2. Don't use your own point of view to forcibly kidnap others morally. People grow up in different environments, and everyone has their own views and difficulties. It is enough for a person to do three things well in his life. He knows what is right and does it, but he does not force others to do it.
Don't always compromise yourself by accommodating others. There are very few people in this world who are worth bending over. Bending for a long time will only make people get used to your low profile, and yours is not important.
4. No matter how well you do, there are still people pointing fingers; Even if you are in a mess, there are still people singing hymns. So you don't have to fall into the eyes of others. All you need to please is yourself. Don't live in other people's mouths, don't live in other people's eyes, and your destiny is in your own hands.
The faster you deal with your emotions, the faster you can succeed. Temper will drive away luck. Therefore, those who seem to have big hearts just have to bear it. Before you become what you want to be, do two things well: live. Hold on.
6. If you don't like your present job, either quit or shut up. When you are young, you are prone to arrogance. Can't do big things and don't want to do small things. Don't get into the habit of being picky. I am too lazy to take an umbrella on rainy days, and I am afraid of getting wet without an umbrella, showing dissatisfaction everywhere. Remember, if you don't do it, you must do it well.
7. Throw away things you don't like, blacken people you hate, sleep when you are unhappy, delete tired photos, confess when you meet people you like, and eat favorite food when you are hungry. Life is too short for you to hesitate.
8. On the road of life, you must be bold, cautious and thick-skinned. If you lose your temper or get carried away because of someone else's words, your heart is actually following others' words. It is foolish to pin your happiness on a casual sentence from others.
9. Don't live too tired or too busy; Don't be too expensive if you want to eat, and don't waste if you want to wear it; If you are upset, find a friend to get together. If you fall asleep, go to bed. Peace of mind is always the most beautiful, and every day is happy.
10. In refusing this matter, the simpler the better. Obviously, others need their own help to explain how they owe others for a long time. If you can help, help if you want. If you can't help, you can refuse. Interpersonal communication, simple and clear, is sometimes the most appropriate, know how to refuse, and live without entanglement!
1 1. If you really don't know what to do in the future, then do the immediate thing first. As long as today is better than yesterday, it is progress. In the long run, time will naturally give you an unexpected future.
12. You can manage your emotions well, and you are elegant; If you can control your mentality, you will succeed.
13. When I was young, happiness was true; When you grow up, happiness is a state; Then, suddenly one day, I found that happiness is neither a physical object nor a state, but an understanding.
14. A person's maturity is not reflected in how many achievements he has made, but in the face of people and things he hates, he does not cater to them, does not contradict them, and just smiles indifferently. When the heart can accommodate a lot of things that you don't like, this is called aura.
15. Love and friendship are the same. When you are strong enough, the corresponding circle will actively absorb you. You don't need to feel sorry for yourself, let alone please. What you need is self-sufficiency and excitement.
16. People don't have to be beautiful, as long as someone loves them deeply. People don't have to be too rich, just live a warm life.
17. When you are in a bad mood, always ask yourself what you have instead of nothing. The world is big, there are many opportunities, and life is short. Don't curl up in a small shadow.
18. Maturity means that you have magnified your feelings in the past, and now you can handle it yourself even if you are in trouble. Some roads, you must walk alone, this is not loneliness, but choice.
19. Enjoy achievements at high tide, enjoy life at low tide, do meaningful work when you are in the mood, and do interesting things when you are not in the mood.
20. Life is always a dilemma. No matter how persistent and unwilling you are, you should learn to accept those who are gradually becoming less pure. From crying and complaining to smiling, in the final analysis, this is just a carefree situation.
2 1. If you are in a bad mood, listen to sad songs less. If you are hungry, you should find your own food. If you are afraid of the dark, you should turn on the light. If you want it, you should make money to buy it yourself. Even if life gives you all kinds of obstacles, there is no need to exaggerate your difficulties with sitcoms. The reality is so cruel, how can you pretend to be innocent? Don't care too much about what can't be changed. People who can't stay will try to give up, and broken hearts will try their best to heal themselves. Except for life and death, it is a small matter. Don't embarrass yourself.