I don't like to care about many things about my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. I think it will be very tiring. If we treat everyone as kind, will we see more sunshine? Before my mother took me to marry my stepfather, my personality was not like this. I have had a little temper and a little wayward. I didn't start to change until I moved to my stepfather's house with my mother. It is my stepfather's daughter who has changed me. She is two years older than me.
The house in my hometown is too old for us to go, so my mother-in-law has been living with us since she got married and doing nothing at home. I take my children to school by myself, and my mother-in-law will pick them up for me after school. My mother-in-law looks full of energy, but every day she says that it hurts here and is uncomfortable there. I will go back to cook later and never touch my hands in housework. My mother-in-law has been urging us to have a second child, but looking at our financial situation and my mother-in-law, I really dare not regenerate.
When I gave birth to my daughter, my mother-in-law looked at her as a granddaughter and didn't care much. She said that she lacked energy and couldn't cook well, so she couldn't take care of me, or my mother would take care of me. After confinement, I cook and do housework while taking care of the children. My mother-in-law went out to play after dinner, chatted with her neighbors, and came back for dinner at dinner time.
Unlike me, she has a temper, personality and independent mind, and I began to simplify myself. I don't want to see a lot of things, and I automatically filtered out a lot of bad things. I didn't care at first. My mother-in-law has a strong personality. When I first met her, I was really scared by her eyes, but later I was always indifferent to her, and I didn't try to please and curry favor with her too much, because it was really unnecessary in my opinion.
I think my mother-in-law has never done anything excessive except cooking and housework. She has worked hard all her life, and it is right for her to enjoy her old age. I don't care, and I'm tired of doing more. The husband's family are two brothers, the husband is the eldest son, the younger brother works in the provincial capital, and we work in the county seat. My husband and I are trying to buy our house. When we bought a house, my mother-in-law said that the house in the county was cheap and the house in the provincial capital was too expensive. Let's go to the county to buy it. When we bought a house, my mother-in-law said that the money in her hand was for her old age and could not be moved. When she arrived in the city, her mother-in-law also moved in to live with us, saying that it is only natural for her eldest son to support the elderly.
But when my sister-in-law got married, she insisted on buying a house in the provincial capital. My mother-in-law gave them100000 without telling me. On this day, my mother-in-law sent the meal and went out to buy things. I cried with joy when I saw my sister-in-law's lunch box. Her lunch box is actually the same dish as mine, but there is a sour bean in it My mother-in-law is actually very careful. She knew that I didn't like hot and sour food, and that my sister-in-law had no appetite for such a light taste recently, so she gave it to me. I smiled and said, look, am I right? In fact, my mother-in-law is really good to us. We shouldn't argue with her about trifles. I know you are also a kind person.
Sister-in-law looked at the dishes in the bowl and said nothing for a long time. Actually, I have no other purpose. I just want to make this big family harmonious and provide a good production environment for the children. Later, my sister-in-law and my mother-in-law had an argument. In fact, if everyone really cared less, this family would be very harmonious. A harmonious family is really important.