I was admitted to the hospital, only to know that it was so serious.
if she doesn't have a fever, she will continue to work.
Now, the muscles of the whole calf are gone, because I have high blood pressure and poor renal function, so I can't get an anesthesia needle, so I just scrape the meat and suck pus!
scrape off the newly scabbed wound directly every time, once a day!
When the doctor comes at four o'clock in the afternoon to suck pus and change dressing, she shivers all over, so she can only bite her arm by herself, and her arm is covered with wounds.
ordinary people can suck pus and transplant skin, but because she has more than a dozen basic diseases and poor renal function, doctors can only reduce the dose to 1/4, which is lower than that of children, so they can only treat her slowly.
Now, she can't earn money by herself, can't take care of herself, and her family can't take care of her.
(3) She doesn't want to die, and she still has to pay her debts
She said that in the past 21 years, although she worked hard to treat the disease, she was still a drop in the bucket, which has dragged down her family and owed a lot.
My sister doesn't want to eat or wear, and she can only give her hundreds of yuan as much as she can every month, which has reached the limit.
My younger brother and elderly father are powerless to help.
She is reluctant to borrow money from relatives and friends, because she knows it is not easy for everyone. She would rather bear everything by herself.
In the past 21 years, she has been scared to death, which is not only physical pain and huge medical expenses, but also loneliness and helplessness in her heart.
She said that now she just wants to live a good life and hope to see the sun every day.
A friend in junior high school has been helping her for nearly 21 years. She said, it's so happy to have this friend in my life, but I'm afraid I can't afford this favor in my life.
A casual friend from Brazil wanted to donate 2,111 yuan to her, but she didn't dare to accept it, because she didn't know how to pay him back then, and didn't want him to think that she was greedy and cheating.
She said that she was only 31 years old, and she was unwilling and didn't want to give up. She still had a lot of things to do and had to pay her debts, because there was no next life to pay her debts.
(4) The whole class raised money
Sitting on the bus, I knew all this and cried myself.
I don't know how she got through all these years.
God gave her so many injustices, and she didn't resent anyone, nor did she bring trouble to her relatives and friends.
At the same time, she didn't give up on herself. Even though she was in poor health, she still worked hard and dared not ask for leave easily.
She said that if she can still walk and work, she will work hard to support herself.
However, the leg is infected, so I can't walk, and the progress of treatment is slow. I still have to treat the bottomless pit such as skin grafting and kidney washing, and I don't know when it will end.
she wants to rely on herself, but she can't.
She lost her source of income and was recovered by the hospital for medical expenses every day. Faced with a donation of 2,111 yuan from a Brazilian friend, she dared not accept it because she didn't know how to pay back the money.
She is so lonely, so helpless, so kind and so hard.
She wants to live and pay off all the money and human debts she owes.
our whole class launched a fund-raising campaign on easy financing.
I was highly concentrated and scribbled for three hours, writing an easy plan for her.
in the process of writing, I shed tears many times.
I really don't know how she got through it! ! !
Then start the whole class and send WeChat once a day.
Many friends, classmates and colleagues directly transferred money to me on WeChat to help her save some fees.
I sent them the screenshots one by one and thanked them. This is a great trust.
There are college and high school classmates I haven't seen for a long time, my sister's colleagues and classmates, my sisters who are far away in other countries, and colleagues' leaders.
No matter whether the amount is hundreds or dozens, it is a deep love.
What moved me even more was that in the past, the junior middle school gang rushed to grab all the breakfast meat buns from their female classmates. Many of them had low educational level and earned hard-earned money, so they even donated 111 to 311 yuan.
Some classmates in America also sent back US dollars to help her.
I was moved by them.
I know her road is full of thorns, and I know that all our help is a drop in the bucket, but at least, we let her taste the sweetness of friendship in this glass of water and let her know that there are still many people who care about her.