Viewpoint 1 Eliminate mental fatigue and stay away from negative laziness. Children are lazy and need to analyze the reasons. My daughter has been listless and lazy. When she came home from school, she seemed to be ill. Even when she asked her questions, she nodded and shook her head. I analyzed the reasons and thought that her laziness might be related to my high demands. Usually nagging. It seems that she won't study hard if I don't emphasize studying hard. This makes her daughter feel mentally exhausted and produces laziness and negative emotions. Sure enough, in order to avoid my nagging, my daughter simply avoided talking; Nothing can satisfy me, so I don't want to do anything I restrained myself from criticizing my daughter and said to her, "You should make a study and life plan for yourself. It's easy to do it with lower requirements. As long as you can follow the plan, I promise not to nag. " Doing things according to one's own plan gave her daughter a sense of self-confidence and accomplishment, and objectively let her find a sense of initiative. The change of my daughter has in turn eased my anxiety. I often sincerely praise her progress and efforts. Soon, her lively and positive nature returned. Therefore, eliminating mental fatigue can help children stay away from laziness. (1 1 year-old girl's mother Yang Wenli) Viewpoint 2 Cultivate the sense of responsibility and self-care ability, and put an end to lazy behavior. My son has been loved by his grandparents since he was a child, so he doesn't have to do everything himself. Now that he is old, he should always do his own thing, but he has developed the bad habit of laziness. For example, he refused to put away his toys on the grounds that he would play later. After dinner, I threw the food away and left, even refusing to deliver it to the kitchen. When I came home from school, I shouted, "I'm exhausted, dizzy." Then I lay on the sofa for a long time and couldn't make a phone call. The teacher also reflected that he was irresponsible and neglected his homework. I think my son's laziness is caused by too little he can do and his poor self-care ability. With the unanimous consent of my elders, I began to train him to take care of himself and give him the most basic sense of responsibility. From the beginning of tidying up his schoolbag, he is required to tidy up his schoolbag before washing every night, put the books in different categories, and check whether he has brought them together, so that he can understand that he has forgotten something, and we will never send them to him. At the same time, get into the habit of putting away the relevant textbooks after finishing one homework, and then do another homework to avoid visual interference, causing irritability or distraction. In addition, I asked him to do two things for his family every day, taking milk in the morning and taking out the garbage at night. After these behaviors were consolidated by material and spiritual encouragement, his laziness problem was also solved. (Hu Min, the mother of a 9-year-old boy) Viewpoint 3: Encourage enthusiasm and change lazy habits with actions. My daughter is a small cadre, smart, eloquent and good at studying. She has one fault: laziness. She is strong in liberal arts and weak in science. Because she is too lazy to do problems, she is tired of solving problems step by step. She always solves problems by example, and is too lazy to seek novelty and difference. At home, her favorite thing is to lean on the sofa and find some snacks such as melon seeds and plum blossoms. She doesn't read novels, watch TV and even throw shells all over the floor. The school reflects that she has a glib tongue and there is a problem of just talking and not doing it. For her laziness, I started by encouraging her enthusiasm, accompanying her to do more work, and letting her know that seeing more may not necessarily know more, and knowing more may not necessarily do well. For example, doing exercises, I told her that in addition to looking at examples, she could try to find a variety of solutions, so that she could experience the fun brought by diligence in seeking novelty and novelty. In order to encourage her enthusiasm, I intend to keep the house spotless, because a clean and beautiful environment can also make people excited, so that she can unconsciously correct her laziness and devote herself to keeping the house clean and tidy. Now I mention "lazy girl" in front of my daughter again, and she won't spare me. (Luo Cheng, the father of a 12-year-old girl) Viewpoint 4: Let children keep emotional and physical vitality and overcome lazy habits. I can say my son is very lazy. He is a heavy sleeper and likes to sleep during the day. He began to doze off half an hour before reading. I wanted him to do something for me. Before I could speak, he shouted that he was tired and had no youthful spirit as a child should have. I think he is lazy because he lacks energy. Therefore, I first helped him adopt the method of "step by step learning". He studied for half an hour and rested for ten minutes. The same is true of reciting English texts. He took two breaks. When reviewing for the exam, I asked him questions and sorted out the materials to prevent him from dozing off while studying alone. After finishing my homework, I will drive him downstairs and play football and badminton with him to keep him alive. As a result of persistence, my son achieved unexpected good results in the senior high school entrance examination and was admitted to a key high school. He tasted the sweetness, was in high spirits and was full of confidence in the future. (Su Hangqing, the father of a 15-year-old boy) Viewpoint 5 Teaching children the right way to do things and overcoming laziness caused by pampering seems to be a common problem, which is related to the pampering of their families. My daughter's laziness is manifested in asking adults for help in everything: "Mom, come and help me …" She will sit lazily under the bed after getting up and wait for me to get her pants and button up. Something fell to the ground and she pretended not to see it. I'd better pick it up. She pestered me to help her do this and that. I deliberately didn't help her and forced her to do it herself, but it was useless because she couldn't. So, I spent my energy demonstrating the correct practices, such as washing hands. I also patiently taught her to apply soap to her palms, wash her palms and fingers, and then wash her nails. When dressing, tell her to wear her left arm first, clothes are easier to wear, and so on. I think teaching children how to do it is more useful than just urging them to do it. My daughter learned to do things, and her lazy psychology and behavior changed. (Wang Yiling, the mother of a 7-year-old girl) Viewpoint 6 Exercise endurance and endurance to fight laziness. Today's children have a wide range of knowledge and smart brains, but they are just a little lazy. When I say lazy, I mean lack of perseverance and endurance. My daughter refused to study hard for fear of hardship and annoyance. For example, if she wants to eat candy, she must open the candy can. I can't open it once or twice. She doesn't even eat sugar. Doing homework is the same. If you still don't understand the topic after reading it twice, give up and wait for the teacher or parents to explain it. It would be more convenient if you had a reference book. Just look at the answer directly. I think it is not good for children to be impatient and persistent, and parents should help them. Let's take my daughter's opening a sugar can. Tell her it's not difficult to open the sugar can, but it's a bit troublesome to tear off the glue on the outer packaging. You don't need superb skills, you just need a little patience. After finishing her homework, her daughter often stays on the sofa and watches TV, and she starts to be lazy mentally. So, I asked her to learn cross-stitch and make various architectural shapes with popsicles with her to exercise her endurance and patience. My daughter is no longer idle and has an interest in doing things. Laziness has been cured.