Classic Quote: I don’t want to make a living, I want to live

Introduction: Throughout life, there is always a pursuit, a hope, something that you can cherish, yearn for, protect, be willing to live for, and even be willing to die for. , this is the value. Love is a religion, and it costs more to believe in it than any other religion.

1. You understand that human life is neither as good nor as bad as people think. —— Maupassant

2. Reading to the end is to make us more tolerant and understand how complicated the world is. ——Liang Wendao "I Read"

3. People who cannot realize their dreams have one common thing, that is, they want something but are unwilling to pay for it. ——Tuanhe Guangji

4. Nobility is not the kind of simple beauty, but the detachment after understanding all things, treating good and evil equally, and looking at the world with sympathy. ——Yu Hua "Alive"

5. Do you think people can get feelings for free. No. Even the most beautiful and self-sacrificing feelings do not come to you for free. Oddly enough, that's what makes it beautiful. —— Oscar Wilde

6. Born as a human being, he will inevitably do a few stupid things and wrong things. Eat the fruit you shouldn’t eat and love the people who aren’t worthy of love. But he has his own balance in his heart, and he is unwilling to confuse right and wrong, and ignore the good and the bad to defend himself. He understands that what you should do is not necessarily what you love to do. This division of self, the divergence of knowledge and action, produces tragedy when it is tense, and turns into irony when it is loose. ——Qian Zhongshu

7. Not every effort will be rewarded, but efforts must be made for every harvest. This is an unfair and irreversible proposition. ——Zhang Ailing

8. When I was 16 years old, I went to Ali, Tibet to serve as a soldier. Facing the vast land for 11 years, I repeatedly questioned the meaning of life. The harsh conditions also made me think of committing suicide, but every time Looking up at the stars for the first time and squeezing my intact body, I understand that if you persevere in adversity, never think that you have no way out. You are still you. As long as your spirit does not collapse, your body can follow you forward. ——Bi Shumin

9. Your burden will become a gift, and your suffering will light up your path. ——Tagore

10. At the age of thirty, a person should know himself like the palm of his hand. He should know exactly what his shortcomings and advantages are, and he should know how far he can go. Being able to foresee who you will become in the future and, more importantly, accept it all. —— Camus

11. A person’s life may burn or decay. I cannot decay, I am willing to burn! ——Ostrovsky

12. Fate with certain people is like a flower that blooms in the night and cannot see the sun. It will wither silently before dawn and will never bloom again. It is a love affair between moonlight and shadow. After leaving that part of the city, we still have to continue on our way. Life is so full of illusions. There is always hope and there is always no hope. ——Annie Baby's "Lotus"

13. May you have enough patience to take responsibility and a simple heart enough to believe. Please believe: no matter what, life is reasonable. ——Rilke

14. Everyone who is born into this world must have a position that is most suitable for him, just waiting for him to claim it one day. Whether a position is the most suitable for him or not, he should ask his life and soul to see if they feel happy. ——Zhou Guoping "The Most Suitable Position"

15. Once you stop wanting something, you will get it. I think this is an absolute and unchanging truth. ——"The Philosophy of Andy Warhol"

16. From the past to the present, I have always envied and admired those who are good at socializing and socializing. I have never been able to learn or feel uncomfortable. Make yourself feel guilty. Thinking about it now, it seems that this is not bad, at least it is much better than finding that only a tired, lonely and empty self is left at the moment when the crowd has dispersed, the lights are dim, and the cups and plates are scattered.

——Wu Nianzhen

17. The heart is like a vast maze, thousands of miles away, in which there is no boat that can ferry people across, and other than crossing by oneself, there is nothing others can do to help. ——Sanmao

18. I have experienced a lot. Now, I seem to understand what happiness is: living a quiet and secluded life, doing simple and useful good deeds to people as much as possible, and doing a good job. A really useful job and finally rest, enjoy nature, read a book, listen to music and love the people around you. This is my interpretation of happiness. ——Jon Krakauer, "Wild Survival"

19. A person's true happiness is not to stay in the light. Stare at the light from a distance and run towards it. Only in that time of selflessness can you find the true fulfillment of life. ——Tadao Ando

20. When people are in contact with each other, what can be described is only a partial view, one or two human relationships. What can be said is not the deepest loneliness. ——Jian Yu

21. Silence is the most perfect way to express contempt. ——Bernard Shaw

22. I am probably a bird, full of vigilance and not easy to stay, so I keep flying. ——Lin Huiyin

23. Life is a ball of desires. If desires are not satisfied, it will be painful, and if they are satisfied, it will be boring. Life swings between pain and boredom. —— Schopenhauer

24. Nobility is not the kind of simple beauty, but the detachment after understanding all things, treating good and evil equally, and looking at the world with sympathy. ——Yu Hua "Living"

25. Like everyone else in the world, what I expose to the world are only public opinions that have been trimmed, perfumed, and carefully beautified. Private opinions are carefully and intelligently veiled. ——Mark Twain

26. How many of you are like me, sitting in a space of less than ten square meters, looking at the splendor of ninety-five thousand kilometers in the book. Or maybe you are like me, with a heart wider than 95,000 kilometers, but sitting on a chair less than one square meter. ——Ishida Yusuke "If you don't go, you will die"

27. Throughout life, there is always a pursuit, a hope, something for yourself to cherish, for you to yearn for, for you to protect, for which you are willing to live. Once you have it, something you are even willing to sacrifice for, this is value. ——Wang Meng

28. Some people live a peaceful life without a fixed abode, while some people live on the run in luxurious houses for the rest of their lives. There are many people who are worried about pursuing wealth or are so busy that they forget to live. After working hard all your life, you will still be unhappy in the end, but your life has passed. ——Khenpo Si Arongbo, "The Way of Silence"

29. Without love, human life is unimaginable. Love! It turns desolation into prosperity, mediocrity into greatness; it makes the dead resurrect and the living shine. Even though love is endless torment, as severe as ice and as scorching as fire, love is always so natural to mentally and physically healthy men and women, and at the same time it makes us feel novel, mysterious and incredible. ——Lu Yao's "Ordinary World"

30. Beauty, youth, wealth, and even love itself cannot make those who are deeply favored by God free from anxiety and pain, nor can they keep away sorrow. They avoid losing the things they love most. Because, in life, some rain is bound to fall, and some days are bound to be dark, sad, and desolate. ——Louisa May Alcott, "Little Women"

31. If the process from desire to satisfaction to new desire proceeds quickly, you will be happy; if it proceeds slowly, you will be happy. , it causes pain; if it pauses, it means boredom. What is even more frightening is that it can make life rigid and manifest itself as fatal depression. So the will always knows what it desires now, what it desires here, but never what it desires at all. —— Schopenhauer, "The World as Will and Representation"

32. The drama of life is unhealthy.

People like us who grew up in urban culture always see pictures of the sea first and then see the sea; we read love novels first and then know about love; our experience of life is often second-round, with the help of artificial drama. So it's hard to draw a line between life and the drama of life. ——Zhang Ailing's "Children's Words Are Unbridled"

33. What you can't do is your own business. When you dream back at midnight, you can recall it as you like, but in front of others and behind others, what do I want you to pretend to be? It doesn't look like it happened. You can do it, we can all do it, this is how people survive. ——Yishu "Bridge of Sighs"

34. I know that love is a job that requires groping in the dark, and you will definitely get your hands dirty. If you hesitate, nothing fun will ever happen. At the same time, you have to find the right distance between you and others. Too close and they will defeat you; too far and they will abandon you. ——Hanif Qureshi "Intimacy"

35. It is precisely because we are cold by nature that we need to keep each other warm, we need to look into each other's eyes and talk, and we need to sleep next to each other late at night The snuggle of a warm body, a familiar turning movement and the smell of the mouth, we need a shoulder to lean on when we cry, because humans have always been fragile animals that need communication. ——Li Ge "Loving you is a luxurious consumption behavior"

36. To heal one person, another person is needed. Once a secret is told, the accompanying pain will be forgotten. ——Li Fanali's "Happiness in Istanbul"

37. I didn't understand at that time, and I didn't understand that sooner or later I might hurt someone and give her a serious injury that cannot be healed. In some cases, the very existence of one person harms another. ——Haruki Murakami, "South of the Border and West of the Sun"

38. Love is a religion, and it is more expensive to believe in it than to believe in any other religion. It is fleeting and like a naughty child, it has to break something when it passes by. ——Balzac

39. How great it would be if one day, I work not for survival, but just for fun. But when a person has a lot of money, he will have other desires and other pressures. So I said to myself, don’t envy others, do your best first. ——Lu Qiu Luwei's "Walking Rose"

40. I don't want to make a living, I want to live. ——Wilde

Editor’s note: I know that love is a job that requires groping in the dark, and you will definitely get your hands dirty. If you hesitate, nothing fun will ever happen. At the same time, you have to find the right distance between you and others. Too close and they will defeat you; too far and they will abandon you. I don’t want to make a living, I want to live

Introduction: Throughout life, there is always a pursuit, a hope, something for yourself to cherish, for you to yearn for, for you to protect, for which you are willing to live. Even something that you are willing to sacrifice for, this is value. Love is a religion, and it costs more to believe in it than any other religion.

1. You understand that human life is neither as good nor as bad as people think. —— Maupassant

2. Reading to the end is to make us more tolerant and understand how complicated the world is. ——Liang Wendao "I Read"

3. People who cannot realize their dreams have one common thing, that is, they want something but are unwilling to pay for it. ——Tuanhe Guangji

4. Nobility is not the kind of simple beauty, but the detachment after understanding all things, treating good and evil equally, and looking at the world with sympathy. ——Yu Hua "Alive"

6. Born as a human being, he will inevitably do a few stupid things and wrong things. Eat the fruit you shouldn’t eat and love the people who aren’t worthy of love.

But he has his own balance in his heart, and he is unwilling to confuse right and wrong, and ignore the good and the bad to defend himself. He understands that what you should do is not necessarily what you love to do. This division of self, the divergence of knowledge and action, produces tragedy when it is tense, and turns into irony when it is loose. ——Qian Zhongshu