When people are young, when choosing a wife or girlfriend, they first look at their figure and face, regardless of their personality and temper; When I reach middle age, I will find that the beauty of a woman lies not in her appearance, but in her tolerant and kind character, especially a coquetry woman. Once coquetry is scattered to a man's death, it will hit his inner weakness. At this time, even if she wants him to die, the man will die peacefully with a smile and a satisfied expression. Women all over the world imagine too much, and men are actually very easy to mess with. What men want is just a kind of tolerance and care similar to maternal love, a feeling of no regrets and a sense of conformity. I don't regard a woman as a follower or a second sex, and I don't discriminate against women. Really, what a man wants is the kind of touch that she will never give up even if she is down and out again. Men are ignorant animals when they are young, and will evolve into human beings in middle age. Only when the amount of hormones secreted by men is reduced can we really see where the beauty of women lies. To tell the truth, I used to be an ignorant animal, but I'm not the only one. Many masters, doctors, doctors, and even political and business celebrities discovered after half a year that every man is the same, and they all found that women who can coquetry are the most beautiful. I have a friend who is very handsome and has a good family background. When he was young, he got a rich girl, who was as beautiful and elegant as a star. A few years later, they got married and had two children, but after ten years of marriage, this handsome guy with excellent family background insisted on divorcing the rich girl regardless of the opposition of both families. Six months later, the handsome boy married another girl, but this marriage surprised everyone because the handsome boy married a waitress in a restaurant. Her family is ordinary and her father is a small civil servant. She is not a star, nor is she as beautiful as a star. She looks ordinary, but she deeply captures the handsome boy's heart. Once, I was also curious and secretly asked the handsome guy why he was so obsessed with ordinary waitresses. He told a story about buying soy sauce. He said that he had had enough of the torture and abuse of star-studded women for ten years. Before he left, he did it for the children, but he couldn't stand it for ten years, because this beautiful woman never treats people like people, eats well, wears famous brands, and everything in life must meet her perfect requirements. As long as there is a little flaw or imperfection, she will swear and even greet her ancestors for eight generations. Even if he was her husband, he didn't do a little thing well. Like the end of the world, the whole family was shaken by her, and finally everyone became her servants. Occasionally, he is under great pressure at work and wants to seek her comfort and complain to her, but she laughs at his lack of ambition and why he doesn't find a job that is stress-free and makes a lot of money. Occasionally, he wants to find her to relax or warm up. All she has to do is go out for three or four hours, choose clothes and shoes, and make an appointment with her the day before, otherwise she won't be able to pick out shoes and clothes that can match. Tired for a long time, he can finally go out. He wanted to get close to her, but she was too crowded, her hands were dirty or he was afraid that SARS might break out again, so he had no mood at all, just like a slave listening to the sermon and instructions of his hostess. XXX！ He endured all this. Finally, what really dissatisfied him was a bottle of soy sauce. One day, the lady suddenly had a whim and wanted to cook Hunan cuisine. In the evening, she called him in the office and told him to stop by a supermarket to buy AA brand soy sauce when he got off work. He dare not refuse. However, he had a meeting all day and he was really tired. He was stuck in the car for almost an hour, and managed to find a parking space in the supermarket, just for a bottle of soy sauce to settle the bill with the people waiting in line. Then, I came home tired and gave the soy sauce to my wife. I was just about to lie on the sofa and have a rest when my wife let out a scream in the kitchen, and then rushed out with a kitchen knife in one hand and the bottle of soy sauce in the other: "You pig! Go back and change it right away ... I said I wanted AA brand, but you bought BB brand. Why don't you listen to me ... You have no respect for me! In this way, for a bottle of soy sauce, she scolded for half an hour, even involving the family problems of both sides. She also said that he felt inferior in his heart and would tease her with this little gesture ... At this time, he was tired and annoyed, so angry that he wanted to say, "My wife is just a bottle of soy sauce for eating ... why bother?" "But his wife picked up a kitchen knife and forced him to change back to AA. Looking at his wife's face, he looks like a mortal enemy. Suddenly, he opened his eyes. He stood up and waved off the kitchen knife in her hand. Then, for the first time in his life, he gave her a slap in the face (because she is a rich girl, she can't bear to scold, let alone hit), and then simply said, "Buy it yourself! "Let's divorce tomorrow!" Of course! How can a lady who has been above herself be "fired"? She went to her parents' house and cried and said that she would take her children to commit suicide, but the handsome boy ignored her. Later, when the lady saw that the trouble continued and she lost face, she took the opportunity to knock a large sum of alimony from the handsome boy and divorced. After the handsome guy divorced, he lost his mansion, savings and famous car in order to pay alimony. But he felt reborn, feeling unprecedented freedom and carefree. After ten years in prison, he finally escaped from the clutches of the devil. He began to go to work by bus, eat roadside stalls and rent an apartment to live by himself. One day I went to a small restaurant with my colleagues and accidentally spilled the soup. The table and clothes are wet. A waitress was not afraid of getting dirty and offered to help him clean up. She always comforts him. He told me that he had an impulse to throw himself in the waitress's arms and cry. This waitress is his wife now. Similarly, one day before going to work, he received a phone call from his wife asking him to buy soy sauce before going home. Handsome guy is too tired. He wanted to say that he could eat out, but his wife spoiled on the phone and said that she would make him stew. No matter how tired he was, he bought it. Then he thought of his ex-wife's AA brand soy sauce. When he arrived at the convenience store, he specially bought BB brand soy sauce. When he got home, his wife greeted him with a big smile, and then used soy sauce as a dish. Handsome boy went to the kitchen curiously and asked her if it should be AA brand. The wife said that it doesn't matter what brand, and the husband brand is the most fragrant. In this way, the handsome boy killed his spoiled wife for life. He told me that his spoiled wife is the most beautiful in his eyes, and no woman can replace her. Life is bitter, and men live and work hard enough. If you really want to find a life partner, why bother to find a mistress and spoil yourself even more, just like living in an endless hell. 2 1 century, divorce seems to be the most popular between men and women. As for marriage and between men and women, my opinion is: "Marriage is like dressing. Some people like to dress luxuriously, but they are uncomfortable and even painful. But I'd rather choose a T-shirt that is not famous or high-end. It's simple and easy. There is no right or wrong in marriage and divorce. Everyone has different personalities and needs. Some people just want a perfect and rigorous spouse, while others just want a slightly confused and indifferent partner. Everyone wants what they want. There is no absolute standard, and it cannot be said that a lady is not good, but it depends on what the other half wants. There is no point in criticizing each other because of personality differences. However, people are sentient creatures after all. When people get along with each other, no one can tolerate critical or acerbic temper, and no one can tolerate ruthless and severe criticism and aggression, especially in husband and wife or marriage. That is, if people with feelings want to be together, they should not use military or harsh laws to put pressure on each other. Williams, a famous American psychologist, once said, "Everyone in the world needs the care and attention of others. This is the eternal truth. "Therefore, at home, back to the affectionate partner, every man is eager to get affectionate, flexible and inclusive care. At this time, even if a man has any minor mistakes or carelessness, a smart woman will not only blame and scold him, but will first comfort him from the perspective of tolerance and care, and then use the unique coquetry gene of women to make him willing to change or even be positive. I think this is what men want. As far as I know, behind every failed man, there is always a woman who is not sensible and can't be spoiled. When a man is in low tide or under too much pressure, they will still yell at them or make a scene. No wonder men are determined to end this inhuman relationship under the pressure of internal and external affairs. A woman who can spoil is the most beautiful. A coquetry woman can make a successful man. Behind many successful men in society is a beautiful woman who knows how to spoil and inspire men. I am sincerely happy for these lucky men, but I still want to ask God: "God! Where is my spoiled girl? Although I haven't found a spoiled girl in my life, I believe the chances of finding one will be higher and higher in the future, because the purpose of this article is to teach women all over the world that men are eager for women to spoil themselves. Then, if a man is eaten to death and asked to buy soy sauce, toilet paper and bra, he will do it with a smile, even if he climbs over mountains, slopes and pans. In this way, more and more women will be spoiled, and every man can appreciate the true beauty of women from the heart. I believe that there can be immortal couples everywhere in this world, and there is no regret in the world. Most importantly, I can meet my coquettish girl. A philosopher said to a man, "as long as you know how to praise your wife's old clothes for their beauty, she won't clamor for new clothes." Kiss your wife's eyes and she will go blind. Kiss her lips and she will become dumb. " Smart woman! As long as you know how to praise your husband's talent, he will work harder for you. Give him a coquettish hug, and he won't be angry and violent. Give him a kiss on the mouth and he won't swear. The family is not a legislative yuan, so there is no need for long speeches and reasoning, and there is no need to be red-faced. As long as you know how to be spoiled and considerate, you can enjoy family happiness. Smart woman, why not? Oh, my god Please give me a spoiled wife.