It's not up to you to be nice to girls. It depends on how people feel. Standing downstairs in the girls' dormitory in winter with soy milk fritters in a daze, I don't know what time people get up in advance, whether they like fritters or not, and whether they are unkempt ... This is not kindness to people, but moral kidnapping.

People get up in the morning to bring you breakfast, but they don't care about you. You find someone to cry and say that you have paid so much, why, why you don't like me ... this can't be called affection.

2. Don't feel inferior.

Who can't make a living in today's society? It doesn't matter whether a man is poor or not, whether the soil is poor or not, or whether the background is not bad. The important thing is to be ambitious. Yes, there are many girls who are materialistic, but as long as you are not blind, you will not be blind. There are still many girls who are very strong in themselves and don't care if the object has a car or a house. It doesn't matter if a person despises you. Everyone makes mistakes sometimes. If everyone despises you, don't hate women in a hurry. Take a moment to reflect. There is still room for improvement.

3. Self-confidence is ok, but don't always say what potential stock you are.

Some people don't even have a bragging partner, so they brag to their partners all day. I haven't done anything great, I don't know how to seize the time, and I look talented all day.

If you are seriously in love, don't wronged her for the sake of family.

Of course I know what equal rights between men and women mean, but the current social reality is that men and women are unequal, so when it is time to take responsibility, we should take responsibility and ignore the noise of relatives, friends, family and society. Your mom and dad can really cut off your blood relationship. Few of your seven aunts care about you seriously, but they are idle and cheap. Your wife is the one who will really accompany you all your life. The affection between you is not only love, but also family affection, which transcends love and family affection. Of course, if you just play around, forget it.

Emotion is a luxury and should be maintained.

Don't take everything you get in love for granted. Any relationship needs motivation to maintain. After falling in love, we should strive to be better people, but unfortunately, in reality, most people's first reaction when the object shows dissatisfaction is to choose to ask: Do you still love me? This one