Falling in love is easy, but getting along is too difficult. Introduction: Love needs to be managed with care, and it is moved by life. Seven little habits of life, make your love last forever ~ 1. Encouragement and praise are the most important. When men and women first fall in love, they will praise each other's advantages. With the fixed relationship, people will do less about this kind of thing after the initial temperature drops slightly. Although they are still very devoted, they will not say praise and encouragement loudly. Without sincere praise and encouragement, the good feelings and gratitude brought by the initial praise will be greatly reduced, and the direct result is that the emotional connection between the two becomes weak. Therefore, you must encourage each other more, regard him as an object worthy of appreciation, and tell him that you are fascinated by one of his characteristics, especially the aspects that men are proud of but rarely know what others think, such as his good social skills, unknown hobbies and even his bodybuilding. Say whatever you want, for example: Nana hates her husband going to bed without hugging himself before going to bed. Whenever he forgets, she gets angry, can't sleep well, and even pretends to be sick and cries. And her inexplicable husband will only keep asking her: What's wrong with you? I believe this drama scene is no stranger to you. Many women, like Nana, hope that their husbands or boyfriends are super perceptive and can make their favorite romantic moves without explanation. However, there are really few people who have this kind of perception ability in the world. They can't put a bug in your heart and decipher your voice at any time. If they know that you are waiting for him to decode it, it will only make them laugh and cry. In a beautiful relationship, this guessing game is resolutely abandoned, and the most stable and profound love needs to be based on barrier-free communication. What do you need, what are you upset about, what do you want the other person to say and do? It's better to say it directly. If you sulk without saying a word, you will make the other person feel at a loss, depressed and prone to contradictions and conflicts. Third, harmless hobbies can be ignored. After couples or lovers have lived together for a long time, their personal habits and hobbies will be displayed in front of each other. No matter how much they make your heart flutter, cohabitation is the beginning to test your patience and inclusiveness. He may whistle and tie to work every morning, or he may leave his used bath towel on the floor forever. No matter how strange this hobby is, smart women should choose to ignore it. You will soon find that turning a blind eye to these little things will definitely do more good than harm to your relationship. Since it has been a habit formed for many years, there is absolutely no need to waste time on such things. Don't lose big because of small things. Contact at least once a day. If you receive a short message from your partner every afternoon, will you feel happy? Maybe you will meet in the evening, but he will keep this habit anyway, even if it is only a few words. This short message has become an emotional bond between you, letting you know that he still thinks of you in spite of his busy schedule. What can move you more than this? This practice is very common among couples with strong relationships. They won't let each other lose touch, even for a day. In modern society, the pace of life is tense and the work pressure is great. It is very likely that two people will not see each other for several days in a row. Whether it's a phone message, an email or even a small note on a pillow, it's all about expressing that although we can't meet, our hearts will always be together. Happiness can be created by yourself. Couples who often travel to various parties or parties are often ignored. What really has the potential to last forever are those couples who are used to being alone. They don't need to find a sense of security in the interpersonal network. In the world of two people, they enjoy themselves equally. A truly happy partner will cherish every ordinary moment between two people. They are very good together, and they can be satisfied without being disturbed by others or relying on any activities or games. Can you really do it? Maybe you don't believe it, a tacit couple can sit on the sofa reading their books for hours, or talking about their daydreams, or even sitting together and thinking silently. There is no need to create a topic or any background music, because it is enough for them to be together. 6. Love also needs to check the progress. There is no need for two people to hold a regular meeting once a week to discuss whether the recent investment and expenditure in love are completed on time and in quantity. It doesn't mean that when insecurity or friction occurs, we should start to criticize and self-criticize. It is necessary for two people to discuss their feelings openly and grasp the progress. Summarizing your performance and inner thoughts often can help you find small grievances on the road of love and solve them at will. This is a method often used by many intimate partners, and it is worth learning. 7. Always respect each other. If you want to know whether a couple's feelings are deep or red, you can see the clue by observing their expressions and tone of voice. If either of them always gives each other a dirty look, a sneer or an irony, it can be declared that they are unlikely to last long. If one person is always condescending to another person, it shows that they lack the most basic respect, which is a bad habit that every couple should strive to overcome. Although many times you need great strength to restrain yourself from expressing your opinions, a good lover should not show contempt or sarcasm to his partner. Sometimes your partner is really stupid, so you might as well put yourself in another position. If you are robbed or laughed at by the other party, you must feel very hurt. This force will have the same effect on the other side. You should learn to exercise restraint. Maintaining each other's self-esteem is very important for your relationship. In fact, this kind of empathetic happiness relationship can be achieved by all couples. No couple is born with tacit understanding and deep love. They must build some kind of bridge, reach some kind of knowledge and follow the principle of * * *, so that they can gradually move towards better results. Love can always be as fascinating as it was at the beginning. The above seven principles that men and women should abide by or adhere to when getting along, I hope to help you.