You are similar to us. My husband was born in 1986 and I was born in 1991. We were also born in the same month and on the same day. We celebrated our birthdays a week ago and only bought a big cake with a little tiger on it. A little sheep, and then they engraved each other's names in correspondence. You need to ask the cake boss to help you get it done early. The two of you will eat a cake together, and then call your relatives and friends to help you celebrate. That would be lively