First, his favorite sport.
Men who like running, swimming and other solo sports like independence, which means that they are often alone. Men who like team sports such as football, basketball, baseball, etc. like to compete, whether on the sports field or in all aspects of life, and like to compete with people around them anytime and anywhere.
As for those who don't like sports at all, they are independent thinkers and are often sensitive. And such people are likely to be otaku, or their physical fitness is not very good. If the child is born, he is unlikely to accompany the child in sports.
Second, his communication style.
It is very important for two people to get along and communicate. If you are a talkative person who completely ignores the feelings of the audience, you are generally a person who usually has no chance to express his views loudly, and the reliability of his speech is generally not high. If it involves material conditions, it is generally not credible.
If it is a silent man, it is entirely after you take the initiative to ask and then give a response. Either he is not interested in you, or he is not very expressive. You can make a decision after careful observation.
Generally speaking, a man who will listen to you carefully and express one or two opinions or feelings about it will make people feel very comfortable. If you say that you want your mother-in-law to live in the same community and take care of her, she can give her own opinions and responses, then you are almost the same as him. This is a very clear signal.
Observing a man's communication style can reveal his disguise to some extent.
Third, his driving habits.
If he often drives in traffic, or follows the car in front of him and gloats at the driver in front, Leon, the author of "Road Quarrel and Angry Driving" and a doctor of psychology at the University of Hawaii? James said: Obviously, he has impulsive problems. ? Although being competitive will make him stand out in his work, this guy is hard to get along with others. ?
If there is a traffic jam, he can still be calm. James said that this shows that he has strong self-control ability.
Generally speaking, the realm of not being happy with things and not being sad for yourself is too high. A man who touches his own interests properly will not be overly excited, can respond to other people's experiences, and will not be indifferent. Such men are generally sunny and cheerful.
Fourth, the restaurant order.
Before two people formally start eating, ordering food can reflect a person's personality.
Diane, the author and image design expert of Decoration and Appearance: 3 1 day to create a new image? Daniels said:? A man who likes to choose home cooking is usually steady and practical, but he is also a person who doesn't like adventure. ? If your date likes to order some novel dishes, Daniels said, then you are dating a spontaneous person, and he may easily get tired of maintaining the status quo. ?
If you decide the menu without authorization when ordering, it shows that this person is a certain degree of male chauvinism and can be said to be a certain self. If he asks about your taste, but still decides the menu for reasons that are not good for your health, it means that he will take good care of you but is very controlling. If he orders his favorite food and asks you to order it yourself, then this kind of man usually respects the other half and treats the other half as an equal.
Verb (abbreviation for verb) favorite TV program
If he always likes to watch one TV series after another in front of the TV, you should pay attention. He Da, a TV producer and author of The Secret of Dating: A Simple Way to Enjoy an Interesting, Flashy and Meaningful Social Life? Muscat said: This kind of man likes to use humor to relieve stress. This may be a good thing, because he won't vent his pressure on you, and he won't become restless. However, it is not easy for you to have a serious conversation with him. This is a contradiction. The more you want to discuss some important issues with him, the more he wants to escape. ?
Men who don't like to watch social news generally go with the flow and have no plans and requirements for life. In addition, they show that he is not very mature in a certain respect.
On the other hand, men who watch legal programs are good at analysis and like to think. Muscat said: He is proud of his ability to solve problems, and he will spare no effort to help you when you need help. ?
Who is he at home?
Nancy, the author of The Man Worth Having? Fagan said? The eldest of brothers and sisters, has a sense of responsibility and likes to be in charge. If he is the youngest in the family, he may be creative and rebellious. The people in the middle are sensitive and want to win others' attention. ?
In China's family, ranking also represents the burden of this husband's family. If the man is the boss, then you have to take care of the other half's brothers and sisters. The so-called eldest sister-in-law is like a mother, which will be even harder. If a man comes last, it means that he has received the most attention from his parents, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should be valued.
7. The way he speaks
If this man speaks quickly, it means that he is straightforward and energetic, and may be a little opinionated. Di Resta said? People who speak fast are keen to impress others, but they don't pay attention to their audience. People who speak slowly tend to be cautious, and they will think over every word before they speak, which also shows his attitude towards life: think twice before you act. ?
Although he seems to have a good family condition and is gentle personally, from these details, you can quickly see through the man sitting opposite you and judge whether he is suitable for you. If appropriate, you can learn more about it. If it doesn't fit, then bye bye.