What good things can a person have to improve his happiness? I think different stages of life will have different feelings and different answers to this question.
In adolescence, it should be said that having a healthy and normal family will improve happiness. It can be said that family is the source of adolescent's happy growth, the starting point of his healthy and vigorous growth, and an important platform for his correct life and values.
We often see that in many cases, an incomplete family has a great influence on children, and one of the reasons why many teenagers commit crimes is from an incomplete family.
The so-called injury of family background will leave a huge shadow in a person's heart and have a great negative impact. However, a child who grew up in a relatively normal family has developed well in personality, emotional intelligence and intelligence. Its ability to adapt to society and interpersonal skills will not be too big obstacles. A child who grew up in this normal family has a full and stable heart and a sense of security. When he or she is a teenager, he or she will always feel happy and his or her life will be smoother in the future.
There is an old saying: "There are three fears in life, one is that a teenager will lose his father ...", which means that he suddenly lost his father and his whole family when he was a teenager, and his family's economic conditions deteriorated. This is a terrible thing for children's future success. This old adage also reflects the importance of a complete and sound family to adolescent children.
When people reach middle age, a person exists as the pillar of family, unit or society. At this time, if you have a certain social status and a good economic foundation, then his (her) happiness will be sufficient.
After all, people have to work to support their families when they reach middle age. If the economic foundation is good and the conditions make the whole family happy, then their happiness will soar. At this time, he (she) will feel that he (she) is still useful and capable to his family, and that he (she) can fulfill his responsibilities and make the whole family happy, which will be very valuable and confused. At the same time, his (her) social status is an affirmation to himself, and he (she) will feel that he (she) is recognized by the unit and society, and is needed and relied on by the whole family and society.
In old age, "health" is what people value very much. At this time, I still have the same healthy body as when I was young, and I will be proud of it. Health will make happiness at this stage soar.
After all, when people are old, they will become dizzy, deaf and inflexible with the failure of various organs and the deterioration of their functions. Therefore, in this period, still having health is the most valued and happy thing.
Therefore, we will observe that in parks or squares in the morning, middle-aged and elderly people are the most active in sports. They either play Tai Chi or square dance, or run and pull barbells or something. Looking at the old people's radiant exercise, you can't help but feel the old people's great attention and desire for health.
Therefore, people say that it is the happiest thing for people to be healthy and take care of themselves when they are old. After all, people are old, no matter how rich they are, no matter how high their social status is, they can't eat, and they can't walk. They have to wait on others and live a vegetative life, which will lead to a sharp decline in the quality of life and make people live without dignity.
Therefore, it is extremely important and desirable to have a healthy body when people are old, and it is also an important guarantee for happiness and improving happiness.
In short, at different stages of life, the definition of happiness is slightly different, and the object of wishing to be blessed is also slightly different. May each of us have something to make ourselves happy at different stages of life and make ourselves happy forever.
Ok, make the following list, let me think according to the list and experience the feeling of pursuing a happy life.
1. I want to own my own house Not too big. First, you have to have a nest. If you are injured, you can always lie in it to heal. In this small nest, I can laugh and cry heartily, take off my mask and not pretend to be myself. No one will care about tumbling, splitting and somersaulting. If you can't do this, you are like a lost dog. There is no place to live, so I have to run around, hungry and cold.
I want to have a healthy body. Then I can better pursue or realize my various unrealistic ideals. This is the cornerstone of the pursuit of a better life. God, please make me stronger and stronger.
I want to own a car of my own. It doesn't need to be luxurious. I really don't ask for this, as long as it has the basic functions of transportation. With a car, I can satisfy my hobby of wandering around, visit the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, enhance my love for the motherland, stimulate more enthusiasm for work and make contributions to the realization of a well-off socialist society. Having a car can also expand your free space and participate in various social activities faster, better and more calmly. It will also save time and cost, and let me free up more time to do more things I like.
4. Have a certain pro-resistance to RMB enough for your own expenses. This is not very important, but it is. In fact, my requirements are not high, just meet the basic daily needs, not the kind of person who buys luxury accessories all day and spends a lot of money. I can even swear that if you give me this money.
how much is it? Let's not talk about numbers here. Guess, I'm afraid that if I say too much, you will call me greedy, and if I say too little, you will laugh at me and say I'm worthless. Gnome male-",in fact, you all know.
I want love, affection and friendship. After dinner, I can hold my woman's hand and go to the river to press the road romantically. When I can be reunited with my family, I will accompany the elderly to chat at home, accompany the children to do homework, play games and enjoy family happiness. You can take a walk with a few close friends, or karaoke, or brag to each other and talk about your ideals seriously.
6. Improve your taste. Strive to cultivate one's artistic and cultural accomplishment. I want to smell the bacteria of art all over. Infect more people around me and make everyone happy to see me!
Just live like this. I think this sunny day is the highest ideal I pursue.
Some things are really poisonous, once used, they can't be separated, just like adding healing magic, especially in this cold winter, which is really a kind of happiness up ~ up ~ up ~ ~ ~
Today, I will share the "happiness" that I have started and will start soon.
Gao Yan chaozhi tableware
What is the most important thing to eat? Besides being delicious, it is beautiful.
But the level of cooking is like this, so we can only start with vision ~
With a beautiful set of tableware, I feel different at once, and I can even eat a few more meals.
Anyway, every time I see beautiful tableware, I want to buy it at buy buy. Even if I don't set the table, I feel so beautiful.
Kao Zheng Qi Yan mo
Reference price: 69 yuan
Staring at the screen all the year round, it is inevitable that your eyes are often dry and swollen.
When my eyes are a little tired, I will use this steam eye mask to relieve eye fatigue. I feel very hot, relaxed and comfortable when I apply it.
There are five flavors to choose from, namely, fragrance-free combination, chamomile, rose fragrance, grapefruit fragrance and lavender fragrance.
I like lavender best. It has the effect of calming the nerves. It is best to use it before going to bed at night, or when taking a nap at noon.
electric blanket
From small mats to large mats, electric blankets are certainly familiar to everyone, but electric blankets are definitely not familiar to everyone. In fact, they are the crystallization of love between electric blankets and carpets.
This is very suitable for laying in the living room. It's nice to sit on it for work, reading and sunbathing. This is a mobile floor heating.
Heated toilet lid
After winter, besides the moment of getting up every day, the moment of sitting on the toilet may be the most courageous. It's so cold that people lose their temper In order not to ruin the good mood of the day, I changed the toilet lid at home to a heatable one. I have to say that this design is really a warm heart in bold. Once you sit on it, you don't want to get up. ...
Foldable portable hair pasting device
Cold air strikes, and all kinds of dark coats and cotton-padded jackets are on the line. If you are not careful, you will be embarrassed to stick your hair. I think everyone will understand.
Then, a portable mini-sticky device is a must in winter bags.
Coats and cotton-padded jackets are convenient and practical anytime and anywhere. With it, you are one step closer to the exquisite life.
damper
In winter, we all like to stay in the heating room as much as possible, but with our heating and air conditioning, it is thick and dry!
Especially when I wake up in the morning, I have a sore throat, dry skin and squeaky hair. All the above problems urgently call for you to start with a good and pleasing humidifier.
Note that it is best to use pure water when using humidifier. Because tap water contains calcium and magnesium, it will produce white powder when used in a humidifier, polluting indoor air, and it will be sucked every day, and dust will accumulate in the lungs ... It is terrible to think about it.
Incense candle
Aromatherapy candle is a necessary good thing, which can quickly create a sense of belonging for a room. Igniting various fragrances, deducing different romantic flavors and putting them on the dining table can also play a decorative role, which has become a refined lifestyle.
In the morning, with a faint fragrance of flowers, we started a beautiful day together.
Light candles and read magazines or novels before going to bed, and all the pleasure will come to mind.
Reference price: 300- 1000 yuan.
Rosy Rings is a great brand of handmade scented candles in America. The candles in his house are inspired by the flowers and plants in nature, and they all emit the most comfortable fragrance close to nature ~
They can all see flowers, fruits and spices, each of which looks like the four seasons are enclosed in it, just like a unique work of art.
Compared with the fresh fruit fragrance in summer and the fragrance choice in winter, I prefer the mellow wood or smoky fragrance.
The smell of smoke in this forest is very suitable for winter. The combination of lemon, raspberry, ginger, fresh sage and Scottish pine can instantly turn the room into a pine forest with warm wood aroma after lighting.
Don't worry about the candle melting completely. The hard wax outside it has a higher ignition point than the main wax inside, and there will be an outer wall after burning. After burning, you can put some makeup brushes in it, which is both practical and beautiful.
Goc in C elf ball hand warmer charging treasure
Reference price: 298 yuan
Small and super cute, it is both a hand warmer and a charging treasure. A machine can be used for two purposes. Turn on the switch and it will be hot soon, which is simply the gospel of "people with cold hands".
The size is just right in your hand, and it can be kept warm for 4 hours after being fully charged. It's very convenient to carry around, and it doesn't occupy land, so it's warm.
There is also a limited edition of Christmas, so where can I find such a beautiful and convenient little cute?
Downy Donnie's protective clothing keeps xiang zhu.
Reference price: 59.9 yuan
This is a careful machine product that can make girls eat well. I call it a small artifact to protect clothes and leave fragrance.
Especially suitable for girls who don't like to wear perfume, but want to smell a little.
What I like best is the fragrance of this plant, which is particularly natural.
It's very simple to use. Just put a little in the washing machine at a time (about 20~30), and the clothes will be preserved forever.
Even if you travel by train for a long time (you know), the clothes smell good.
Bai Mudan, red roses, pink jasmine and strawberry flowers are also available.
Xiaobaixiong thermostatic kettle
Reference price: 399 yuan
Be sure to prepare a thermostatic kettle in winter, especially when there are babies and old people at home. You can set your own temperature, and then keep the water temperature at this temperature.
The electronic screen can also be seen clearly at night, with its own APP, which is convenient to get out of bed and adjust the temperature.
The most used is 45 degrees, and the taste is just right. Feeding the baby also saves a lot of worry, artificial cooling and temperature measurement on the back of the hand are saved.
There is also a chlorine removal function, which is really intimate.
Well, unconsciously, I actually listed 10 good things that can improve our quality of life and happiness.
Grasp all kinds of small details in life, and the whole person will become more refined ~
In fact, I am a very easy person to satisfy.
If you give me a zan, I will feel very happy.
For a kitchen chef, cooking is really an emotional thing. The menu is so complicated that you can't learn it after reading it. Moreover, the temperature and time of cooking are very particular, and the steps are cumbersome. Even if it is done step by step, the taste is not ideal.
But in Okuda's kitchen, even complicated dishes can be completed in a few simple steps, and the taste is comparable to that of chefs. What is the reason?
It turns out that there is an Okuda steamed integrated stove, which can be delicious in just a few simple steps. If you don't believe me, let's take a look at ordinary cooking VS Okuda integrated stove!
The same roast chicken has such a big step gap.
Ingredients: Sanhuang chicken 1.
Ingredients: cooking wine, light soy sauce, pepper, tomato sauce, oil consumption, sugar, butter and black pepper.
Does the picture on the left look like the roast chicken you eat every day? According to the ordinary recipe, the steps are more complicated, but Okuda's steam-baked integrated stove is obviously much simpler.
Okta steaming and baking integrated stove ZKT5-AI intelligent voice, shouting "Tmall Elf", you can control a variety of cooking operations such as range hoods, cookers and steaming ovens. , intelligent access to cooking time and temperature, liberating hands is too fragrant ~
In a world full of logic, it is difficult to get happiness with causal thinking.
The key to happiness is learning and thinking, from simple AB relationship to understanding ABC relationship. When you understand it, you will figure it out. When you figure it out, you will be happy.
All the unhappiness in the world comes from two words-ignorance.
This is a test question, but it can be big or small. Happiness is based on personal cultivation, and it is impossible to generalize, so everyone has everyone's thoughts and feelings. Some people think that they will be happy with money and what they want, while others think that they will be happy with the care of beautiful women. Some people think that you will be happy if you are a senior official, while others think that you will be happy if you have everything ... There are many forests, each with its own position. I think as long as we have food, clothing, food and shelter, the whole family will be happy with Meimei. Don't need too much wealth, rich material, just enough money, food is the first! As the old saying goes, don't panic when you have food in your hand. So be sure to cook the meal first, some have eaten, and some are almost done. I don't know if my point of view can be recognized by everyone, so I don't know. Anyway, I think as long as there is land and food, the problem of eating is solved and other problems are solved, I will be happy. Thank you for inviting me! Wish you all the best!
I believe that the socialist core values can take root in everyone's heart, which is the best way to increase happiness.
Share good things to improve happiness in life.
Happiness belongs to the field of human ideology.
As the saying goes, the contented are always happy!
First of all, we should know ourselves, know our position and the direction of our efforts;
Secondly, don't overestimate your reasonable evaluation, and don't evaluate it until the end.
What good things can improve happiness? I feel that with the above two conditions, we must establish a spirit of dedication and a spirit of struggle, and we must be good at everything.
This is my belief in everyone, and I believe the world will become better! I believe your happiness will also be enhanced!