It is often said that a good wife is a fragrance that can infect the whole family and society. Being a good wife is a compulsory course in life. So how to be a good wife? Here are ten principles of being a good wife.
First of all: absolutely gentle.
Men like gentle women because they look strong on the outside, but they are often fragile on the inside. They need their wives' gentle voice, tender pity and love to care for them. Female friends, as long as you have Wen Ya's appearance and temperament, exhaling voice and affectionate eyes, home will become a shelter for men and a hotbed for rest. Wen Ruian has a book called Gentle Knife, which can kill a person or save a person.
Second: know how to dress up.
God may not have given you a beautiful face and a devil's figure, but he has never given you the right to spoil yourself at will. It is often seen that some married women no longer pay attention to dressing up. Some women don't even wear bras to work. When asked by curious people, she was surprised: "I am married, and I don't need to find a husband anymore." Why are you dressing it up? Moreover, it is too convenient to go home and feed your child! " There are not a few such women in life, thinking that if you marry your husband, you don't need to paint makeup for anyone. In fact, for a woman, finding a husband is only the first step of the long March. It takes a lifetime for her husband to love herself all the time.
Third, if you want to control your husband, you must first control his stomach.
I don't know who came up with this move, which caused more "eldest sister-in-law" than "uncle" to go to the vegetable market to buy food. But let's not say whether this statement is truth or philosophy. In short, it is right to follow it. A good wife must not say shyly, "honey, cook quickly, I'm starving!" " In fact, many men are thinking: Why should I marry a wife? Why didn't you cook and wash clothes for me? Just afraid to say it. Therefore, don't let your husband whisper in his heart for a few meals. Not worth it. You must study the cookbook carefully and remember the "300 tips for the kitchen". You should consider what soup, what ingredients, how to match what dishes, and how much monosodium glutamate and salt to add. You can go to CCTV's Man-Han Banquet, and your husband will naturally stop sneaking into the restaurant and let you eat at home alone every day!
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Fourth: Never compare your husband with other people's husbands.
Don't always talk about how good other people's husbands are, and don't scold him for being worthless. Husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and you are his closest relative. For most men, his wife's appreciation and encouragement can make him stronger than abuse. Besides, do you still have the heart to hurt him if you love him? If you love him, you must respect him. No matter how angry you are, you can't hurt others. Physical injuries are easy to heal, but the consequences of mental injuries are terrible. Wounds sometimes bleed for life. In front of people, you must give your husband enough face to be a fearless man. As a man, he doesn't like friends to make fun of him for being afraid of his wife, unless he has strong backing and high status, but most of us are ordinary people.
Fifth point: Don't be too smart in front of your husband. Sometimes he'd rather you were stupid.
When a man feels that the woman around him is inferior to himself everywhere, he will have a great sense of accomplishment and feel that this woman is being conquered by his omniscience. Everyone knows that men like to conquer women. So, when he says there are only two kinds of people in the world, you must never say three. When he says that the capital of Britain is new york, you must never say that it is London. You will say with great admiration, "Oh, you know so much, it's ... I don't know!" " The computer system is broken. If you ask him to fix it, even if he can't, you don't need to fix it. You should give him more things that you can easily do and say, "Honey, you are really nice. Why can't I?" A really smart wife knows how to make herself stupid properly. Training your husband to be smart is your smartest move!
After listening to this beautiful couple, let's talk about the principles of being a good wife.
Sixth point: absolutely let the husband dress appropriately and learn to sew the hem of trousers and nail buttons.
If my husband doesn't dress properly to go out, someone will definitely say, "Hey, this guy is miserable, he has a lazy wife at home!" " "However, if the wife doesn't dress properly to go out, someone will definitely say," Hey, this woman is really lazy. Whoever marries her will be miserable! " "No way. This world is so unfair! Therefore, before your husband goes out, he must first match his clothes, what shirt with what tie, what pants with what coat. You must also iron his clothes one by one, make sure they are sharp and angular, and wash his white shirt as clean as ever. Don't let the dirt on his collar spoil his elegant manners. Don't forget to check whether his trousers are off the thread and whether the buttons will fall off from time to time. You must do everything before he puts it on. If you can't learn these things now, learn them quickly. I can't help it, being a good wife is not that easy!
Seventh point: Never growl at a lion, and uphold the mantle of "tigress".
A man's worst wife is a bitch. A good wife should pay special attention to this and never become a "tigress" carelessly. He has been under great pressure at work and has no obligation to go home. He has to look at your face to make you happy. There will be shortcomings in the other person's personality, and the details of life will be different from yours, which will make you dissatisfied. But how can he be perfect? In front of you, he should put down his mask, be himself and be an ordinary person. Tolerance is the proper attitude towards life and marriage.
Eighth: be absolutely filial to the elderly.
A good wife should know that in her husband's mind, her husband's parents are no less than herself. So be kind to his parents, that is, your in-laws. I care about my heart, love my house, love my old age and my old age. As long as I really feel that these are my own parents, I am psychologically attached to the elderly, and the elderly will feel this sincerity. Besides, people are like children when they are old. As long as they are happy, we are old ourselves, and then we need filial daughters-in-law.
Ninth: I definitely have a job of my own.
Only when women live independently of men can they achieve independence and self-esteem. A woman should be an independent tree, and her husband is the big tree around you. If you don't have a job of your own, you will become a vine, tightly wrapped around him and attached to him to grow. He may like your attachment to him at first, but after a long time, he will complain that you have absorbed his nutrients and dragged his back, and he will be eager for you to leave and let him grow freely. So a good wife must know this. If you don't want your husband to get tired of you, you must have a job of your own. You must be independent and interdependent, so that the marriage will last.
The last point is: family always comes first. Of course, you should be responsible for your work, have professional ethics, and have fun from your work, but don't be a slave to your work. It is very important that we work to be happier and enjoy life with our families.
Dear female friends: If you do these ten principles one by one, you will be one step closer to the perfect wife. If you haven't achieved them yet, don't panic, and March towards the goal of a good wife from now on!