Let me answer this question. Patients with advanced cancer should go to other hospitals to have a look and have a review. If the diagnosis is the same, then don't waste it in the hospital of western medicine, because patients with advanced cancer are generally inoperable and treatment is meaningless, especially chemotherapy, which is a double-edged sword. When cancer cells melt, so good vesicles melt. And it's not just pain It's a feeling that life is worse than death.
In addition, I'll tell you another way to treat diseases, that is, to find a Chinese medicine assistant to treat them. If Chinese medicine can cure it, you can have a look.
More importantly, you can relax everything, let go of everything you like, travel, broaden your horizons and eat some recipes, and maybe there will be different results.
This is my personal opinion, because I have been a cancer patient for five years. I have experienced chemotherapy from birth to death, and I will not use words to look back on the past. The hospital told me that I had done chemotherapy six times. I couldn't stand the pain of chemotherapy, so I gave up three times. Now eat more fruits and vegetables at home, and the thinking pressure is released. My mind must change, and I will get better gradually.
More than 60 years old, let's start with my grandfather. My grandfather is almost 60 years old, too. When he first discovered it, he just had a backache and went to the hospital to check out the terminal stage of lung cancer. At that time, my body was still strong, and I could fall asleep while eating and walking. The hospital's treatment plan is inpatient chemotherapy. Half a month after the first chemotherapy, I returned home, and the whole person lost a circle, and my body was not as good as before. I can't eat and I can't sleep in bed at night. I can always hear his groans at night. My mouth is shaking when I eat, and I have a fever once in the middle, and my immunity has dropped too much. I went to chemotherapy for ten days for the second time and vomited blood in the hospital. When I was discharged from the hospital, I couldn't stand up at all and couldn't take care of myself. When I got home, I had to lie in bed and sit up for a while, feeling too much. Because of chemotherapy, I am too weak to have a third chemotherapy. I lay at home for more than ten days and died. It took only a few months from discovery to treatment, and a good man was gone. Now the whole family regrets it. If you don't go to chemotherapy, you may live a little longer. Spending money all the time doesn't help. In the late stage of cancer, they should try to match some painkillers to relieve the pain, which may prolong their lives! Chemotherapy is still effective in the early and middle stages of cancer. Terminal patients should listen to the doctor's advice. Now that medical technology is developed, there may be a better treatment plan. The above is just a family experience. Everyone's physique is still different, and we should make a conclusion after observation. I hope it helps you. It's really painful to encounter such a thing.
All the cancer stars are gone. Do you think you can find better medical resources than them? So don't send money to the hospital, eat and drink, do whatever you want, just don't break the law and leave a bad reputation for future generations.
My father has just turned seventy. Stage IV lung cancer was detected on September 17 last year.
On the issue of treatment and incurability, our family's views are very consistent. Saving a life and turning Gan Kun around is definitely not possible. Within the scope of our power, how can we make father suffer less? That's the most important thing.
When I first found it, it was in my city. My sister and I were in the same city, and my brother was in the provincial capital city not far from us. It had spread when it was found, and lymph and head also spread. There is edema in the head. So the intracranial pressure is very high, so I have a bad headache.
Treatment or no treatment, whether to go to a better provincial hospital or my sister and I, or let my mother accompany me directly to my hometown.
I think this is what all children should consider in the face of this situation.
There are three children in our family. No money. I'm divorced, and it's worse. My mother's pension is 5500 yuan a month, and my brother is an engineer. Others owe him a lot of money, and he owes a lot of money to his relatives and friends. Mother's pension is quite a lot, all attached to the life of her younger brother's family and paid for her younger brother. Mother has no savings. My sister is better, but she can't bear such a big illness alone.
My brother insisted on receiving him and sending him to the designated provincial cancer hospital for treatment. When I was admitted to the hospital, I had little money, so my sister took some. The rest is paid by my brother's friend. My father has been in hospital for more than seventy days. My brother didn't tell anyone in the family how much it cost. Just tell my sister and me that when he gets rich, he will give us back the money we invested. As a matter of fact, he hasn't paid back the money he lent me by his previous business. But I think my brother is at least a man in important matters.
Now talk about my father's treatment in the hospital. For the reference of people with this situation.
After my father was admitted to the hospital, there were not many inspection items. Because it was so serious and qualitative, there were at most other doubts to be eliminated, so the inspection fee was not much.
Chemotherapy drugs generally have a great response. During chemotherapy, I take an intravenous drip from 8: 30 am to 6: 00 pm every day, and my father will spit until he takes a sip of water. Headaches often occur. The painkiller prescribed by the doctor stopped the pain after taking one tablet. He kept begging me to give it to him when it hurt for the first time. This medicine is dependent and can't be taken more. I'm afraid the dose will increase gradually and I can't stop my headache. Finally, when you close it, you can't stop the pain. The family is very worried.
Later, after chemotherapy, radiotherapy was performed. Radiotherapy, push dad in, undress, put it away, and come out every time you see the warning light at the door, that's two or three minutes. Once 1700. Generally, doctors prescribe ten times at a time. Several patients in my father's ward have done it forty times. Of course, not as much as one radiotherapy. It depends on physical condition. Usually you come back every few months for reexamination, and the doctor will prescribe the number of radiotherapy for you according to the situation.
The patient concluded that the treatment of lung cancer is: no chemotherapy, radiotherapy and traditional Chinese medicine. Many patients who are not as serious as my father say the effect is very good.
At the time of chemotherapy, the pharmacy outside had imported drugs, which were very expensive. Buy it yourself, no reimbursement. Buy three bottles of more than 6 thousand for a chemotherapy course, and you will suffer a lot less after chemotherapy.
Now get to the point, my father's biggest performance is a headache. He grinned painfully at the railing of the hospital bed. Whether it is cured or not, the child can't say that it hurts so much to let him go home. Can you stop the pain? How do you know without treatment? That's what our family thinks.
After more than 70 days of treatment, although my father is very weak, his spirit is much better, he can eat and his head doesn't hurt. We were discharged from the hospital.
Later, until the Spring Festival, I had a headache. My sister gave my father a few bottles of mannitol at home. My head doesn't hurt.
Chemotherapy and radiotherapy are very effective in the provincial cancer hospital.
After the Chinese New Year, my father began to lose his appetite and ate less and less, but his head no longer hurt and he was sober. At noon on the seventeenth day of the first month, he left in his sleep.
For us, especially for my brother, when he is crazy with a pile of bills, he will still choose to go to the hospital for treatment. My sister and I did our best. To our family's relief, although my father's illness has been powerless, at least it has not caused him pain every day. This is a place where we can get as much comfort as we spend.
At that time, there was a man who loved me for ten years. My father spent a lot of money on medical treatment. I take care of my father in the provincial capital, and it's me during the day. I have time to retire from my unit. My brother is at night. Because my sister is far away and busy at work, she usually takes care of her family. At this time, my brother and I took the initiative to take care of my father. The family is doing their work without complaint. The man who loves me tells me that I have no money every day. When my father was ill, he transferred 2500 yuan to me, and then said that he would pay for the materials for others. He is short of money. I felt sad, and tentatively sent it back to him 1200 yuan, saying that in this case, I will give you some, so you can take it and hand it in. Wonderful harvest.
Ironically, after I came back for the Spring Festival, his son bought a new BMW with a parking space of 200,000.
His son told me that I just don't understand why it is useful to spend so much money, knowing that it can't be saved. You might as well let your father go back to his hometown and stay. Obviously, what is the attitude of the father and son.
After the new year, I turned my face directly. Not because you gave me money to treat my father. My responsibility will not be passed on to anyone.
It's just that I see some people's faces in this kind of thing. Even a garbage collector without money. As long as this person has been in love for ten years, I am embarrassed to accept the half of the money I transferred back to him. It's bring disgrace to oneself to give me that money with his income. I returned the money to him just to see how shameless this man is.
If you have no money, you can earn again, as long as it does not affect everyone's basic living security. When he was not ill, everyone said, don't save me if I get seriously ill in the future.
I hope the person who said this will not say it again in the future. I didn't even have the strength to get up and commit suicide when I suddenly fell ill. Lying in bed is a kind of pain and can't die. But if your child is capable and filial, can you turn a deaf ear to your cry of illness? Which child can stand it?
So the whole family agreed. What's the goal?
It depends on the wishes of patients and children. If the patient has a strong desire to survive, the child should try to treat it actively, day by day. Even the doctor can't cure him, and there is nothing he can do to avoid leaving a lifelong regret.
On March 7th, 20 15, my father was diagnosed as "ichthyoid lung cancer" and was hospitalized. On the night of April 1, he was out of breath and was rescued for the first time. At that time, because there was no ventilator in the general ward, he entered the intensive care unit on the morning of April 2, and died on February 24, 65438. He lived in lCU for nine months at the age of 80.
My father was 1955, and more than 200 other uncles came to Zaozhuang, a legendary coal city, from the beautiful coastal city of Qingdao, and worked and lived here for 60 years.
As soon as we entered the intensive care unit, the director of the respiratory department of the hospital said to our brother and sister, "Your brother and sister should be mentally prepared. If you get this disease at your father's age, I'm afraid you can't cure it with money. In the end, it can only be money and people. "
Later, because of the need of treatment, I had to cut my neck and insert a ventilator catheter. When I asked the old man for advice, he said the words "cut, cut, cut" in succession. From his eager words, he didn't want to give up treatment himself.
My father works as a porter in a coal mine. At the age of 55, he went through the retirement formalities. His monthly pension for one or five years is only more than 4000 yuan. After so many years of retirement, he only saved150,000. In August, I spent all my savings and the hospital informed me to pay. When I visited, I told my father about it. He has a catheter around his neck and can't speak clearly. With a pen in his hand, he wrote two words on the cardboard, "Stay sick." When doctors and nurses saw it, they all said, "This old man loves life too much …" In fact, I can hear it from their conversation. What they mean is that the old man is too selfish.
I can't help it. I discussed with my brother and three sisters, and each of them took out 20 thousand yuan to pay my old father's medical expenses. On the morning of February 23, 65438, the doctor told us that there was no money in the account again. When we tried to raise money for my father to pay the medical expenses again, I didn't expect him to leave us forever after 2 am on February 24, 65438.
People over 60 years old have cancer, and they should be divided into early, middle, late, benign and malignant. They should listen to the doctor's advice and my own opinion. I have a colleague's sister, under 60 years old, who was diagnosed with breast cancer. The whole family advised her to have an operation. She herself is firmly opposed to surgery. I hope everyone will let her live with dignity and treat her orally according to the medicine prescribed by the doctor. Until now, five years later, she is still alive happily.
Therefore, we should respect the opinions of doctors, patients and family members about whether to cure.
The possibility of late cure is almost zero, so don't fantasize about miracles, let alone overtreatment. Needless to say, one of my relatives just retired and found himself in the late stage. He spent more than one million yuan. When he feels better, he urges his family to send him to chemotherapy, which is a lifesaver. As a result, he was forced to die, and he could have lived a few more days.
Depending on who has the disease, some people are open-minded. Once, a colleague got cancer, and the doctor advised him not to smoke. He also joked with others: I just wanted to smoke early, and I lived for 89 years! Some people don't eat or drink, and it's useless to enlighten them.
Now it seems that there is really no other magic medicine except those with good psychological quality who can resist for more than a few years.
A few relatives stay around, and there are two results:
Chemotherapy? I watched it shrink, and then it went crazy! It seems to be drug-resistant, longer and longer, and unwilling to be cured.
Is the food nutritious? As a result, it also fattened the cancer cells!
Look at those celebrities who have money and conditions to govern. Didn't you let all of them go? I don't want to think about anything, let alone pay attention. There is no time to calculate, so let's look around for food and fun.
Traveling with money is much more meaningful than treating guests. My husband died 50 years later and spent more than 700,000 yuan in hospital for a whole year. When I first arrived at the hospital for treatment, the doctor told me that there was hope for treatment. When the money ran out, the doctor told me that the disease was like this.
Of course, it's easier said than done. You need treatment, no matter how much it costs, 1 ten thousand, 1 ten thousand, because life is priceless. There are such people on the internet, which is easy to say.
Now that I see this topic, I am more and more cautious. I need to think a few times and turn a few times before I can write.
Whether you are 60 or 30, if you can cure the disease, you should treat him even if you sell the house. But many patients have reached the advanced stage, and the hope of cure is very slim, almost zero.
If you treat him, you will end up with both money and people. Not long ago, it was reported on the Internet that a 59-year-old man jumped from 2 1 building for fear of dragging his family down.
Afterwards, his wife said that he was just afraid of spending money.
There is also a 48-year-old man who was diagnosed with coronary heart disease by physical examination. If you have surgery, the doctor said it would cost more than 654.38 million yuan. He also has a son in senior three. His son said, "My father probably thought of this money and was afraid of causing us trouble, so he chose to run away from home and committed suicide."
For the rich, what is 654.38+ 10,000 yuan? But for the poor, they think of death.
But the more hopeless it is, the more money you fill in this hole and this bottomless pit, the doctor knows best. What can be cured may push people to the wall, not to mention realizing that there is no possibility of cure.
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Since it is advanced, it is better not to treat it. Because I just saw all kinds of magical operations about oncologists in the past two days ... I think nine times out of ten, you will end up with both money and someone. It is better to spend this money happily and live the rest of your life well.