01

I was really shocked when I saw a Chinese-style blind date price list.

On this table, the conditions of both men and women are listed for matching. There is no problem with the previous part. Let’s focus on the “Simplified Configuration” column.

A strong woman with a house and a car and a monthly salary of more than 50,000 yuan is actually married to a man who has no car and house and a monthly salary of 5,000 yuan.

Remembering a theory I heard before, B female matches A male, C female matches B male, D female matches C male, the top female A can only find the remaining C male, or She can only be a leftover girl.

In this way, Man C got a big advantage.

Sorry, I really disagree.

To be honest, it is really difficult for Girl A to marry. They have high education, high income, and good looks, so it is even more difficult for them to find a partner.

They look down on ordinary men. Ordinary men dare not approach them, and they are too cold in high places.

It’s not that they have high vision, but standing at the top of the pyramid, the scenery they have seen and the things they have come into contact with are beyond the reach of many people. So there are very few men who can really attract them.

Furthermore, women who have reached this level no longer regard marriage as a necessity. They have sufficient materials and a rich spirit, and they can live more freely alone.

Do you think they will find a C man who has nothing to live with for the rest of their lives?

Stop dreaming, good women really don’t hate getting married that much.

02

A woman and C man are a self-deceiving scam.

Just like Tang Jing in "The First Half of My Life", she lives in a mansion, drives a luxury car, and is the master of the company. For such a capable and shrewd woman, do you think she would like Bai Guang like this? man?

In her world, men at the bottom have long been blocked. Surrounding her are elites like He Han, executives like Chen Junsheng, and partners like Mr. Luo.

Only women like Luo Ziqun, who are struggling to make ends meet, will meet men like Bai Guang, and then stories will happen.

Similarly, in "The Golden Family", the wealthy eldest daughter Bai Xiuzhu will never fall in love with a poor teacher like Ouyang Yujian.

The so-called law of attraction is just that who you are will attract who you are.

A capable and motivated woman will not fall in love with a lazy man; a refined and elegant woman will not fall in love with a vulgar man.

The essence of love is to find the other half of one's soul. This half of the soul may be slightly different from one's own, but the overall direction must match. If you don't match, you won't be together for a long time.

Just like Luo Zijun after the divorce, he tried to date the good old man Lao Jin. Lao Jin is a pragmatic man and is very considerate to Luo Zijun, but the two are not from the same world at all.

Lao Jin has always felt that he is not worthy of Luo Zijun, and he is indeed not worthy. He is afraid that Luo Zijun dresses too well and others will say that they are not a good match. He does not mind the excellent friends around Luo Zijun.

In the final analysis, they are not in the right family, and their spiritual levels are not at the same level at all. It would be worse than death for Luo Zijun to marry such a man.

Liu Zhenyun wrote in the novel "One Sentence is Worth Ten Thousand Sentences":

No matter how disparate the two people are in terms of wealth and poverty, if they don't have the same language, they will never reach the end. But this language is different from the language. To a large extent, it requires education and family background to match.

03

There is a question on the Internet: Why do some women prefer to be single instead of lowering their requirements to get married?

In fact, this question itself is a kind of prejudice. Who thinks that getting married is a higher level than being single.

Furthermore, why should a woman get married?

I know a woman who is single at the age of 32. She has already bought a house, a car, and her own store. It can be said that she has no financial pressure at all.

As for her, she is 163cm tall, has a well-proportioned body, fair skin, and looks above 6 points. Anyway, she will be praised for her good looks when she goes out.

She also leads a high-quality life. She grinds coffee by hand every day, makes pastries, and makes various home-cooked dishes.

Maybe you will say that she may have a strong personality. On the contrary, she has a very gentle personality, is gentle and polite in dealing with others, and is particularly loving.

One time when she was traveling, she met a cleaner in the inn. She was a 20-year-old girl, but she was already a mother of two children. This girl's family was poor and she got married as a teenager.

This friend felt sorry for her and sent her a lot of children's toys and clothes after the trip.

Now that she is living alone, she can be said to be free and unrestrained. If she really chooses a man with a monthly salary of 5,000, no house, no car and no savings, what will her living situation be like?

The man should live in her house. The man cannot afford the bride price, and he may not even be able to pay for the banquet. The woman should subsidize him. Then after giving birth, if a woman stays at home to take care of the child full time, the man's salary of 5,000 yuan may not even be enough to eat.

If the family hires a nanny, the man’s salary is not enough to pay the nanny.

What do women do when they get married? Just a marriage in name only?

04

Some people may also say that behind some outstanding women is an ordinary man. Sorry, what you see is ordinary may never be ordinary.

In "Everything is Good", Su Daqiang said that Shi Tiandong was not worthy of Su Mingyu. Shi Tiandong was a cook and Su Mingyu was an executive. At first glance, it seems to be the same thing.

You have to know that Shi Tiandong’s restaurant is not an ordinary street food. According to your customer flow and store decoration, it is at least a high-end restaurant.

Those who can afford to open such a restaurant must have resources or funds behind them. And Shi Tiandong's circle is definitely no worse than Su Mingyu's, but Shi Tiandong is more low-key and Buddhist, and does not often show his worth.

In addition, Shi Tiandong and Su Mingyu's spiritual level and living standards are the same, or they will not get together.

Even if the men behind some outstanding women are ordinary, then they may only be materially mismatched, but they must be connected at the spiritual level.

Don’t believe in the scam of A woman marrying C man. The more excellent women are, the more they understand the true meaning of marriage. They may not value bread, but they must value soul.

To put it another way, Man A will not fall in love with Woman C who has nothing.

In this society, everyone understands better that marriage is neither poverty alleviation nor charity, but two people of similar heights starting a company together.

More like what is written in "Jane Eyre":

"Love is a game. You must always be equal and evenly matched with the other party in order to be able to depend on each other in the long run. Because too much Strong opponents make people tired, and weak opponents make people tired."