It is said that sister-in-law is not easy to get along with, but we are the opposite.

My sister-in-law and I have a very good relationship and have been in love for twenty years.

The first time I met my sister-in-law, it was twenty years ago, the day I went to his house with him. She is four years younger than me and has been with me since the first time she saw me.

I learned from his mouth that he had a younger sister who stopped going to school before graduating from primary school, herded cattle at home and helped his parents to work in the fields.

02

After he graduated from college and joined the work, he bought a red coat for his sister with his first month's salary. Later I heard about it from my colleagues. He didn't understand girls' clothes, so he asked his colleagues to accompany him to the street to buy that thick coat for his sister.

Colleagues came back and said they were willing to pay a month's salary for such expensive clothes.

I didn't know him at that time, but I had a little affection for him because of this.

Later, we fell in love. A few days before returning to his home, I bought a coat for his sister. It was summer, and I bought a pink short sleeve.

Sister touched the skirt and said it looked good. The first time she saw her sister-in-law's feelings, she felt that her temper must hit it off with me.

In our numerous contacts, we are all temperamental people. Our ideas always coincide, and the way we do things is strikingly similar. We have been together for so many years, I think, because my sister can think of others first wherever she is.

03

When we first got married, we came back from his house after the Chinese New Year with our little sister. I understand his thoughts. He really wants to visit us with his little sister who has never been far away.

In that first month, he borrowed a camera (there was no smart phone at that time), and we took our little sister around several park attractions here and bought some food and play. Little sister always said behind her, don't waste money, you are not rich.

Later, my little sister was getting married, and he and I asked for leave to go home to see my sister off. At that time, we just got married, because we spent all our savings and borrowed some foreign debts for bathing and managing the necessary things, so the wedding gift for my sister was just a sheet.

He is very close to his only sister and loves the youngest sister very much. On the way home, he cried bitterly and said that he didn't give his sister the best dowry.

He sympathized with his sister and helped his parents at home since he was a child. He goes out early and comes back late every day, releasing two cows raised at home.

04

In the years when my sister just got married, maybe two people came together for the first time, and all aspects of personality need to be run-in, so there will be some noise.

Every time I hear the news that my sister quarrels again, I worry that my sister's life is hard.

In fact, every newly married couple has to go through that running-in period. Gradually, the news we hear is good news. Sister, they are no longer as noisy as they used to be, and begin to live their lives seriously.

My sister bought an electric tricycle and sold fruit in the street. My sister, who didn't graduate from primary school, actually started a small business with dignity. We are very happy to hear the news.

Because my sister has some income, she always buys a lot of food for my children when we go home. Another time, my sister came to our house to play and bought us a lot of millet, rice, ham with cooking oil and the best milk. She also told the children not to tell me that she was hiding in my closet.

When I found out, my sister had left my house.

05

As long as I hear that we are going home, my sister will prepare a lot of fruit to take home.

Last year, she gave me a box full of things and a big basket full of grapes, saying that she wanted me to make wine to drink.

My sister and I are very close, not like aunts at all, but like sisters. My sister's children say that in the future, when they are married, my uncle and Zhang Zi will be old, and she must come to see us often. Every time I think of what my niece said, our hearts are so warm.

I also educate my two children from time to time, and I will often visit their aunts, nephews and nieces in the future. In fact, they are my aunt's closest blood relatives.

When I met my sister, I couldn't finish talking, as if I hadn't seen her for centuries. I often sigh, if only we lived together.

06

My sister has been my biggest fan since I opened the official WeChat account and posted articles on it. After my sister took the initiative to inquire about the benefits of this official WeChat account, she began to learn how to pay attention to and forward it for me, and then recommended my official WeChat account cards to her friends one by one.

What moved me even more was that my sister couldn't finish reading an article, but she forwarded it as soon as possible. She was my first reader.

As long as it is good for me, my sister will do it with her heart.

Last year, I bought a pair of shoes for my sister. My sister has always thought of us and said not to spend money indiscriminately. She has shoes and says it's not easy for us to send our children to school.

However, my sister is not. My niece just entered the university this year, and there are many places to spend money. But she is generous to everyone.

My niece is leaving home to go to college, so I just want to give my child pocket money to express my mind, but we have discussed how much to give for a long time.

Because my sister is too selfless, if I give my child more, my sister will definitely not, and my niece is also very sensible, and she will definitely refuse again and again. We think it is good for them to accept whatever they want.

07

My sister never takes advantage of others. If you give her a point, she will pay you back ten points. We have dealt with her for 20 years, and we have never been red-faced or had any conflicts.

My sister not only wants my children, but also the children of our three families. I believe my sister's nieces and nephews can feel my aunt's kindness.

In this world, apart from parents, the closest people are nothing more than a mother's brother and sister.

Around us, there are also many brothers and sisters who always want to take advantage of their brothers and sisters and are always one-sided and difficult to get along with.

May all the sisters and brothers in the world treat each other sincerely, just like the simplest self at the beginning.

May my sister and her family be happy and healthy.