There are many different conditions for enjoying delicious food, such as where to eat. What to eat? Who to eat with ... so in different situations, everyone can judge and decide according to the "local conditions and customs" at that time.
Suppose your object is like a bowl of Japanese Lamian Noodles, and you want to catch your breath, then don't keep your mouth shut, so as not to get burned and offend people's traditional good customs; But suppose the environment is changed to a romantic and elegant French restaurant, and you have a candlelight dinner with a man who has known you for a short time but lost his heart. In the face of a dish of delicious food, please don't forget where you are with joy and then shout for it. After all, silence is better than sound, and it is more suitable for chewing quietly and slowly. When you enjoy the food wholeheartedly, even if you don't make a sound, your expression will make people feel that the food is absolute.
Talking about housework during sex?
A friend said that every time she had sex with her boyfriend, it was like playing a lively radio drama. Although the movements and postures of each sex are similar (only the order will change), the beauty is that these two sex geniuses have completely different narratives every time!
Today may be the abnormal sadistic style of "Shapin Heizi" (calling for land to let neighbors call the police); Tomorrow 180 degrees may become the subtle tenderness in In the Mood for Love (even the ants can't hear the sound), with no script at all, just improvising according to the tacit understanding. It's crazy enough!
However, this example is not suitable for everyone (unless you and your partner have such magical imagination and eloquence), so as long as you feel that two people need to talk occasionally during sex (especially when you meet a particularly powerful "long-distance runner"), it will not be too boring.
In fact, you can talk about any topic (provided that two people can talk about it). A good friend at school told me that when he was having sex with his girlfriend, he was talking about trivial things, such as what "vegetables and fruits" he was going to buy later! Ok ... I don't know if I can improve my sexual interest, but obviously they are comfortable and happy, which is also good!
If you say the wrong thing, you might as well not say it.
For example, you can be a mirror. It was her first close contact with her boyfriend. When she unbuttoned her slender boyfriend's shirt, she saw rows of obvious ribs and couldn't help but blurt out: "You are so thin!" Unexpectedly, my boyfriend's face fell on the spot, buttoned up and left without saying a word. Later, she learned that her boyfriend's biggest taboo is that others call him thin, because he thinks thin men are not manly.
In fact, it is natural to say or not, but sometimes it is necessary to make a personal statement here to provide some good ideas for men to know themselves and women to win every battle!
Scene 1: Shh ... Silence is golden.
1. The atmosphere is just right or the temperature is just hot: at this time, unless you are completely sure that what you say has a warming effect, it is enough to make your eyes look.
It's the first time for both people: unless you are familiar with each other's preferences and have a clear understanding of his personality, the other person may not adapt to speaking rashly, even if you want to make the atmosphere relaxed, you may be more formal.
3. Have bad breath or just eat garlic: In this case, I suggest you brush your teeth first! If you really can't change the status quo because of practical factors, of course, you should shut up, otherwise your other half will have to hold his breath until his face turns pale and he will definitely not dare to do it with you next time.
Situation 2: don't back down ... it will hurt internally.
1. Love is open in your heart: if you love each other more, who says you have to hold it back? While doing it, I said, "I find that I love you more and more, because I like the feeling of having sex with you so much …" Can't I express my feelings by going up a flight of stairs?
When the weather is cool, you can say, "Ah … It's so comfortable …" Oh, my God! I'm dying ... "Say a nice word or compliment immediately, don't be subtle, and let the other person know what you need.
3. when you are hurt: how can you not say it at this time! Don't wronged yourself, express your sense of reality and let him be more gentle, or let him know what posture you don't like and how the quality of sex interacts. You absolutely have a say.
A woman's lies after having sex.
How to bring games to bed? Don't love him, but sleep with him
What lies do women tell in bed? When a man takes off his pants in bed, there is nothing to deceive and nothing to hide. The most he can say is "I love you so much", "You are the favorite woman in my life" or "You look so beautiful tonight" and "You have the most beautiful curves in the world".
What about women? Many women are really restless like rabbits and quiet like virgins in bed, but there are still many girls who are well educated or considered dissolute because they are too active or too active in bed. They suppress their reactions and only hum occasionally.
There are also some girls who think that men like women in bed like Japanese porn actresses. They kept screaming and grabbing the man's back, so they fought their lives in bed. This kind of unintentional body movement may be regarded as a silent lie, and this kind of body lie is just to appease a man's fragile self-esteem, and to perfect a man's sense of conquest with the stimulation and perfection of sexual process, so that two people can be intimate. If you blurt out this silent lie, it is "you are great!" " , or "I haven't been so excited for a long time!"
Women often tell such lies because they are in a passive role in sex. When a man is excited, he can adjust his posture and speed, ask the other person to give you oral sex, or even grab the other person's hair more rudely and send it to his penis, as cool as he wants. The exaggerated body language and groans of his female partner will make men more excited.
Women usually don't and can't take the initiative like men, and they are embarrassed to say, "Oh! Deeper and more embarrassing! " Let alone teach men how to find and caress them. No matter how rampaging men are, they still can't reach orgasm.
However, whether for their own sexual ability and skills, or really care about each other's feelings, it is inevitable that men will have great regrets when they find their female partner's body twisting violently or failing to reach orgasm. Therefore, women have more or less heard their boyfriends ask, "Are you unwell?" Or "can't I satisfy you?" Men's pride and vanity are not satisfied.
There are some special circumstances. As soon as men hear that there is an aphrodisiac, the golden gun can't beat the elixir, and they will always try it curiously. My friend's boyfriend is drunk, but he still wants to do it. It has not reached the critical point. When a woman meets such a man who eats folk remedies or pretends to be crazy by drinking and can only smoke and deliver food, it is better to pretend that she has an orgasm and get off the base safely, at least it won't hurt her.
Therefore, the next time a woman is excited or not, she will hum a few times and say, "I'm going to have an orgasm!" " "This kind of lie is basically a super white lie, but it may become a habit after a long time. If men take it seriously and don't take action, modern women won't follow it for long.
Even if the female partner can really orgasm, the size of the penis still makes it difficult for men to pass by themselves. Everyone is talking about size, but women still have to face the anxiety of their male partners. Not letting go of size will not affect sexual skills and abilities, but men will constantly compare themselves with their girlfriends' ex-boyfriends. So smart women always pretend that they are inexperienced in sex and lack the ability to judge the size of that root. Or simply see the average size and say, "How big!" If it's really not big, just say, "Oh! Not small! " .