Part 1: invitation preparation
1, you must first know whether your invitee has been invited by others. If you spend a lot of time and energy thinking of a wonderful way to invite him/her, only to find that he/she has been invited by someone else, how depressed it will be. In order to avoid these embarrassing things, please investigate whether he/she has been invited by others. You can subtly mention the dance, and then ask him/her directly if he/she has found a date. You can say, "Are you excited about the dance?" I hope his/her answer can reveal whether he/she already has a date.
Let your friends investigate. If your friend is also the friend of the person you invited, you can use this trick. Let them find out whether he/she wants to go with others.
2. Find out what your invitee likes. If he/she hates country style, how strange it is that you invite him/her to the dance by singing him/her a country song. At the same time, remember that some people don't want others to invite him/her in a high-profile way, while others want the whole school to participate. In addition, we should learn his/her preferences in a clever way. When you talk to the invitee, you can say, "Do you know how Timmy invited Sandy to the dance? He got the whole school involved! " If your date says, "Wow, that's great!" You can invite him/her in a creative way. If he/she says "Well, that's a bit overdone", then you should choose a clever way to invite him/her, or even invite him/her directly.
3. Be prepared to be rejected. No matter which way you use it, you should prepare for this step. People do turn down invitations to dances once in a while. There are many reasons for his/her refusal, but you should be optimistic. Although it is uncomfortable, you should accept the rejection gracefully. As the saying goes, there are plenty of fish in the sea. Smile and say, "Thank you anyway! I hope you have a good time with your partner. " If you don't want to go with others, you can consider going alone. Group all friends who have no company together and then attend the dance together. Many times, the other person's partner won't stick to him all night-then you have a chance to dance and chat with the one you originally wanted to invite.
Part 2: Direct Invitation
1, directly invited. Remember, you don't have to think of a creative way to invite a partner. If you know that your invitee is a trouble-free person, he/she may appreciate a peaceful and sincere direct invitation rather than an invitation that is hard to beat around the bush.
2. Wait for a chance to be alone. When you are alone with the invitee, start with some ordinary conversations, and don't be nervous or behave differently.
3. Tell him/her that you think he/she is different. Arouse his/her memory of the good times you experienced together. With these foundations, ask him/her if he/she would like to go dancing with you. You can simply say to him/her, "We are so happy together. Do you want to go to the dance with me?" Or "I don't know if going to the dance is fun, but I think it will be fun to go with you. Would you like to go with me?"
Part 3: Invitation by note or sign
1 Leave a clever note for your partner. Where to put the note or how to give it to him/her needs to be planned in advance, but you and your partner will still leave a lovely souvenir after the dance, so you will feel very happy. But you must realize that inviting by leaving a note means that you are not present when the invitee receives the invitation. If you want to know his/her answer, you have to wait, so prepare for it!
2. Use a standard piece of paper or a huge sign. Make a sign that says "-the name of the invitee-,would you like to attend the dance with me?" Then draw three check boxes below and write "yes", "no" and "maybe" next to them. Ask him/her to check the box that represents his/her reply. To make this way more subtle, you can make a mini version of the above logo and stuff it into an envelope. On the envelope, it says: to-his/her name-and sign your name. Ask a friend to give it to him/her personally and wait for him/her to open the envelope and choose a reply. Then let a friend serve as a "messenger" to send the reply back to you.
3. Think of a witty pun. Puns are both witty and beautiful. Everything about the dance is beautiful, isn't it? Think of a pun! Candy pun: leave a path of candy and put a sign with clever candy pun at the end of the road. Example: Sprinkle Hershey's Kiss chocolate on a small road, and let your invitee find it (preferably in his/her home or garden, so as to avoid being picked up or eaten by others. Put a sign at the end of the path that says, "I've kissed the road you walked. Can you go to the dance with me?"
Food pun: Fruit is more than just an ornament on your dessert. Example 1: Put a cantaloupe and a cantaloupe under the door of your invitee. On the cantaloupe, write (carve or stick a label) "I know we are very sweet?" Write or stick a label on the honeydew melon that says, "But honey, do you want to go to the dance with me?" Example 2: If you are a vegetarian, you can buy 9 large peas (sugar peas or crisp peas are better). Carve a word on each pea to form a sentence: "Will the beauty go to the dance with me?"
Crime scene pun: If you are both interested in crime scene investigation, you can try this invitation. Lying in front of his/her house. Ask a friend to chalk out the outline of your body. Write "I want to go to the dance with you" or "Your attraction to me is fatal, please go to the dance with me" in your outline (with chalk), and then write the signature next to your outline. Before using this method, please make sure that the other party's parents approve of you, otherwise even if your invitee wants to promise you, he/she will be forced to refuse you because his/her parents don't like your behavior.
4. T-shirt invitation. Buy an all-white cotton T-shirt and sew a dance on it. Sew your name on it, and write 10 other same-sex names on it in washable handwriting. Wrap the T-shirt (or put it on a big teddy bear) and put it under the door of the person you invite. At the same time, leave a note asking him/her to clean his/her T-shirt and see who is inviting him/her to the dance. Be sure to tell him/her not to wash it with other clothes, because other names on the T-shirt will be dyed on other clothes after washing. In order to get his/her reply, you can sew your phone number on the back of your clothes, and then ask him/her to call you. You can write on the note, flamingo, and wear this T-shirt when he/she agrees to go to school tomorrow.
5. Balloon invitation. Everyone likes balloons-they are bright, pleasant and easy to write on. Buy five balloons and write "Go to the dance?" . If you have the same class with him/her, you can come to the classroom early and ask the teacher to let you tie the balloon on his/her seat. When he/she comes in and sees the balloon, you wave to him or go up to him/her and give him/her a rose and say, "What's up?" Or, if you don't have the same class as him/her, you can buy another balloon and write your name. Even in the same class with him/her, as long as you let him/her know who is inviting.
Part 4: Invitation to Events
1 Invite your partner at a public event. An invitation to a big event will usually impress your invitee and-if you can do it properly-it's free. Think of a place you can invite: a football match, a break from a school performance, a religious gathering, or other places where many people you know are present. It should be noted that one disadvantage of inviting in front of others is that if you are rejected, then everyone will know. If you are confident enough that he/she will promise you, or you don't care what other people think, then invite you on a public occasion, which will bring you more strength.
2, associated with sports. There are many ways to connect your invitation with sports. If you all play a sport, you may want to do something related to sports. If you want to do something to attract broadcasters to report on the school sports meeting, please make sure that your invitees participate in the sports meeting. If your partner will take part in the competition you are doing, ask your team members to help you out. At the beginning or in the middle of the game, let your team catch the awl and spell out the Prom "prom?" This word (maybe you can let them lie on the ground to form "Prom" with their bodies, but that needs a lot of cooperation. ) Let the host say "-your name-I wonder if you can go to the prom with him/her-the name of your partner"
3. Invitation between performances. If you are in a school performance, even if you are not there, but your friends are in the performance, you can ask if you can perform on the stage when you pause. Once again, you should make sure that your future partner is in the audience. Or ask questions loudly, or use gestures (it may attract attention, after all, you are on the stage). There is another step, that is, let the lighting engineers find your future partner and then focus the lights on him/her.
4. Invite at the school meeting. You can also walk into the middle of a crowd or room, holding a bunch of roses or balloons, and ask a person to say, "[Your name] wants to know if [your partner's name] can go to the prom with him/her". It is worth emphasizing that try to leave your partner alone, but let the lights focus on him/her.
5. Invite at lunch. Although lunch may not be a big deal, all your friends and seniors are there. If you want to ask your partner something important, ask him/her at lunch. You can ask him/her in various ways, just like using balloons mentioned before, but if you add an audience, your question will be more exciting.
Part 5: Using Treasure Hunting Games
1, let your partner take part in the treasure hunt. Of all the ways to ask your partner whether to attend the prom with you, the treasure hunt is probably the most time-consuming (but it is very interesting for you and your partner).
2. Buy a bunch of roses. A thorn-free rose is a great idea, because your future partner will focus on these flowers and hold them in his hand. In fact, you don't need to buy roses-you can choose other items as long as they are a dozen. For example, you can use a lot of football, a lot of packaged cupcakes, a lot of skateboards ... you get photos.
3. Write 1 1 clues on a piece of paper. Fold this 1 1 piece of paper into roses. Or whatever else you choose, don't write these clues too obscure, or your partner may not find you. To make the game easier, you can put these folded roses in a walking place (maybe around your school? ) so that your partner can get them easily.
4. Put these roses in the place you choose to hide. You stand at the last hiding place, holding the last rose (or other things). If possible, find a friend and let her/him join your future dance partner in this treasure hunt-so that your friend can send you a text message to tell you that your dance partner is closer to you, so that you don't have to wait for an hour in the same place. If you like, while holding the rose, you can also take one that says "prom?" Sign. This is just to let your partner know more clearly what the purpose of this treasure hunt is.
Part 6: Use some creative methods.
1, write a song. Who doesn't like serenading? If you have a musical inclination, pick up a guitar (or banjo, mandolin, etc.) and create a song that adds questions about your future partner and the prom. Let a band join. If you are in a band, so much the better. You can learn a song for your future partner together. Another option is to take your band members to your future partner's home. Let every member hide behind the tree. Ring the doorbell and make sure that your future partner is the one who opens the door. If you want to perform a musical instrument, start from you and extend the songs you wrote. One by one, let each band member come out of the hiding place, so that your whole band can perform in front of him/her in the end.
2. Ask your animal friends for help. Animals are very cute, and they can make every scene better! If you have a pet that allows you to do this, you can hang a sign around its neck that says "prom?" . You can take your pet to your future partner's house and let it stand in a bouquet of roses or a box of chocolates. Your companion will be moved by the cuteness of the pet and have to agree to go to the dance with you. Another option is to take a picture of your pet with that one that says "prom?" Send this photo to your future partner by email, text message or Facebook. If your future partner is very interested in animals, this method is the best.
3. Use pizza. Put pepperoni on the pizza. Tell me about these pieces of spicy sausage put into "prom?" . If you don't have enough pepperoni, buy a lot of packages and add as much as you need to the pizza. Double-check that your future partner is at home, whether by calling his/her home or asking your friend to send a text message asking what he/she is busy with. Go to your future partner's house, ring the doorbell and pretend you work at the pizza delivery place. When your partner says that he/she didn't order pizza, say something like "Oh, let me check", then open the box and show him/her what you made "prom?" The word pizza.
4. Make a puzzle for the prom. Buy a card (colored cards are certainly better) and write "Dear [your partner's name], would you like to go to the prom with me? Write "Your name". Put these small cards in the box, and then give this box to your future partner.
Tip: Don't delay. The early bird catches the worm.
If you don't get a reply immediately, you are a backup. That is to say, they are waiting for the invitation of the person in their hearts, and you are just plan B. If you suspect that the other person thinks this way, ask them to give you an answer in a few days, otherwise you should guess that the answer is "no".