I discussed this problem with my boyfriend. Boyfriend belongs to the kind of man who is a little male chauvinist, so his idea is that the wife should bear all the housework at home after marriage. Whether they are willing to participate in housework depends on their mood. In his mind, men work hard outside and should enjoy themselves comfortably when they get home, rather than doing housework.
Not only my boyfriend, but also many boys have this idea now, but I certainly don't agree, if you want to maintain a stable family relationship. It is not enough to rely on the efforts of only one side. After all, family is not a one-person family. Men say they are tired when they are outside, but nowadays women often have their own jobs. Are they not tired? Even some women work longer hours than men. Of course, for those housewives, doing housework is a matter of course. After all, it is very hard for her man to earn money to support his family outside.
Therefore, since the family belongs to two people, housework should be shared by two people. Since we have formed a family, we should not compare every day as when we are in love, and whoever pays more will do the same with housework.
Therefore, in my opinion, the most harmonious family relationship is that two people do housework together, or whoever is not tired from work today can well reflect the role of the family and establish the relationship between husband and wife. Therefore, I also hope that the majority of men will keep a clear head and put away those patriarchal thoughts. After all, women are not born slaves to men.