As the children's first 1 teacher, parents should not only provide a good environment for their children to grow up, but also let them correctly establish their outlook on life and values, know how to respect the old and love the young, and be considerate of others when encountering things, rather than being self-centered.
A 6-year-old girl and her father went to eat hot pot. At first, because there were more people eating hot pot, the service was slow. Girls have been clamoring for food, and boys directly threw the fallen leaves into the hot pot at the next table.
At this time, the girl's father hurriedly apologized to others, and the young people next door were also very sensible. Faced with such a thing, they were in no mood and directly called the waiter to come and take the leaves away.
However, at this time, the little girl's words surprised everyone. The girl said: if you are ugly, you must have self-knowledge and eat things on the ground. Why should my father apologize to you? You are too ugly to come out to play.
Hearing this sentence, the young man next door was obviously hit. He felt humiliated and went straight to slap the little girl. At this time, the girl's father wrestled with the young man to protect the girl.
The beautiful weekend was lost because of the child's words, and even had some psychological shadows on the child's growth. Seeing this, I believe everyone has their own ideas. Who should pay for the child's mistakes? Obviously, the fault lies with the children and parents.
Children's behavior should be stopped in time in life. Often children's practices come from their parents. Parents' words and deeds are very important for their children's growth.
I believe everyone has heard this sentence, so how should we cultivate a good child in life?
polite
When parents educate their children, they should let them know the basic etiquette, so that they will be more polite when communicating with others, especially in public, and they should restrain their own behavior and lead by example, so that children can form good habits in imitation learning.
Let the children do it themselves.
When you meet some things, let the children do it independently. It is important for children to go through hardships when they grow up, because they will grow stronger when they make mistakes.
Respect and understand others.
Children should be made aware that not everyone will love themselves unconditionally. In life, children should know how to respect and understand others When children encounter things, they should know how to put themselves in others' shoes and understand their difficulties, so that children will feel at home in future interpersonal communication.
Message: Everyone's childhood is only once, which makes parents pay more attention to the changes in their children's growth, let their children develop some good habits, deal with correct values and outlook on life, and make their children grow stronger.