What are the effects of parents who have domestic violence on their children?
First, the influence of parents who have domestic violence on their children: 1. Children will form a timid and cowardly character and become extremely unconfident. Personality is very important for children. If parents keep beating and cursing their children at the stage of developing their personality, it will make them timid and hurt their hearts. 2. Physical injury Parents' domestic violence against their children during their children's growth will seriously affect their physical growth. The child's body is not fully developed, how can it withstand the violence of an adult? Children need a warm family to grow up, not a violent family. Therefore, domestic violence is extremely unfavorable for the growth of children. Some scars will become the pain and shadow of a child's life. 3. Violent children's injuries from their parents will make some children strong. They may suffer silently physically, but they also learn to solve problems by violence. When parents vent their anger on their children, the children will transfer their anger to other objects or people who are weaker than themselves. When children grow up, they will become violent people like their parents, and even take revenge on society. Domestic violence not only harms children, but also harms society. When a child who has been subjected to domestic violence retaliates against society, we can't bear such consequences. Parents are the objects of children's learning, and children don't have the ability to distinguish right from wrong, so they will imitate them all. Parents' violence will make children timid or violent. Second, in the face of domestic violence, what makes the tragedy a tragedy? 1. Running away from home is like abortion in the story just now. I am afraid of being beaten by my father when I get home, and even have the idea of running away from home. Domestic violence makes children afraid to go home, and children would rather run away from home than go home. Home was originally a warm place and a safe haven for children, but domestic violence made children prefer to escape rather than see their parents. 2. Unbearable Some children have weak psychological endurance. If parents abuse their children excessively, they may not be able to bear it in their hearts, and then choose extreme ways to end their lives. Domestic violence is not what children should bear, which is wrong. Why do parents have to bear the responsibility for what they have done wrong? 3. Psychological distortion If a child is oppressed by domestic violence for a long time, the child will definitely have deep trauma in his heart. At this time, there is no one to guide the child, and the child is likely to be psychologically distorted. After they have the ability, they may cause certain harm to society, and may eventually lead to great disaster! Children have little power to fight back in the face of domestic violence. A child who is not yet an adult should not bear these painful things. Parents' fists are supposed to protect the closest relatives, but when they point their fists at their children, what the children suffer is unbearable both psychologically and physically. Third, what should parents do in the face of the other half's domestic violence? 1. Stop in time If one of the parents has domestic violence against their children, the other parent should stop it in time and never let it develop. Otherwise, it will cause irreparable harm to the child. And let the parents who made mistakes apologize to their children and promise that they will not have such behavior again in the future. 2. ask for help. sometimes domestic violence will make the other half and children feel at a loss. Children have no way to protect themselves. At this time, the other half should seek help decisively and let more powerful forces protect themselves and their children. If you just keep forbearing blindly, the perpetrators will only use violence more and more seriously. 3. Legal Weapons Domestic violence is illegal. If there is a domestic violence at home, when the other half can't change it, they can seek help from the law, divorce or punish the abuser. Because with the beginning, there will be a steady stream of second times, but the child can't stand the "second time" without guarantee. Domestic violence is to swing your fist at the closest person in the warmest family. Children are part of every family and the future. However, domestic violence is like killing children's happiness in this family. Children are so weak that they can't bear the violence of their parents. Children are the little ones who need their parents' love and companionship most. Parents who are domestic and unrepentant are not worthy of being forgiven.