First, it is best to avoid "Are you there?" Do you have a minute? Busy? Are you asleep? "This kind of opening remarks, I generally don't want to reply to these opening remarks, and I can't say anything directly. If I say it, I can decide whether I am' in'. Why don't I say yes and you say "What are you doing"? Second, the opening of new things If you want to chat with a new girl, you can go and see what happened in her circle of friends recently. For example, if you see her traveling, you can say, "I saw you in go to dali the other day. The picture is very beautiful. Did you have a good time? " Or she reveals the work dynamics, you can say, "Congratulations, today's project passed smoothly. "Girls won't ignore you on topics related to themselves. Unforgettable opening remarks, such as: "I just had dinner with my friends and found a Sichuan restaurant delicious. I remember that you like spicy food very much. We can go to dinner together next time. "This kind of prologue not only gives you something to say, but also proves that you keep each other's hobbies in mind and can make each other feel attentive. After the opening, you should also learn how to find a topic to make the chat go on better. So what topics do we often talk about? In addition to what you said at the beginning, you can also take the initiative to share your growth embarrassment, play experience, all kinds of interesting, special and even embarrassing events with the other party, and the other party will open up and share her story with you. Fourth, the opening of hot topics. For example, if you want to chat with a friend, you just see that she has sent a circle of friends to follow the drama. You can ask: "Is there any good drama recommendation? It seems that Love Apartment 5 is quite popular recently. Have you seen it? "Secondly, let's take a look at the topics commonly used in WeChat communication. We can talk about current hot topics. Popular things are the most communicative topics. If you don't participate, you will fall behind. Hot topics are also the easiest to communicate with others. From these topics, we can understand each other's views, even three views. Therefore, the topic of chat also needs to be accumulated by yourself. What are the etiquette of chatting with the girl you just met: 1, and reply to other people's messages in time. If you can't reply in time, you should also explain the reasons and apologize to the other party at your convenience. 2. Take care of each other's feelings. In the process of chatting with new girls, don't always start with "I", blindly promote your own ideas, always interrupt other people's chat words and ways of thinking, and refute other people's views. 3. Make as little noise as possible. Don't send voice regardless of time and place for your convenience, but also consider whether the other party is convenient. I really can't type, so explain the situation to the other party first. 4. Clever use of Yan characters. Adding an emoticon when chatting properly will make people feel close, express their emotions more intuitively, and also release your goodwill and willingness to interact with each other through symbols, which will enliven the chat atmosphere. Of course, the expression should be moderate, don't brush the screen! 5. Understand the intention of modal particles. Some words have the unique tone meaning of the network. Don't send "Oh", "Hehe", "Smile" and "Goodbye" to others casually. How to start a conversation with a girl you just met? 2. Starting from life, I heard the menu of a recent home-cooked dish, started the topic, and finally returned to life. Whether in reality or on the internet, the weather is always a topic, and it is a handy topic. From today's weather to last week's weather, from last week to the first few months, from the first few months to the first few years, these topics that can be seen everywhere in your life can make the conversation between you more and more interesting. Second, the logic of the interlocutor is the logic of summing up and solving problems. When two men chat, the content of the chat will be less and less. Because in the process of chatting, with the casual solution of the problem, the topic gradually disappears. We explain the logical thinking differences between men and women through two paragraphs. 1. My girlfriend told her boyfriend that when she went shopping in the afternoon, she saw a skirt that was particularly beautiful. Then I ate snacks and felt beautiful. And the man's answer is: "Where? how much is it? Do not buy! Two middle-aged women downstairs are chatting with their children. One of them said that my children are naughty and always wake me up at night. On the other hand, my family always likes to play with some dirty things ... In the first example, my boyfriend's answer is a typical logical dialogue aimed at solving problems. It's easy to interrupt the topic, and the content will be boring without emotion. The second example is the logic of girls. Every sentence in the chat is state+feeling, which can make the topic go on better. Third, pay attention to your expression. There are two aspects here, one is not to use modal particles, and the other is not to contain too much information in a sentence. Specifically, it is modal particles, such as, oh, what, yo, ah and so on. It will make you look less masculine, and girls don't like very girly boys and feel insecure. Therefore, when dating, don't appear such a sentence: You are dressed beautifully today! Or do you want something to eat? Be careful! Remember not to step on the minefield. In addition, it is best to express one meaning in a sentence, and the amount of information should not be too much. For example, I just came home from the library and am going to attend the 9: 30 party. You see, we can extract at least four messages from this sentence: library, home, 9: 30, party. What do girls think when they hear this? She will be very confused about what you want to express, so it is best for you to say a sentence with only one meaning and not to confuse the other party. How to start a conversation with a girl you just met? 3 How to chat to increase goodwill? I. Chat time 1. Don't send messages too often when you first meet. The girl you just met is not very familiar. It's good enough to be friends, so we should be interesting, don't chat with each other too often, and try to get to know this girl first through friends circle and other methods. 2. Choose the chat time according to the other person's circle of friends. Only when the other person has free time can you get a reply. After all, girls don't like being disturbed when they are working or doing things, so how do you know when the other person is free? First, from 8: 00 pm to 1 1 pm, it is a relatively free time for women; Second, according to the time when a girl sends a circle of friends, a girl uploading pictures in a circle of friends will definitely retouch them. You can also talk to a girl at this time. 3. How long does each chat last? 1. When chatting with girls you just met, you should pay attention to the chat time. Don't talk for too long, it will make you feel no mystery in front of girls, and she will have no desire to explore you. 2, take the initiative to end the chat before the break, which is a careful embodiment; When you don't know what to send, you should end the topic in time, and don't let you have nothing to say in the chat. Second, chat topics and girls chat, of course, choose topics that girls are more interested in and understand. Don't let a chat turn into a person talking. We can choose topics according to each other's circle of friends. For example, if a girl keeps a pet, you can talk about how embarrassed your pet is. Girls usually talk about their pets. * * * Friends with you, places you have been, etc. , can be used as a choice to chat with girls.