1: envy and hate others. If you don't try to change yourself, the poor will have such a mentality: "Seeing that rich relatives have made a lot of money is often envy. I obviously don't have that strength. Not only do I not want to make progress, but I am becoming more and more negative and boring. " Besides envy, there is more jealousy and hatred. I fantasize about what I will do in the future all day, and I have never thought about how to change.
2. Money is king, no money and no face. When it comes to who has money, it is often said that this family is really amazing, earning hundreds of thousands a year, which is excellent. For those who have no money, three or four thousand a month, they often suffer from the supercilious look and exclusion of others. Money is king. The less such people have comparative strength, the more they think about how to compare.
3. Thinking about making some unrealistic fantasy comparisons all day, it is good to learn to compare the length with others if you fail, but if you overdo it, you will often be immersed in some unrealistic fantasies all day. Compared with my rich relatives, I feel like a failure. Another person who listens to the wind is rain and has no idea how to change and improve himself.