I'll tell you one thing, but you must be mentally prepared! First: prepare enough money, if not, borrow it from relatives and friends, because what can you do without money, such as buying a house, renting a house or decorating a house, buying furniture, buying jewelry (three gold), buying a motorcycle, holding a celebration, picking up the bride's car, and so on? Second: send an invitation or call your relatives and friends to celebrate, especially your close friends, or you will suffer in the future. Of course, it can also recover some of the losses. Third: No matter in the countryside or in the city, we should invite a respected person to take charge of this work, and we can use his prestige to deal with some thorny issues, because both the woman and the man have some people who like to "make trouble", which will disturb the good atmosphere when they get married and sometimes cause disputes. Without such people, it can't be suppressed.