1. If you choose freedom, you have to endure loneliness. ——Junichi Watanabe, "Incarnation"

2. Regardless of people, flowers, plants and other creatures, any excessive attempt to express themselves will disappoint the audience and weaken its original charm. ——Junichi Watanabe, "Incarnation"

3. Men and women cannot get too close. If the distance is too close, love will become a negative burden. ——Junichi Watanabe, "Paradise Lost"

4. Of all the battles for victory and defeat in the world, the most painful thing is not the moment of failure, but the moment of admitting defeat. ——Junichi Watanabe, "Paradise Lost"

5. Temptation itself is created based on human needs. Men engage in promiscuity mainly to seek sexual and soul satisfaction, while women engage in sexual intercourse mainly to make up for their lack of emotional and spiritual well-being. ——Junichi Watanabe, "This Thing Is a Man"

6. Love that has been blessed by people and feels very reliable to oneself is so vulnerable. Why is this? ——Junichi Watanabe, "Paradise Lost"

7. When breaking up, leaving some lingering aftertaste is the secret of successful relationships between men and women. ——Junichi Watanabe, "Incarnation"

8. In the history of mankind, the price of manly lack of patience is unknown! Women are naturally good at being patient and have manipulated many men. ——Junichi Watanabe, "Incarnation"

9. Love can become a negative thing if the distance is too close. ——Junichi Watanabe, "Paradise Lost"

10. But after twenty-five years, this marriage has become riddled with holes, which is difficult to cure. ——Junichi Watanabe, "Paradise Lost"

11. From the outside, women seem hesitant to do things, but that is only when buying things or choosing what clothes to wear. When it comes to making decisions, they are bolder and more decisive than you think. Of course, they will also fall into deep distress before making a decision, but once they make a decision, they will never regret it. ——Junichi Watanabe "Where is the Return"

12. You cannot become a flower without being secretive. So not only flowers, but also people's appearance, art, and talents. If they are openly displayed outside and express themselves strongly, they cannot become "flowers." ——Junichi Watanabe, "Incarnation"

13. Women's hair is the most sensitive. The way you touch her can tell her mood to some extent. ——Junichi Watanabe, "Incarnation"

14. If you think about it carefully, men's desires are simple, like naughty children, impatient! If men were as patient as women, then human beings would not be so prosperous... Men's desires are active and extroverted, so the relationship between men and women is established. ——Junichi Watanabe, "Incarnation"

15. "People who have no use value are very coldly treated." ——Junichi Watanabe, "Paradise Lost"

16. Regardless of life No matter how old you are, there are always too many thoughts, worries and confusions. If a person loses these and is content with the status quo, this is the end of youth in the true sense. ——Junichi Watanabe

17. From now on, you can live a leisurely and free life. No matter how hard you struggle, a lifetime is just a lifetime. Once the concept changes, things that were considered important in the past are no longer so important. On the contrary, things that have never been considered precious suddenly become precious. ——Junichi Watanabe, "Paradise Lost"

18. In short, the so-called marriage is not just the union of a loving man and woman. They play the role of father, mother, or friend to each other, and they each show their childlike innocence when necessary. These are all part of marriage. Without these, it may be difficult to call it a real marriage. ——Junichi Watanabe, "This Thing Is a Man"

19. If a man has gradually forgotten a woman's body, then her charm is gone. When you lose the attraction to the opposite sex, you will lose your "heart" and you will no longer demand her body. In the long-term relationship between men and women, there will always be anger, disputes and boredom. The mind is constantly fluctuating and it is difficult to control it. ——Junichi Watanabe, "Incarnation"

20. Compared with this, the physical bond is much stronger. Once the communication is completed, it will take root deeply in the heart. The feeling spreads throughout the body and is unforgettable forever. ——Junichi Watanabe, "Incarnation"

21. I firmly disapprove of the practice of having my husband present during childbirth - the Lamaze method of delivery. There are thousands of reasons, the most important of which is that this approach has the potential to completely destroy the sexual fantasies that the husband has had towards his wife until now. ——Junichi Watanabe, "This Thing About Men"

22. Men are unfaithful to their wives and go out to "hunt wild food" to the extent that they later become sincerely devoted. This is often because they have many things that are difficult for their wives to learn from. To find satisfaction there, you have to seek it from other women. For example, if the wife is an intellectual and well-educated woman, then the husband may be interested in a woman who is not too sharp in mind but has a gentle and considerate personality and family values; conversely, if the wife is only good at housework, then The husband may be full of yearning for a woman who is energetic and devoted to her work. In the final analysis, this is both the willfulness of men and their true wishes.

——Junichi Watanabe, "This Thing About Men"

23. Therefore, when a woman hears her boyfriend's request such as "Get married!", it is best not for a woman to simply interpret it as her boyfriend's request for her. The love has been sublimated, but other factors should be considered so that you will not be disappointed when the time comes. ——Junichi Watanabe, "This Thing About Men"

24. The relationship between husband and wife is not a relationship of one or two years. Since both parties are going to live together for decades and spend most of their lives together, it is very necessary to maintain a certain sense of tension and mystery between each other in order to maintain each other's sexual charm. ——Junichi Watanabe, "The Man"

25. The husband is like a child who has not grown up, with the characteristics of being unstable and unstable. Although they are already married, they always treat Their eyes turn to the colorful world outside, and they often want to run away from home, often want to change their wives... They are always looking around, restless, and their thoughts are often in a state of floating in the air. ——Junichi Watanabe, "This Husband"

26. No matter how magnificent a person's life seems, when he reaches the end and looks back on the past, he seems so mediocre. Of course, there will be regrets in any way of life, but at least when you are dying, you should not regret it by thinking about "that's bad", "should have done it earlier", etc. ——Junichi Watanabe, "Paradise Lost"

27. This may be a natural tendency of people. In this case, marriage is for insurance in old age. On the surface, it is love, but in fact it is a kind of insurance after aging. ——Junichi Watanabe, "Incarnation"

28. Only the other person's body is required. As long as this bond exists, the relationship between men and women can be maintained. On the contrary, if the other person's body is no longer needed, then the relationship will not be far apart. ——Junichi Watanabe, "Incarnation"

29. Men's virginity complex does not so much reflect men's sensitivity and fragility in sex, but rather is created by immature men based on their own selfish desires. Abnormal thoughts. ——Junichi Watanabe, "This Thing About Men"

30. Many women accept men at their strong request, but women will definitely be rewarded. All women don't openly and explicitly ask for it. Between asking and being asked, an understanding is naturally reached.

——Junichi Watanabe "Incarnation"