Dr. Peng Xin, a doctor of traditional Chinese medicine: On the physical and mental damage caused by the proliferation of pornography to contemporary teenagers
More than two thousand years ago, Kong Old Master Q warned everyone in The Analects of Confucius, saying, "When you are young, your blood gas is uncertain, so you should be careful." What do you mean? That is to say, when a person is young, his body is not well developed and his qi and blood are very unstable. At this time, it is especially necessary to pay attention not to let his thoughts be polluted by pornography and lewdness, otherwise it will be a great destruction to his body and mind.
I once encountered a case in clinic. This young man, 25 years old, just graduated from university. He saw a series of articles I published on the Internet to persuade people to maintain kidney essence and clean their minds, so he came to see me. He said: "Dr. Peng, I have been ill for ten years, and I have not found the reason. After many doctors' treatment, I have not been cured and spent a lot of money. I didn't know what my problem was until I read your article. " When he said this, his eyes were red. He said: "Ten years ago, when I was in junior high school, it was the hope of my whole family. I was in the top ten of my class in every exam, and my whole family had great hopes for me, counting on me to be admitted to famous universities and Tsinghua and Peking University in the future. As a result, I contacted a friend that year. He took me to his classmate's house and watched a yellow video. Since then, I have developed a very bad habit-masturbation, which has been with me for ten years. "
since he got into this bad habit, his brain power and physical strength have dropped dramatically. After half a year of masturbation, my academic performance plummeted. Why? According to the concept of traditional Chinese medicine, the kidney dominates the bone and produces marrow, and the main palm is in the brain. "The kidney is a strong official, and the geisha is skillful." That is to say, if a person is full of kidney qi, his memory will be strong, his thinking ability will be strong, and his academic performance will be good. Now education is actually skill training, not real education. The so-called skills training, first of all, is that if you want to master this knowledge, you must rely on your understanding and memory. If a person is deficient in kidney qi and brain power, his understanding and memory will decline.
This teenager who came to see a doctor said: After I got into this bad habit for half a year, I found that my brain seemed to be empty and dull. When the teacher was there in class, my brain didn't follow the activities at all, and my memory dropped extremely, so I couldn't do the problems.
This young man used to be the captain of the school football team. He has excellent physical strength, runs all over the field, runs very fast and has strong endurance. Since he got into the bad habit of masturbation, his physical strength has declined sharply after half a year. If you move a little, you will be panting and sweating. What is this performance? This is the most serious manifestation of a person's lack of yang.
The young man said: I feel very depressed after these two performances. I don't want to associate with others, and I don't want to associate with classmates and teachers around me. Locked in the house alone, no one wants to touch it. My family thought I was mentally ill, so they went to a psychologist for counseling. After the psychological doctor finished counseling, I felt very comfortable at that time, but I will soon feel depressed again.
why is this happening? According to Huangdi Neijing, it's called "closing the door alone is to be alone, closing the door is to close the door, and closing the window is to close the window". Describe a person staying in a small room, closing the windows and doors and being alone. What kind of people does this happen to? Appears in people with kidney qi deficiency and kidney essence failure. This kind of situation will appear after half a year. This kind of situation is not only a psychological problem, but also a psychological problem caused by physiological problems. If his kidney essence is not supplemented and he is allowed to quit prostitution, his psychology will always be in a dark state. According to the ancients, this is called yang deficiency.
Now many people will have this experience. If you say that your kidney qi is insufficient, after having sex the night before, you may not want to do it the next day. Originally, the lofty sentiments in my heart were gone. I wanted to write a paper the next day, and I wanted to think deeply, so I couldn't think deeply. Why? It is because a person's kidney essence is insufficient, and the yang will decline, and this kind of performance will occur in the body, not just psychological problems. The situation he described to me is the third manifestation.
the fourth performance is that you are very upset. He said, I sit at my desk reading, and my heart is like grass, and I can't read it at all. Why is this happening? Because according to the theory of traditional Chinese medicine, if a person is short of kidney water, his heart will be full of fire, and when his heart is full of fire, of course he can't sit there and has no concentration.
The young man in this case got this bad habit in the third grade. For ten years, he didn't know what his problem was. It wasn't until he saw my related article on the Internet that he repented and came to the clinic to see me. He was very excited at that time. I said, don't be excited. This disease can be cured. You are still young. First of all, you must have self-confidence and get rid of your bad habit. Second, I will help you, and I will tell you how to tonify the kidney and prescribe Chinese medicine for you. Thirdly, we must be filial to our parents, because only by filial piety can this person's mood be the most unobstructed. As soon as the mood is unobstructed, the body's yang will be enough. The ancients once said, "All evils are the first, and all the virtues's filial piety is the first", and "The parents who suffer from the skin of the body dare not damage it". If a person mutilates his own body, it shows that this person is not filial. Conversely, if a person wants to be filial to his parents, the first thing is to keep his body and mind in a healthy state, instead of worrying about his parents. This young man has been worrying his parents very much for ten years, taking him everywhere for medical treatment, with no result. The young man was very moved after I said these words to him.
I said, you can take this prescription away, and you can catch it in any pharmacy anywhere, take these medicines, and then cooperate with the main points I just mentioned: the first is to abstain from prostitution, and the second is to be filial to your parents, and you will certainly get well. Two months later, he sent me a text message saying: Now my waist has stopped hurting, and then my brain power began to recover, and I began to be energetic and confident in my work.
according to the concept of traditional Chinese medicine, the body and mind are not the same. Physical and psychological interaction, physical problems will lead to psychological problems, on the other hand, if a person has psychological problems, the body will still appear various diseases. "Phase is born of heart", which means that phase is a person's external appearance, and heart is our inner heart. Phase not only refers to this person's face, but also all kinds of physical manifestations, including diseases. A person's bad looks actually reflect that a person's inner world is not very healthy. Therefore, Chinese medicine actually treats people, not diseases, because diseases grow in people. Only when a person is physically and mentally healthy can his body recover and be healthy.
An investigation of this case can lead to a topic. At present, the phenomenon of this young man in this case is very common in China, and this phenomenon is called "urban hermit". Nowadays, many teenagers have this situation, that is, they stay at home and don't want to work, study or socialize. What kind of life do they live alone in the house? It's a life where clothes come to reach out and food comes to mouth. It's called "NEET". This kind of crowd appears very much in an island country in East Asia. In the 193s and 194s, this country introduced the western trend of sexual liberation, and the pornographic CDs and books they produced ranked first in Asia. In this country, the evil report of lewdness appears very quickly. What's the bad news? It is in this country that one percent of the population is "urban hermit".
An "urban hermit" is a person who has lost the ability to work, live and study, keeps himself indoors and leads a life of "clothes to reach out and food to eat". According to Chinese medicine, this is a waste person, and it is hopeless for such people to develop further. This population accounts for 1% in this country, in other words, there are 1 million teenagers in this state. In recent years, this kind of situation is also very common in Taiwan Province and South Korea, and it also appears in the southeast coast of the mainland and large and medium-sized cities. What does this mean? This actually shows that pornography is so devastating to teenagers that it leads to these messy things, which are rare since ancient times and so common in modern society. Because the ancients once said that if a person lacks kidney qi, he will not do much in his future life. Why? Because according to the theory of traditional Chinese medicine, the kidney is stored by receiving the essence of the five internal organs, that is to say, people's kidney qi, like a bank, stores the essence of these internal organs in a safe, and then provides it for you to apply it all your life, to do business and to serve the society. If you withdraw the deposit in this safe extremely, the quality of this person's life will drop very quickly, that is, premature aging will occur.
The harm of prostitution to the body is simply too serious. On the one hand, prostitution can damage a person's kidney and lead to various diseases in the body. Second, a person who often hurts his kidney is impetuous, especially prone to lose his temper, his brain is chaotic, and he is prone to make all kinds of wrong decisions. This is called excessive heart fire and insufficient kidney water. Once a person appears in this state, it is not far from disaster. No matter your career, family or health, there will be all kinds of bad consequences. Pornography is a very serious social problem, which not only causes personal physical damage, but also makes people feel very impetuous. We all know that Zhuge Liang has a famous saying: "If you are indifferent, you will have no ambition, and if you are quiet, you will never get far." If a person's mood is not peaceful, his career will not last long and succeed. If there are many evil thoughts in his heart, it will do great damage to his family, his family, even his own life and even our whole nation.
A real person in Zhang Sanfeng said: Life is between heaven and earth, inheriting Jin Mu's beautiful scenery of fire, water and soil, and it is masculine, and the relationship between husband and wife is the way of ethics. If you go beyond the husband and wife and have an improper lewd behavior with anyone else, it is incest, no different from animals. You know, the atrocious murder, only one person was killed. But defile each other, but it's like killing each other's families for generations. Therefore, the act of raping or molesting others is the most angered by the gods and spirits of heaven and earth, so the adulterer is rewarded with tragic disasters. And those who lust after sex will surely die, and their descendants will certainly not prosper. Young men and women must know that pink lady has become a skeleton-jack-o'-lantern in a blink of an eye. The more beautiful a person is, the more like a wolf or tiger who hurts people in a beautiful coat. What's more, beauty is like a dream bubble, and it is empty after all. Therefore, every aspiring young man should always be pure-hearted, sincere and patient, resolutely keep his moral integrity, and think about the whole world. Anyone who sees books, magazines and pictures that are attractive and lewd must burn them to avoid harming others. And all friends who are lustful should refuse to associate with each other, lest they be tempted and framed. If we can stick to moral integrity, not commit lewdness, and put our heart and soul into proper career fame, I believe we will succeed in our career, win fame and fortune. ----------------"Shou Kang's Treasures"
Shou Kang's Treasures, I want to be crazy about the sea. These two books are abstinence books, and it is very effective to insist on reading them.