Bad luck! I have never enjoyed such treatment. In other words, a woman's life is to be a princess for one day (on her wedding day), a queen for ten months (when she is pregnant in October) and then work hard all her life ~ ~ ~

I completely subverted people's imagination! I have a great reaction after pregnancy. I was sleepy all day, spitting bile and vomiting blood, and I was seriously ill. I tremble every day, and I often feel dizzy, so I can't work at all. Then I resigned and rested at home. I wanted to wait until the worst three months before going out to work. As a result, the day did not go according to people's wishes. In less than three months, I had a problem with my waist. I can't sleep on my stomach, I can't stand for long, I can't bend over for more than two minutes, and I do all the housework at home. Every time I wash two or three bowls on the operating table, my waist and feet are sore to my bones, so I can't lift my feet and walk. After washing clothes and rubbing your feet on the floor, you can't afford money at all. Every time I wash clothes, I barely walk after a few days, and a lot of particles appear on my feet.

It is painful not to put it on the ground, but it is really painful to walk down the stairs to the fifth floor every day to buy food and cook, wait for my husband to get off work, wash clothes and quilts at home and mop the floor every day. I can't sit or stand for a few minutes every time, and I can't lie down. Every time I kneel on the floor in front of the bed, I hold my hands on the bed for a long time, and then I can finally get up and sit on the bed and rest. The hottest year in life is the year of pregnancy. I don't want to wear short sleeves at home. I do this and that every day. My husband doesn't even look at it, let alone help me with some housework. He often comes home late. Before the weekend, he had arranged his own time. One minute I said I was going home to see my parents, one minute I said my colleagues had a party, one minute I said my new colleagues had come to have dinner together, and one minute I said my colleagues had left. Holidays and the like, he won't accompany me for many days. He may take me where he goes. Every time he feels particularly bored, he will accompany me to the supermarket to buy something on weekends, and maybe even go shopping with me. But every Friday, he just says I won't come back tonight. I will go back to my hometown from the company to see my parents, or I may get up on Saturday morning and leave. There's everything anyway. Every time I stand quietly at the door with tears in my eyes. Then a man goes on doing what he should do. At that time, there were public washing machines, and many people didn't worry about hygiene. He washes clothes, washes clothes, washes socks, washes close-fitting clothes and cleans shoes every day, because I think since I don't go to work, I should do all the housework well. If he wants to play, let him play. He usually works hard and goes to play on weekends! I don't want him to take me out once, but it is possible that I can't take it out without him. All my requests were rejected, and I even felt that he was disgusted with me. I stayed there alone for a long time, and I found that I hadn't spoken for a long time. Because there was no speaker, he came home late and I fell asleep. He left before I woke up in the morning. I suddenly worry that if I go on like this, I will lose my ability to speak. I'm in a hurry, and my stomach is getting bigger and bigger. I tried to talk to myself. At that time, we didn't have a TV or a computer at home, so the telephone function could only make calls and send messages, which was boring. The bigger the belly, the more serious the waist. It's normal to ask anyone if they were born. It's normal to ask a doctor. It's very hot, and it's painful to take a bath every day. You should bring a bench, a pole, a towel to wipe your body and a towel to wipe the bathroom floor. People can't move every time they take a shower. You have to sit on the bench and rest for more than an hour before you can barely move. You should dry the floor with a towel. Then hook the trousers to the position where they bend the handle on their side with a clothesline. Although they are resting, they can't bend from the front and can't lift their feet when they come out. In a word, the most painful day of my life was that time. Take a plastic bench with you every time you go to the toilet. Because it is a squat toilet, you need to stand on the bench to get up, so that you can live day after day. At that time, I was particularly sleepy and felt lack of sleep. Go to bed in the afternoon, set the alarm clock to 4 o'clock and go downstairs to buy food and cook. The alarm clock rang many times, and I barely got up to freshen up and went downstairs to buy food. Although I am very sad, my husband cries every day regardless of whether he asks or not.

Fortunately, I lied to myself to understand him, but one day I walked down the stairs on the fifth floor step by step. I'm too big to see where my foot is. I am careful every step, because if I accidentally fall, no one will take it seriously. When I went down, the uncle in the duty room saw me. He said, why are you down again? It's too difficult for you to get up late. I said I'd come to buy food, he asked. With this sentence, I suddenly burst into flames. I dare not look at that uncle. I turned away and choked. I went out of the yard and wiped my tears to buy food. When I came back, I was afraid to see him. I left quietly and hurriedly. When I went upstairs to buy food, I grabbed the iron fence next to me and slowly and carefully moved to the fifth floor. Because it was an old house many years ago, there was no elevator, and the floor at that time was higher than the current building. During the whole pregnancy, I asked my husband to buy food and cook when he came back from work twice. Because I'm afraid he will be angry, I pretend that I can't buy food with a stomachache today, so you can buy it when you come back. Same excuse twice. In fact, it is because my stomach is getting bigger and bigger, my waist and feet are not good, and I feel too heavy and tired. He is really tired. He just made an excuse to buy vegetables and cook twice. He bought a cabbage with a little lean meat and a handful of onions. He did it because he couldn't cook. I always cook the rest of the time. Many times, I worked hard and waited for a long time, waiting for him to send a message. I'll save the delicious food for him and cook it the next day. He didn't come back for dinner. He often does this. It's really tiring. I didn't talk about it until I just lay down at night when I was about to give birth. My amniotic fluid suddenly broke. I asked him to help me up, because I was afraid to move casually, for fear of being in a hurry. I cried. What should I do if the thing I am afraid of every day finally comes? I was in a hurry. It was midnight. He casually said to go to the hospital, but it was inconvenient for me to go out in the middle of the night and take a taxi without a car. Walking on the stairs is afraid of giving birth. What should I do? I am very tired. I don't want to move at all It is particularly cold in winter and the road is slippery. Although I cried for a long time, I didn't feel safe at all. I panicked. I really can't call my mother in the middle of the night to ask what to do. My mother is also anxious when she is far from home. My mother felt that she told me a lot of treatments, which made me ready to give birth to what I needed, and then comforted me not to be afraid. After talking to my mother on the phone, I felt a little relaxed, but my husband sitting on the side suddenly said, don't let the old man worry when you call in the middle of the night like this? What's the use of crying now? Can crying solve the problem? Everyone has children, and there is no one like you. The reaction in my heart is that nothing is cold, so I pour cold water with ice. I've written down all the benefits during this period, and I'll work out the account later if you like. I didn't say anything, but I knew it. After crying for a long time, he said he had gone to the hospital and asked someone to pick him up. The other party reluctantly drove a broken private car. We walked into the street and went to see a very small private hospital. There are only three wards, two of which are occupied and one is empty. There are six women and six children crying in my ward. My child is too old to have a caesarean section. Ward. The lights are on all day and night. It's so noisy that people can't rest at all When the needle of anesthesia stick came down from the operating table after caesarean section, two doctors carried me to bed. Probably took it off at that time. I cried bitterly for two days, and then he spoke again. There is no woman like you. How can you not endure the pain at all?

Hey! I don't want to say anything more. I have met such a man in my life, and my life is completely ruined. My waist hasn't improved at all since I gave birth to the baby. Until now, six years later, I have used everything and I am still paralyzed. This man is the terminator of my life. This marriage completely ruined everything for me. I lost even the most basic health. I burst into tears every time I think about it, including now. This is my slave life as a woman for ten months. Not to mention the princess that day. If you talk too much, you will burst into tears and your heart will be dead. Thanks to you, your injury will continue to hurt.