The origin of the scar: The woman’s previous unintended pregnancy. You must know that the groom spent more than 300,000 yuan to marry this woman. On the wedding night, when the man became suspicious because of the scar on the woman’s belly, he asked his mother-in-law where the information came from, but the mother-in-law only said that her daughter had undergone appendicitis surgery. Maybe no man can accept that he was deceived. After learning the truth, the man became angry, but the woman said that she was also a victim at the beginning. What happened at that time?
It is understood that this man’s family is very poor, but he is very motivated and works diligently every day. He will do anything that can make money, just so that he can earn enough money to marry a wife. His son finally got his wish and spent more than 300,000 to marry a daughter-in-law. What he didn’t expect was that on the wedding night, the man found a very long scar on his wife’s belly. Because he touched the scar with his hand, the man then He asked his wife why there was a scar on her stomach. The new wife was covering up the scar at that time, and now the man became completely suspicious.
Privately, the man found his mother-in-law and asked about the scar on his wife’s stomach. The mother-in-law just said that her daughter had undergone appendicitis surgery when she was a child, which left a long scar. A scar, many people may think this is very normal. After all, appendicitis surgery will also leave scars. However, in addition to the scars on his wife’s belly, the man also found many stretch marks. After the man’s questioning, his wife finally To be honest, if I had not been sensible when I was young, I would have experienced an unexpected pregnancy.
The man who knew the truth was very angry. He felt that he and his parents had spent time and effort saving more than 300,000 yuan just to marry an innocent daughter-in-law, but in the end, his daughter-in-law deceived him. He also had an unexpected pregnancy. The man felt that he had been deceived and felt sorry for the 300,000 yuan he and his parents had saved. He was even more afraid that one day a strange child would suddenly come over and call him daddy.
Because the husband and her husband’s family found it difficult to accept this incident, they wanted to ask his wife and her mother-in-law’s family to give him an explanation. At this time, the wife felt aggrieved. He felt that he was very innocent. Pregnancy is also a thing of the past. At that time, I was deceived emotionally by others when I was young. I was also a victim. I felt that my husband was now using my past affairs to embarrass me, which made me feel very wronged.
The husband strongly disagrees with the newlywed wife’s statement. The biggest victim in this matter is obviously himself, but in the end he became his wife. It is clear that his wife deceived him and instead put him in the situation. In the status of an innocent person, and the husband also said that he wanted an innocent girl as his wife when he introduced her to no one, but he did not expect that he would get such a result.
In fact, we can understand the husband's thinking. After all, what makes the government difficult to accept is not the wife's past, but the fact that the wife and she have not been honest with each other. This marriage is full of deception and concealment. This is what the husband finds difficult to accept. Moreover, in order to marry this wife, the husband spent 280,000 yuan in bride price, plus three gold and other gifts, which cost more than 300,000 yuan, but what he got in exchange was the deception of his wife and his family.
At this time, the wife also said that her husband had never asked her about her past, so this matter was not considered cheating on her part. But after some in-depth communication, the wife revealed what she had planned with her natal family at that time. She wanted her husband to marry her first, and then give the gift of 280,000 to her natal parents for safekeeping. If the husband found out In this matter, the 280,000 gift money will not be returned to their family.
The author's message:
If you want a long-lasting marriage, both husband and wife must be honest with each other. A relationship full of concealment and deception cannot last long. I hope this can give you some advice. Here are some warnings for those who are about to get married or want to get married.