Let the elders at home choose a good day first, and then invite their relatives, uncles and aunts and other elders.
At the same time, they should inform each other, let their relatives and friends go together and eat in the restaurant together.
Then take out the agreed bride price money and give it to the woman (it used to be for parents, but now it is for parents, not for parents). We usually wrap our wallets with red cloth here.
Then tell your relatives and friends that you two are engaged.
In fact, this is a kind of testimony, telling both relatives and friends that you are engaged.
The general person in charge will tell him that after the engagement, if the woman goes back on her word, she needs to return all the bride price money to the man. If the man divorces, the money does not belong to the man.
That's usually the case. No big deal. Just invite relatives and friends from both sides to testify.
I wish you happiness.
Hope to adopt.