Forgive me for being so uninhibited and indulgent in my life.

I love a good girl with all five poisons.

The girl with all the five poisons is the most moving:

Independent values.

Independent discernment.

Unique lifestyle.

A unique personality.

And a love of reading.

Is there a girl like that beside you?

Orchid, its fragrance, five poisons, alone.

She came to the world as if she had a mysterious mission.

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This is a quote from Dabing when he wrote about the "beautiful girl warrior" Xiao Yunzu.

In the words of Dabing, Xiao Yun Dou is a girl who looks beautiful and lives beautifully, and in this world, there is no risk she does not dare to take, and there is no life she does not dare to die.

I admire her, she has traveled alone to many places, seen a lot of scenery I have not seen, with a lot of experience and experience I have not.

I admire her for having traveled alone to many places, for having seen many landscapes that I have not seen, and for having had many experiences that I have not had.

We all want to live as beautifully as we can, in different ways.

02

When "Ode to Joy" was on the air, each of the characters was pushed to the forefront of public opinion. Just like us in life, some people like you, some people don't like you, and some people even hate you. What attracted me most to this drama is also its characterization.

The five beauties are different from the silly white sweet in youth idol dramas, nor are they the cold-hearted villains in those positive dramas. They have different backgrounds and very different personalities, but everyone can find their own shadows in them.

They are kind, but also occasionally show a selfish side; they all want to fight with their own efforts to make a piece of heaven and earth, but also often by the hardness of life to wear out the courage. The contradictions that ordinary people have, small minds, are reflected in their bodies.

They are not perfect, but no one can say that they are not good girls. Because each of them is so real, so vivid existence.

Like Andy, her rationality is I think I have been missing part; like small earthworms, she is naive and kind, had a few similar experience more let me have more of an understanding of her and heartache; like Guan Guan, I think that's what I am in other people's eyes - ordinary, but I'm the same as her, because not willing to I like Fan, even if her life is difficult, she still rushes to the front when others are in trouble.

The most favorite, or Qu Xiao Xiao.

03

When I first read the paragraph about Big Bing, the first person who appeared in my mind was Vivian Qu. Of course, she only has "four poisons" because she doesn't like to read.

Like I said earlier, every character is controversial. Maybe in the eyes of many people, she is bratty and willful, doing things without a bottom line, no culture. But what I like about her is her spontaneity, and the "demonic spirit" she carries. Perhaps every person who is used to being a good girl has a rebellious heart.

I think she lives a particularly free life: she can speak as she pleases, and she doesn't have to think twice about what she's doing. I don't think her aura stems from her rich family, even if she is as common as you and me, she still has the ability to make herself free and happy. That's an inherent aura in her, innate.

04

She has unique values.

For love, she is not as constrained as Andy, not as timid as Guan Guan, not as brainless as Little Earthworm, and not as tired of love as Fan. She dares to love the sensational, but also can be broken cleanly.

Treating money, she does not pretend to say that she regards money as dirt. She will admit that she loves money, and then work hard to fulfill her needs. She does have a better platform than the average person, but she does not sit on her hands, but she personally scrambles to run the business one by one, because she wants to be recognized, and she also understands that "the paper is not as shallow as it should be, and you have to do what you have to do to know what you have to do".

She did not want to cooperate because of the New Year and Wang Bachuan said: "My family is so rich, I am most qualified to eat and wait for death, I still pull the baggage all over the world to find business. New Year's Eve is nothing, there are opportunities to make money ah, New Year's Eve and other things are floating clouds."

In terms of dealing with the world, she is unique and thorough. She looks crazy on the surface, in fact, the heart understands very well. The serious when serious, the time to fool around, never ambiguous. She also knows that only with real skills, only to be qualified to pursue everything else.

She said to the confused little earthworm: "Yes, you have no temper, you true nature, but if you do not have real skills, who wants to see your true nature ah. This world is so cruel, what's the use of encouragement. No one in this world is obliged to make you happy except yourself."

She has a unique capacity for discernment.

"To fall in love for the purpose of marriage, that is all utilitarian. To fall in love, to love until you no longer have the strength to fold, then get married. That's what's noble, that's the greatest respect for love."

"Not stingy rich, do not love money no fortune."

"To be a real scripture, oneself is the most tired; to be a hypocrite, the people around you are the most tired; to be a man is not serious, but as long as there is a real skill, others will say that you are true to yourself, but not serious and not serious is not the same thing."

It seems like a crooked idea, but listening to her tell it to you, it's very intriguing. More and more in-depth understanding of the character, will gradually realize that she has not only those small smarts, but also no lack of life wisdom. But she didn't say it in a serious way.

She has a unique lifestyle.

During the day, she can ride the sea of business, and various bosses around, in the business field of the hundred battles invincible, understanding of the world; night she can also be in the nightclub and the "friends" to have a good time.

The reason why interesting souls are so rare is that most people are stuck in one way of life, not daring to try and change. She, on the other hand, can do both.

She has a unique personality.

There's no need to elaborate too much on this one, as the one who can easily convince Dr. Zhao is definitely not an ordinary person ╭(╯^╰)╮

05

Every time I see the pop-ups on the screen where people say, "I'd love to have a friend like Vivienne Qu," I wonder if I would ever want to have a friend like Vivienne Qu! I would think, would I want a friend like that?

So torn. Seriously, the flighty and bossy Vivian Qu is not something a glassy heart can handle.

I would feel how suffocated I would have to be to be friends with her. She can be toxic, but she can't just make a mistake when I'm still bewildered and confused, and then scold me; she can be a knife mouth and tofu heart, but she can't be sarcastic when I'm really sad.

But she is such a person, obviously very kind, but always have to pretend a bad look. She's too lovey-dovey and a little self-righteous. So in the beginning, a lot of people didn't like her very much.

So what was it, again, that made people really love her?

I slowly realized that we like Vivian Qu, like is not her in the see clearly the essence of the face of the Fan sister of the target at every corner, but in the Fan family time and time again have a difficult time when her enthusiasm to help; is not her in the small earthworm sad when the cynicism, but her in the small earthworm bullied by bullying to stand up to the small earthworm; is not her those who think it is a small smart and the so-called "jianghu wisdom "but her main and secondary clear key moment does not fall off the chain; not her face of love when the seemingly frivolous behavior and words, but she thinks the right person in the deep love.

06

Associated with a few days ago he was a classmate said snarky. In fact, before being said so, I always thought I was quite gentle ......

Self-reflection, as if recently dislike people dislike habit.

I remembered my previous comment:

"I always think that those who are not happy to be scolded, disliked at the drop of a hat, and sprayed when they are not accustomed to it are straightforward and spontaneous," he said.

But now I realize that the world is so big and there are so many messy things, and to be able to always be gentle and kind is a real ability."

Now that I think about it, it's quite a slap in the face. I can write a lot of words, but it's really quite difficult to do. Being able to write warm words and being able to be a warm person are two completely different concepts.

Being a warm person is more important and more difficult. It's like Qu Xiaoxiang will never whisper to comfort you or write you chicken soup to comfort you. But by her side, you will have a full sense of security, you know that she will definitely protect you all around.

From this point of view, Qu Qu is definitely warm and kind.

Although I think it's harmless to be playful and angry, I also understand that you should learn to let others not only see your "harshness", but also see your gentle kindness.

07

Both to be full of five poison, but also to be gentle and kind.

Is it contradictory?

Not at all.

It echoes the Confucian idea of "being strict with oneself and lenient with others". The five poisons are the rules we have for ourselves. The idea of being gentle and kind is how we treat others.

If you can really get the right balance, not only can you make your own life full of abundance, but also bring a positive energy to the people around you, right?

May you live out of yourself and love others.