The first generation of only children in China after 1990s is gradually entering the stage of marriage and childbearing. Some "post-90 s" who have just entered the ranks of parents are also troubled by many problems and become "problem parents" in the eyes of doctors.
First, the problem is that I don't want to breastfeed.
Clinically, we often see some new mothers born after 90, who are full of milk and in good health, but insist on doctors to help them return milk, blocking the baby's natural food. The reason is that I am too troublesome, worried about getting fat, sagging breasts and being unemployed, which will affect my career promotion. In a word, I really seldom think about my children, and I don't want to give everything for them like the previous generation.
Second, the new mother is sissy and the new father has no temper.
After 90, the new mother got acute mastitis and went to the hospital. Often she is followed by her husband, mother-in-law, mother-in-law and new moon. The pain of being a mother, tears streaming down her face; The mother felt sorry for her daughter, but she asked the doctor to return the milk to her when it was clear that the milk was enough to cure acute mastitis. No matter how earnestly the doctor talks about the benefits of breastfeeding, mother and daughter still don't listen. The new father often just stands by and does not dissuade or express his opinions.
Third, there are many misunderstandings in common sense.
1, improper use of hot compress can cause breast swelling and hot pain.
Clinically, it is common for some pregnant women to have red, swollen and hot breasts, and it is very undesirable to use hot compress. In the view of Chinese medicine, "hot is cold, and cold is hot", while local hot compress is "hot is hot", which not only hurts, but also is easy to be toxic and toxic, and the milk is purulent. When the skin is reddish and burning, furong ointment can be used externally to clear away heat and toxic materials, cool blood and reduce swelling.
2, do not understand the physiological anatomy of the breast, milk ejection improper.
Let a "professionally trained" Yue Yue give a live demonstration of milk shooting, only to see Yue Yue rubbing his hands back and forth on the parturient's breasts and massaging them irregularly at will, making the new mother scream again and again, but there was no milk accumulation. The doctor stopped it at once, so many women don't understand the physiological and anatomical characteristics of breasts, which leads to improper milk discharge.
3, scrub with alcohol to dry the nipple.
Some young mothers think that alcohol can be disinfected, so they wipe their nipples with alcohol. The doctor warned that this was wrong. Ethanol can make nipples brittle and dry, and bacteria can easily cause breast infection through dry nipples. Washing nipples with warm water every day is the right way. After drying, you can apply some sesame oil or licorice oil.
4, the baby sleeps with milk, causing harm to mother and baby.
Some new mothers are worried about their children crying, and let them form the bad habit of drinking milk and sleeping. The doctor said that the child's breath is very hot, on the one hand, it affects the child's oral hygiene, on the other hand, it is easy to cause damage to the mother's nipple and areola, which in turn leads to nipple inflammation and areola inflammation.
5, "blind nipple" does not return milk in time
Newborn mothers have a high proportion of congenital nipple deformities, such as severe nipple depression and large breasts, commonly known as "blind nipple". As far as medicine is concerned, these women have no conditions for breastfeeding, and they should return to breast milk in time after delivery. But some new mothers don't know medical knowledge, can't get good guidance, and don't know how to return milk. As a result, after a large number of lactation, mastitis occurred due to the obstruction of milk duct and nipple, and finally caused acute mastitis. She reminded expectant mothers to know whether the breasts have breastfeeding conditions after pregnancy. If the nipple is slightly sunken or short, pull it out with your fingers frequently to create conditions for postpartum newborns to suck.
Fourth, invigorating qi leads to excessive stomach heat.
The doctor said that many new mothers seeking medical treatment for acute mastitis have thick and greasy tongue coating, sores on their mouths, bad temper, dry stools and bad breath when they open their mouths. Because you eat too well and make up too much, chicken soup, fish soup, pig's foot soup, sparerib soup and so on. They are all the reasons that lead to spleen and stomach heat accumulation, blocked milk collaterals and blocked milk injection. On the contrary, some pregnant women worry about getting fat and eating too little, which leads to insufficient milk secretion and insufficient food for their babies. She reminded that pregnant women should not be picky eaters, but should be diversified, coarse and fine, with vegetarian ingredients, widely eaten and reasonable nutrition.
Verb (abbreviation for verb) unwanted pregnancy and breastfeeding
Physician introduction: Domestic research shows that about 50% of women can resume ovulation within 60 days after delivery. In clinical work, more and more pregnant women will get pregnant again 2-3 months after delivery, which shows that postpartum contraception can not be ignored. Postpartum qi and blood have not recovered, and the functions of organs such as endometrium have not recovered, especially after caesarean section. If you get pregnant again too early, it will increase the difficulty of induced abortion and even endanger your life. The doctor reminded the new mother that contraceptive measures must be taken during lactation, and all contraceptives containing estrogen and limiting milk secretion should not be eaten.
Sixth, lactation depression
Depression in lactation caused by stagnation of liver qi often appears in clinic. Symptoms include insomnia, early awakening, loss of appetite, sentimental tears, upset, lack of self-confidence and so on. He analyzed the following main reasons:
1. The birth of a child brings great happiness and excitement to the new mother, but also brings inner pressure and worries about whether to take care of the child.
2. Although some post-90s girls are married, they are not ready to be a competent mother and are not adapted to the change of roles, so they are nervous and anxious.
3. The maternal body is mostly deficient in qi and blood. If the mood is not smooth, it will easily lead to liver failure and stagnation of liver qi, even if it is a very ordinary small dispute, it will be unbearable.
The common causes of postpartum depression are bad relationship between husband and wife and contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.