1. On the day of engagement, the man put the "dowry" in two, six or twelve mahogany boxes, with six, ten or twelve people. After the convoy was loaded, he shot and went to the woman's house.
2. The man's motorcade fired a gun about 100 meters in front of the woman's house, and the woman also fired a gun in response.
The matchmaker gets off first, and then gets off one after another. Finally, the groom-to-be opens the door and lets the groom-to-be wash his hands and face. The groom-to-be gives the groom a red envelope gift.
4. The staff of the man will give the recruitment gift (red wooden box) to the gift carrier of the woman.
5. The man's relatives and friends enter the woman's house in turn.
6. The woman's elders greet the man's relatives and friends to be seated according to their age, and the prospective groom is at the bottom.
7. After being seated, the matchmaker formally introduces the relatives and friends of both parties, first introduces the relatives and friends of the man to the woman (the groom-to-be introduces them last), and then introduces the relatives and friends of the woman to the man.
8. After the gift display is ready, the matchmaker will give the size, gold ornaments and gift points to the woman's parents.
9. The woman's relatives and friends will accept gifts, display sacrifices on the altar, and prepare to worship the woman's ancestors.
10. The bride-to-be holds a tea tray in her hands (with several cups of sweet tea on it, depending on the number of men), and the lucky woman (or her female elder) helps her out of the hall, offering tea to the relatives and friends of the man (from young to old, the groom-to-be is the last) and quits the hall (bowing to the relatives and friends of the man when she leaves the hall).
1 1. The man's relatives and friends will drink the sweet tea and put the red envelope in the cup.
12. The bride-to-be goes out to collect tea cups (the process is the same as the tea service). ?
13. After tea, wear an engagement ring (hang your finger); Tie the gold ring and the copper ring together with a red line, indicating that the husband and wife are the same body or change to a diamond ring.
(1) The woman has prepared a high chair and a low chair.
(2) The bride-to-be takes a seat, facing the living room door, and sits outward with her feet on the low chair.
(3) The groom-to-be stands on the right side of the bride-to-be and faces the bride-to-be.
(4) The bride-to-be holds out her right hand, and the groom-to-be holds the ring in her right hand and puts it in the middle finger of the bride-to-be's right hand (cooperate with the photographer before putting it in).
(5) The groom-to-be holds out his left hand, and the bride-to-be holds the ring in her right hand and puts it in the middle finger of the groom's left hand (cooperate with the photographer before putting it in).
(6) The groom-to-be gives the bride-to-be a red envelope.
14. After wearing the engagement ring, the matchmaker takes the groom-to-be and changes the address one by one to the elder, parents and relatives of the woman, and the bride-to-be changes the address one by one to the elder, parents and relatives of the man. (This point has been omitted now. )
15. Please allow the mother and uncle of the bride to "light candles to burn incense", and the woman should light candles for her mother and uncle.
16. The woman's parents and prospective newlyweds worship their ancestors.
17. The woman will return part of the employment gift money, put it in a red wooden box with the returned gift money, and give it to the man's relatives and friends to get on the bus.
18. After the engagement ceremony, the woman serves jiaozi or snacks to the relatives and friends of the man, and then prepares a table for the man at home or goes to a restaurant for dinner.
19. After dinner, the man's parents pressed the table and went home. The woman's younger generation washes their hands with the man's relatives and friends with face washing water (with towels inside).
20. "seeing never say goodbye off" means that both men and women should not say "goodbye" to avoid complications or remarriage. Don't kick the threshold when crossing it.
2 1. The woman distributed the engagement wedding cake to relatives and friends as a happy news.
The above is a more detailed procedure.
Modern people pay attention to everyone's family.
Maybe it's simpler.