First of all, because Song Siming's marriage was not voluntary, she had regrets, and her marriage was full of misfortunes. Mrs. Song is a descendant of a high official. Anyone who watches the drama carefully will know that Song Siming's father-in-law is a local official. Combined with Song's personal background, it is not difficult to find that this marriage with some political factors helped Song's rise in the world. Song Siming is very grateful to his wife. Even if he loved seaweed to death, when Mrs. Song's father was seriously ill, he comforted his wife and said, "Don't be afraid, I'm here." Although this is not necessarily love, it may be gratitude or gratitude, but Song is not an irresponsible person, but his emotional contradictions make him embarrassed.

Second, seaweed gave Song Siming the first time. In a play, Song Siming told seaweed that seaweed gave him the "first time" and cherished it. Seaweed asked, "Isn't it the first time for your wife?" Song Siming turned pale: "I can't chat." This conversation shows that Song's marriage left a great regret for Song. Whether the virgin complex is right or wrong, as a man, it is understandable that you want to have a woman completely, including the past. Song Siming, in particular, was born in poverty, with a conservative nature and a low social status. This kind of regret is easily associated with emptiness.

Three, seaweed gave birth to a son for Song Siming. Song Siming's family background determines that his views on marriage/feelings are conservative. He was very excited when he learned that Haizao was pregnant with a boy. It's not that I don't like his daughter and Mrs. Song's daughter, but that every successful man will long for a successor. In fact, men, like lions, are very protective of their own territory, and they also hope that someone can inherit their own career or something else.

Fourthly, seaweed took a fancy to Song Like's first love with Siming, which made up for his regret. At the reunion of old classmates, some old classmates said that seaweed looked like that person (probably Song's first girlfriend) and later died unfortunately. Combined with the regret of Song's political marriage, Song will definitely miss his first love. Seaweed made Song find the shadow of his first love. Many people say that seaweed is not a substitute for first love. Not exactly. Many times, the initiation of feelings has many strange causes, but after getting along, there are naturally unique stories belonging to a certain relationship.